EDUCATING A CHILD...9/23/17 - Page 4

Originally posted by: basha221

Of course aslimaa Papa will discuss and decide their daughter's future what is the need to discuss about her future with aaya. Some people already saying Shagun is best mom with this CV's make remaining people also say Shagun is best mom in world and ishita is worst. Wow CV's keep going. This time please don't let Ishra unite for Trp sake this is my only request.

Looks like Raman suddenly woke up from a bad dream called Ishita whom he married for Ruhi to get her custody from his adulteress ex-wife Shagun and believing that Shagun is the "Knightini in the black armor to save their daughter Ruhi from the clutches of evil step mother Ishita and ran to her to decide Ruhi future deceptively once again. He wants to decide Ruhi's life with a person who abandoned her at 6 months of age and tried to harm her time and again the recent being dropping her off at Nidhis' place to get her beaten up. This shows clearly the emotions of a father who values his daughter and how much Raman loves Ruhi and what he thinks of Ishita and how he values Shagun as a wife. Can a script get any more pathetic and disgusting than this? Why can't CVS marry off SHARAM and be done with it? This is degrading the original character portrayed as Raman. I can understand impulsive or angry but this is beyond disgusting and Raman is beyond repair since the surrogacy. No woman should tolerate or stick with this guy for real. He is downright abusive, un civil and disrespectful and deceitful and petty. Not worthy to be called a husband. I don't want to say unworthy father though he is that too... but children can't choose whom to born to as it's their fate that is landing them with fathers like Raman and mothers like Shagun. But a woman can choose to marry or stay with a person like Raman.

And for mentioning the facts the way this show is showing what Ishita to Raman and wishing for Ishita to take a stand against this kind of ill treatment and abuse some of the younger lot came running to this thread to tell us to "GROW UP". Amazing, isn't it? I didn't know that accepting ill treatment and domestic violence against the women is the new trend called "GROWING UP. For voicing against domestic violence (btw: here is the definition of what domestic violence in case if it is understood as love - "violent or aggressive behavior within the home, typically involving the violent abuse of a spouse or partner) Raman was dishing out on Ishita we were called "Nazi Feminists "and mocked as "feminism rocks".

(here is the definition of feminism - Definition of feminism

1:the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes

2:organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests)

And some of these comments are from female folks and now I am not sure what they would call themselves??. And the lastly some were pitying or feeling sorry for our kids... for what? Talking about taking a stand against abusive behavior. Or not liking Raman being a bully, abusive towards his wife and daughter. It's amusing to read these kinds of comments.

I fail to understand why these people preach what we should or shouldn't do in the forum. What is the need to preach, mock or criticize? Again, I read comments like how rude Ruhi is with Raman? That is show and for drama sake the script is written like that, but here in the forum it's real people and why couldn't these folks who come and mock think that they are also doing the exact same thing that they are talking against Ruhi. Double standards?? Finally, if you don't like to read what some of us write in the forum don't read it. There is no need to get upset. Know and understand the meaning of "minding own business".