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Posted: 8 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: beckysharp



Hi, I think you got it wrong. You feel that I was saying was that you are an Ishita critic. My comment was not for ishita. I meant that you are upset with Ishita being nice to Shagun and thinking of Shagun as a confidante and treating her as a friend despite all the harm she has caused.

Let's look at it this way, we see Raman has his confidantes in Mihir and Romi.

Ishita used to have Bala as her friend. And Vandu and Mihika as her emotional support. In the current scenario, who is supporting her when she is at her most vulnerable state? Emotionally and mentally she is confused, lost and hurt. Toshi and Mihika tricked her by playing in her emotions to get her back to Bhalla house. Mani and Shagun are manipulating her emotional vulnerability. Though she is unaware of that currently. She needs an anchor. And that is Shagun for her. She is grasping at straws to keep her head above the water. Remember, they had once shown Raman also going back to work for Ashok?

Imagine what her reaction will be when she finds out that it is Raman who is Gulabo? My request before being so upset with the cure scenario, imagine Ishita's vulnerability is that extent, that she is looking to Shagun for support. She is so so lost and confused.

Have ever not done the same in our life sometimes? Reaching out to the one person we cannot trust but have to because he is the last resort?

I rest my case here.

Well Said ..@ bold .it's as simple as that..@ italics...I can't even imagine that...don't know how she might react...@ pink..perfect...it does happen in real world ,..last resort ...perfect word. Thank you
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Mdwst

You're moving ?!.. wow..new place, new people, new experience...congratulations and good luck.
Come back after setting in...
@ purple ...😆...true that...

Thanks Viji😊
Hopefully the serial is still on air till then😆
Miss reading Raji Maya reviews too..
Take care and see u..😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
#33
So Shagun and Mani subtle manipulation continues to take Ishita's time from her disturbed child Pihu... And the nanny why she is so eager to fill ishita's shoes with Pihu? Can't she wait until Pihu feels comfortable a little?
And what's with her physical abuse on Pihu out in public on the first day itself? And no one really stop to question.. is it for real? Of course it is i guess.. didn't people just witness someone killing a young woman few months ago in a broad daylight in front of on lookers and no one has courage or humanity to stop it... makes me feel ashamed and sad for the mentality.
And Raman with all the barking and abuse and anger couldn't put the nanny in place while she is abusing his child right in front of him and when she threatened he simply tuck his tail and left from there..
Does this stir any memory for Raman that without any fault of Ishita how he would bark and abuse and make her not his kids' mother in a split second..I doubt it.

"I will always be the person that helps everyone, and the one everyone leaves behind".

This quote perfectly fits Ishita. Everyone both families including Raman abandoned her completely and she is totally broke and letting her pain out with strangers and enemies without even realizing.. she helped everyone family, friend, enemies in every kind of crisis and now she has been hurting for the past 7 years and the person who plunged the knife into her wounds not aware of it, the friend whom she stayed with doesn't want to remember it, both sides of family don't want to acknowledge it and her nemesis who got the most respect and favors doesn't care. What a sad situation for a person who goes to any lengths to do good for others.
All they want is her to get back and maintain the status quo so Raman can have his punching bag back whenever he wants to take out his anger or romance her if he is in a good mood. Toshiji want her peace and happiness by having all her family and kids under one roof and seeing ishita working in the kitchen along with Neelu and solving everyone's problems. Mihika probably doesn't want her marital life getting disturbed by not having Romi in the house. And mrs Iyer not sure what she will lose if she gives a shoulder to Ishita... May be Raman is helping them or she didn't want to ruin her friendship with Toshiji...but she rather wants to see Ishita dead than standing for herself or something terribly that's been happening over and over and over.

"Just because she's smiling all day doesn't mean she's not crying herself to sleep every night."

And I always wonder why we as human being want to see someone suffer and cry? Until we see them break down and cry we will not stop hurting them, abusing them. Just because someone's not crying doesn't mean they aren't hurting..

I have no hopes that CVS have the required sensitivity or maturity to handle ishita's pain.i sincerely doubt even Gulabo is going to address her pain as we already knew the purpose of this character...take care of Shagun and may be pihu and what will happen when ishita finds out that Raman acted this way for pihu ke liye with a bonus to help out Shagun... The heartbreak she suffers i can't even imagine.
Or CVS simply make a joke of this whole thing and make ishita pack her bags and go back to Raman so his favorite past time of abusing her continues..

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Posted: 8 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Lacustris

So Shagun and Mani subtle manipulation continues to take Ishita's time from her disturbed child Pihu... And the nanny why she is so eager to fill ishita's shoes with Pihu? Can't she wait until Pihu feels comfortable a little?
And what's with her physical abuse on Pihu out in public on the first day itself? And no one really stop to question.. is it for real? Of course it is i guess.. didn't people just witness someone killing a young woman few months ago in a broad daylight in front of on lookers and no one has courage or humanity to stop it... makes me feel ashamed and sad for the mentality.
And Raman with all the barking and abuse and anger couldn't put the nanny in place while she is abusing his child right in front of him and when she threatened he simply tuck his tail and left from there..
Does this stir any memory for Raman that without any fault of Ishita how he would bark and abuse and make her not his kids' mother in a split second..I doubt it.

"I will always be the person that helps everyone, and the one everyone leaves behind".

This quote perfectly fits Ishita. Everyone both families including Raman abandoned her completely and she is totally broke and letting her pain out with strangers and enemies without even realizing.. she helped everyone family, friend, enemies in every kind of crisis and now she has been hurting for the past 7 years and the person who plunged the knife into her wounds not aware of it, the friend whom she stayed with doesn't want to remember it, both sides of family don't want to acknowledge it and her nemesis who got the most respect and favors doesn't care. What a sad situation for a person who goes to any lengths to do good for others.
All they want is her to get back and maintain the status quo so Raman can have his punching bag back whenever he wants to take out his anger or romance her if he is in a good mood. Toshiji want her peace and happiness by having all her family and kids under one roof and seeing ishita working in the kitchen along with Neelu and solving everyone's problems. Mihika probably doesn't want her marital life getting disturbed by not having Romi in the house. And mrs Iyer not sure what she will lose if she gives a shoulder to Ishita... May be Raman is helping them or she didn't want to ruin her friendship with Toshiji...but she rather wants to see Ishita dead than standing for herself or something terribly that's been happening over and over and over.

"Just because she's smiling all day doesn't mean she's not crying herself to sleep every night."

And I always wonder why we as human being want to see someone suffer and cry? Until we see them break down and cry we will not stop hurting them, abusing them. Just because someone's not crying doesn't mean they aren't hurting..

I have no hopes that CVS have the required sensitivity or maturity to handle ishita's pain.i sincerely doubt even Gulabo is going to address her pain as we already knew the purpose of this character...take care of Shagun and may be pihu and what will happen when ishita finds out that Raman acted this way for pihu ke liye with a bonus to help out Shagun... The heartbreak she suffers i can't even imagine.
Or CVS simply make a joke of this whole thing and make ishita pack her bags and go back to Raman so his favorite past time of abusing her continues..

Wow Raji
It actually pricked my heart...it was sad, hurtful and Painful.
Everybody want her back for selfish reasons...has anyone asked what she wants?..no..
That nanny was abusing pihu in broad day light..and people are watching..seriously..in front of a school.iys a high traffic area,,and still none raised or intervened.?!..
Your quote fir ishita is perfect...you erfrctly portrayed ishita...well said...
@bold...lets hope for the best...segments doesn't look promising either...lets c...
Thanks Raji
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Posted: 8 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Thanks Viji😊

Hopefully the serial is still on air till then😆
Miss reading Raji Maya reviews too..
Take care and see u..😊

Hi Sumi..
Most welcome
I miss their takes too..
😉...lets c...
Take care and take it easy
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Posted: 8 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Wow Raji
It actually pricked my heart...it was sad, hurtful and Painful.
Everybody want her back for selfish reasons...has anyone asked what she wants?..no..
That nanny was abusing pihu in broad day light..and people are watching..seriously..in front of a school.iys a high traffic area,,and still none raised or intervened.?!..
Your quote fir ishita is perfect...you erfrctly portrayed ishita...well said...
@bold...lets hope for the best...segments doesn't look promising either...lets c...
Thanks Raji

thank you Viji..
Yep.. no one cares about her pain.. and no hopes with UC spoilers segments.. yes watching her pain hurts us as women..hope this ends soon..
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Posted: 8 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: beckysharp



Hi, I think you got it wrong. You feel that I was saying was that you are an Ishita critic. My comment was not for ishita. I meant that you are upset with Ishita being nice to Shagun and thinking of Shagun as a confidante and treating her as a friend despite all the harm she has caused.

Let's look at it this way, we see Raman has his confidantes in Mihir and Romi.

Ishita used to have Bala as her friend. And Vandu and Mihika as her emotional support. In the current scenario, who is supporting her when she is at her most vulnerable state? Emotionally and mentally she is confused, lost and hurt. Toshi and Mihika tricked her by playing in her emotions to get her back to Bhalla house. Mani and Shagun are manipulating her emotional vulnerability. Though she is unaware of that currently. She needs an anchor. And that is Shagun for her. She is grasping at straws to keep her head above the water. Remember, they had once shown Raman also going back to work for Ashok?

Imagine what her reaction will be when she finds out that it is Raman who is Gulabo? My request before being so upset with the cure scenario, imagine Ishita's vulnerability is that extent, that she is looking to Shagun for support. She is so so lost and confused.

Have ever not done the same in our life sometimes? Reaching out to the one person we cannot trust but have to because he is the last resort?

I rest my case here.

I get you what you are trying to say and i understand that ishita is seeing shagun as the last resort...but i am just unable to digest that of all the people ishita has to find solace in shagun's company just like couldn't digest the fact when raman choose shagun as the surrogate mother just because he didn't have any other option at that time...and just like how raman took risk with shagun and later has to pay the price ,ishita is also walking in the same path which might land them in trouble...in both the case the type of behavior shown by raman and ishita is not normal because shagun is not only a manipulative evil person but also she is ex-wife of raman and i believe people don't involve any ex's to this extent in their personal life...imo.
i was irritated with raman also whenever he involves shagun in their personal space and i am annoyed with ishita too for the same reason

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