circumstantial misunderstanding ...9/20/17 - Page 3

Originally posted by: zindagi4pyaar

As if raman has proved himSelf 2 b gr8 husband...

Meine toh aisa bhi nahi kaha...

Originally posted by: zindagi4pyaar

U are talking as if raman has never hidded nything 4rm ishita...

Wen he was accused 4 vandus murder... Ishita was d one who was disowned by her mother 4 supporting raman.. But wat raman did he was wid his ex wife...

Was ruhi even ib d state of listening... C was cutting everyone wen dey tried 2 say sumthing...

Did ishita encouraged ruhi by sayi g go beta meet nikhil meet his daughter... No na...

Dont drag past mistakes here inorder to justify ishita's action


Ishita has also a long list

Not only Raman

Leave all things aside just tell me would any mother would like n support her daughter to be in a relationship with a man who is almost 10 to 15 years elder who is also divorced with a kid who is just half of her age ?

Originally posted by: zindagi4pyaar

4rm which ishitas line u got dat ishita is supporting ruhi in all dis...

Didn't c siad ruhi abt all d future scenario ke kya kuch ho sakta hai...

C infact said dat he was her luv... Euhi jeeds tym 2 4rget all dis...

If one parent is not ready 2 listen 2 der children den d other parent have 2 be drr wid drr child so dat der children dont take sum extreme step...

N about sohail track raman was d one jisne sohail ke tarifooo ke pul banana chalu kiya tha...

N wen ruhi said 2 ishita dat c will kill herself if c wont allow her 2 meet sihail.. Toh ishita kya karti c might have waited 2 wale up raman n family so dat ruhi culd have cutted her wrist n all...

U need to watch Ruhi's lub confession episode...tab aapko pata chalega ki ishita ka support ke baare mein...papa samjhenge vo nahi samjhenge toh khon samjhega...papa ko samjhayenge blah blah blah

Ruhi ko ishita ko manipulate karna bohut ache se aata hai...isliye toh Ishita ko manipulate karke Ruhi sohail se milne ka demand poori karwayi...Ruhi ko khud ko manipulate karne mauka khon deta hai ...khud ishita ne

Ruhi ko pata hai agar vo Ishita ko manipulate karenge toh Ishita usko support karegi chahe vo ghalat kyu na ho...

Watched the episode and after watching felt :

Hi viji,
After watching today's episode and reading comments Iam literally laughing. I don't know why some people supporting raman and some are ishita. In my opinion both are at fault. From beginning raman is like that only he didn't listen to anyone so I don't want to talk about him. What CV's make ishita character that all are hating Ishimaa not ishita which is liked by every person which saw the serial even small kids for what I don't know. May be they want to prove woman who is banj can't be a mother whatever she does then thanku CV's we agree Ishimaa is bannj which raman says we completely agree know.
In todays episode ishita is saying Iam not talking about ruhi marriage with that what CV's want to show us I didn't understand. Why don't she explain ruhi that 1st build ur carrier and then think about love in this age u only get infatuation not love why she keep on explaining raman to talk to ruhi with love. Didn't she know which type of person raman instead of explaining him why don't u talk to ruhi with love and make her understand.
Anyway in the track we will get one dialogue from sharam that ur supporting ruhi love because u want the same life to our daughter which u r living because ur her stepmother and ur infertile.

And in today's episode ishita saying Iam a mother like really ishita u was is will always bannj. Ishita u do one thing u just go to a medical camp let the really parents decide their children future. Because leave good mother ur not even a mother in 1st place it's a request PLs.

I'm extremely sorry for being this late...I had an emergency ...all is good...watched episode 1/2 hour back..so here it goes

Thank you so much Raji for opening the thread...🤗

The episode started from a mother's point of view..and a woman's point of view..which was different.

Ishu...basically wants raman to give ruhi a chance and listen to her ..to give a lending ear...and deal with ruhi very carefully as teenage is precarious and very delicate and sensitive. She listened to ruhi , She is neither encouraging her nor discouraging..but listening to her. which what teenagers expect and want. She never talked about marriage as she said Ruhi..Pyar karthi thi..past tense..so to her..ruhi has moved on but takes time and in the mean time she wants raman to talk to her lovingly. To her ramans behavior will only make maters worse as she might move away or going away from them, loosing her, and this is what she's trying to avoid. Ishu was restless as ruhi was a now show to the pooja...she was confident that ruhi will not runaway..but as a mother worried for her safety. She wants the father and daughter to talk.. not to convince him of her love or his authority..but to clear the misunderstanding between them and develop trust between them. Why? Coz she knows and fears that ruhi might do something stupid..i said this yesterday and the day before..ishita only fears this. Coz once she pulls some stupid stunt..the whole life changes..its a down ward spiral form there. I also said this way earlier..ruhi is 18 ..a major legally ...to get married without parents permission..even the law cannot stop them..thats what she's avoiding. Her lines were always left open ended for us ..she neither approved or disapproved...but she should've told ruhi that this is not the right age to fall in love...she faulted here...yes this is the first time shes raising a teen..its all going to be trial and error..understanding ruhi. But in upcoming episodes she will get to know about the latest developments between ruhil...and we will see her take her stand..as no way is she going to allow her daughter go thru what she went through and still going thru and continues to go thru until her last breath.

Raman...had valid reasons...dreams and aspirations for his daughter...absolutely agree...but his method of authoritative ness is what ishu is having problem...and that is a problem. He doesn't like to be questioned and forces his decisions on others...Coz this will make teens rebel even more and take drastic steps. His entire hatred for nikhil Is only based on poojas story...it was one sided. He even asked ruhi take care of nikhil..if I remember right. And Like ishu, he too jumped to conclusion that ishita is talking about marriage. He was a worried father when ruhi was a no show at pooja. Wish he didn't use that tone with ishuta and ruhi.

Ishra...as parents both don't want nikhil for ruhi...coz of the complexities of a divorcee with a kid..and these 2 are fully aware of it...they are in the same page here. Both don't want their daughter married this young...both want her to explore better prospects ..higher education..they have the same goal.

Sibling rivalry between adi and ruhi..you did i cant, i can, back off, not gonna let you win buddy ..attitude between these 2...more ego

Romi ruhi.. scene...nice..again what i noticed..romi was calmly listening to her and handling her very calmly...and it never centered around the love...yes romi knows about it..but to me it looked like ruhi wanted to share and not to misunderstand her or misjudge her and trust her.

Ruhi...she wants her parents to trust her...and not to judge her. Yes she was rude to everyone..screeching and screaming...what she fails to understand is that she too misunderstood her parents. She respects her dad..thats why when nikhil offered her a ride..she stopped for a minute to think of her dads warning...and half heartedly agreed..in fact not even agreed..even after nikhil tried to convince her..she was coaxed or pushed as she had no choice and remained quiet ...and had to head back home in this balmy weather...that's the only thing she had in mind...reach home.

Ruhi this girls thinks she is in love..she thought she found a soulmate with nikhil..as both went thru betrayal. So she thought oh wait a minute..this is eerily similar..when my parents can make it work why not me?..she thought is apiece of cake..what she didn't realize was both were in 30's when they took this step..vs her a teen...

Today's episode was all about circumstantial misunderstanding ...9/20/17

Not given a chance to talk ...all reactions based on 1/2 baked truth. Yes no matter how old the children get they are always babies to us...but there are times when you have to treat them as adults, respect them and listen to them and guide them as they are matured and have the experience in life and mentor them.

So its clear ruhi did not try to run away or a romantic number as perceived..but was thrown out by her dad as her palm struck her uncles cheek accidentally.

And why is mihika and Raman on the same frame? And why is she always attached to him like an umbilical cord? And looking like a couple

And the saree..

Ishus hideous and ugly yellow saree..vs mihika's...

I can understand that bahus don't get good wardrobe..but come on..this bad?...even the past few episodes..all had gajra..except ishta...it was ishita who always went nuts and adorned gajra.. ...wondering if theres a problem!

Amma is finally worried for ishu...wonder of all wonders...And the saree tore again..so she wore another saree...so relationship breaking again..good going..