So cvs are done with all suicidal ideas they showed hanging ...great
Param...he was devastated and was saved at the nick of time..
I can understand his state..but that's reality...his past can never be erased. Yes he's turned over a new leaf..deserves a chance ...agree..but others don't know that..they end time to understand and know him.
Ishu asks asks him to forget and the line..we have also forgotten that..So she has moved on..and forgiven him..
So when she said she will find out what's going on there..simmi didn't like it...so just coz her hubby was accused she shouldn't go there?...really?..if thats the case param should ever be in bhalla house as he sexually moles ted ad tried to rape ishita.so everybody has to forgive the bhallas..but the bhallas will not forgive everybody..except ofcourse shagun..kudos
All she wanted to do was to check on that kid..who overheard everything...and has no idea whats going on..a confused innocent kid..
From her pov kiran was right in protecting the kid...she has done the same thing with Anaya, and pihu..talk to them about differentiating the good/bad touch..so she wants to talk to that kid who is confused..now..is it wrong?..NO.its...i will be flabbergasted if anyone says its wrong..clearly they lack common sense. The society and today's world is like that..none should be trusted..as its the family member or a known and close person who do this to our kids , as he will never be suspected and believed..thats whats happening now..
So simmi never understood it..all she could see was her ex being accused but the core issue is forgotten as its a serious issue..and she immediately asked...so according to you none should be trusted right?
Ishu said yes..none should be ...
None are safe in today's world, and a mom should be vigilant of her kids..and a mom is in fear of all this..
Kiran was right in her fear..but she doesn't know any of us that well..she needs time to understand all of us...so she might have suspected him..and she was indeed wrong the way she reacted..she shouldn't have done that..and could've handled it otherwise. Now all i wanted to tell you is, kiran's fear is not wrong..its very real..
Simmi..still wasn't convinced..and asked if she thinks kirans accusation on param was right ? Do you agree?
I..both are completely different...don't know why you are confusing these 2..
I'm not accusing param ..kiran is not wrong..as a mom she's in fear..that's all
So ishu never accused param..good..she's not wrong at all..
So simmi turned to raman and asked if he supports ishu in this?
Raman looked at ishu..you2 were never in agreement with your own kids..but when It came to my kid you both are standing together?
R..all i wanted to say is I'm not supporting anybody..yes people do mistakes and people do change..I know I'm on whose side and know what to do...don't worry I'm with you ..
so i have a question..had he been in kiran's position will he stay calm?..heck no..we knew how he reacted with Nidhi. Andnever let ishita come bear pihu..thinking she's gonna kidnap that kid..so how is ishu wrong?..i don't get it at all...and he himself is a father of 2 girls..anyways ..So raman is with simmi.... Ishu leaves..
So according to them..ishu is wrong..wow.. wow ..wow...
So why is miku all quiet?..Wasn't even she molested by ashok?..of course she cant see eye to eye with her akka..but with her jiju she can..great...so thinks ishita is wrong..another brainless fool.
At shagmanis
Shagun with ruhi...and she appreciates ruhi for acting wisely in this situation..and asks about the office..ruhi doesn't say anything..
She says she needs to be responsible in life..and be serious in life..so shagun says she knew everything about nikhil and ramans reaction...
Ruhi was taken aback..shagun..he's your dad..his reaction is understandable and I can agree why he doesn't want you to meet nikhil..
Ruhi by now has had it..and says this is exactly what i expected..good, stay by his side..you did whatever you thought was good for you and thought what was right for you..and I shouldn't...why the double standard?
And now all talk about responsibilities ..i wasn't at fault to fall in love with nikhil..i didn't know i will face this much problems in my life..cos of this...why dint papa understand his side of the story and keeps yelling all the time..
Shagun..may be its abut his past?
R..who doesn't Have a past?..everybody has it..all I'm saying is nikhil is not a bad person that's all..why is he being judged all the time...i trust him...and you and dad can waste all the time you have in not trusting him and continue judging him..I trust him and I'm not judging him...so until my ishima is with me..i don't care for others at all..I'm sure that my ishima will always understand and help me..so i don't care..
The thing what ruhi wants to establish is nikhil is a good guy..and not to judge him.and love never came in here at all...but I don't want ruhi to take advantage of ishita..and stay calm.
At iyers
Looks like ishu is going to talk about the good touch and bad touch for this kid who is confused after the thinks she overheard..Amma is not sure..as its an adult talk..
Ishu doesn't want to postpone these things coz shes a child...as these things are everywhere.
I agree with ishu..the talk has to be done. ..an absolute must..for the safety and the well being of an innocent child.
The talk
So it begins
She apologizes for the fight ...I'm sure amma would've spoken to you..I'm going to do the same thing..wonder why we want to talk about all this? cos we love you to keep you save..as you are a innocent kid...you trust everybody right...but if they try to touch you..never let them touch you...this is your duty..never let anybody touch you..
Coz you are special and your body is yours ..your temple..sacred...and none can touch you without your permission...none have the RIGHT to touch you without your permission..
The butterfly and the doggie examples were brilliant, simple and efficient way to get your message across ..beautiful...that even animals know what it is and run away from strangers..so you should know what is good touch and bad touch..
Amma wants her to stop..bala wants her to continue
So she talks about dressing..so she says touching hands, feet,, is ok..but not completely ok...but if people touch your private parts..that's a bad touch..
Amma is ok, So is appa ..when changing clothes and your doctor in ammas presence..otherwise ..none..no one touches your private parts as its yours and yours only..no one can see it or touch it without your permission.
Beautifully said..very simple ..without crossing the line..Wish simmi, raman an mihika heard this...and also said neither should she see anyone's else's parts either..
So ishu draws a safe circle chart and explains it to her..
Paati, amma,appa ..came in that circle
Anybody other than that..
Outside circle..like friends, other family member, . Brothers..who tries to touch out a bit differently ...that's bad touch..
Then she says that hugging people in the safe circle you feel good..but certain people's hugs are not good ..if you don't feel good if they touch your private parts with a bad intention that's wrong...if strangers touch you even on hair or cheek and if you feel otherwise..you should not let them touch you..
So kshitija wanted to know what she should do if that happens ..smart kid..
Ishu says tell No..and if they say its a secret..between us..say no..and runaway and inform mom and dad..you should share everything and anything with mom and dad...
She gave the clear precise and perfect talk to her..and never talk to strangers..ask for pswds...so the family should come up with protocol..
Ishu says its better to educate these kids early in this day and age..
It's night..ishra scene..
So she tells him that she spoke to kshitija. which she did with ananya and pihu ..But he's ignoring her
This is what i didn't like..this is about the safety of a child..and he has ego problems with this?..he himself Has 2 daughters ..come on seriously ...
Ishu gave up and goes to him saying she's not judging param and wants him to make param understand from a mothers pov ...and the ignoring continues
And ishu says unless they talk nothing will get sorted...simmi will not listen to me as she thinks she's siding her parents..and asks if he is still mad at her for ruhi and nikhil...shes ok bu urges him to talk to simmi ...im hoping he talks to simmi..keep everything aside..just see form a mothers pov..do the role reversal ..keep Ananya and pihu there and see..
Precap
Ishu comes to know that raman as stripped ruhi off all her projects..ishu sees sit as a punishment..raman sees is at a lesson /teaching her a lesson ..and she want stoknow if ruhi is going to learn anything from this...to raman whenkids go out of control parents have no choice adn want sto know if ishita has a problem. This is going to back fire..shes going to been even more..so hes not ready to make ruhi understand his pov by talking to her ..but enforcing his ideas on her...very good...good job...all the very best...
Overall...a good episode..I liked it..A MUST WATCH FOR PARENTS AND KIDS..MAINLY THE TALK...IT CAN BE A WASTE FOR THE REST OF THE POPULATION...BUT AN ABSOLUTE MUST OFFERED A GUIDELINE HOW TO TALK AND WHAT TO TALK TO THIER CHILDREN.
loved the talk...whoever wrote those lines..take a bow...perfect for a kid that age, no boundaries/ lines were crossed, no vulgarity...it was to the level which the kid of her age can understand and identity good and bad touch...that's the beauty i loved. The awareness has been created...so far its handled well..its a very sensitive topic..sexual molestation of a child...till now its maintained..thats clear in the talk. Sexual molestation well explained. I'm sure all mothers can understand and agree with this...for once her lecture was to the point and informative and educative.
Had shagun / mihika said what ishu said to simmi...the reaction will be..well ...his reaction/action said it all.
Episode belonged to DT...a natural with kids
Jhanak
