Originally posted by: Lacustris
"Stop asking me to trust you when I am still coughing up water from the last time you let me drown".
That pretty much sums up the look Ishita gave to Raman when she once again decides to leave the house giving a reason to take care of Shagun. While in reality the minute Mani expressed how he is not going to be there for Shagun and how Alia is young and can't be able to take care of "delicate" Shagun.
I watched not all of it but the beginning.. as I was very upset with Ishita's move to take care of Shagun and I really want to interpret the scene properly. So she caught Raman's act, and there is no way she is going to trust him and very rightfully so. If he didn't want to play the game he should've walked away. Again the same behavior I am seeing. If this plan of Toshiji and Mihika is successful and Ishita stayed back there is no reason for him to get upset and give an earful to his mom and Mihika. But since it didn't work he was visibly upset and walked away. He could've gotten more from Ishita if Neelu didn't come to get her.
Then when he was giving his support to Mani and when Ishita was assuring Mani "Mothers will go thru this and deliver healthy babies" I noticed a smile on Raman's face and it sort of made me wonder... why he had that smile? What is the reason? Definitely he is not happy about Shagun condition, then it dawned on me. That smile he will only give in two occassions... one when he is proud of Ishita and the other he knows he fooled her... which one is it?
I could go both ways- he is happy and proud that this woman is his kids' mother as he is seeing her selfless love or concern for Shagun who doesn't even deserve any kindness from anyone. (He may make me eat my words for saying this) the other one is he is so sure that he fooled her and she forgot all about the drama that happened before . Just at the same moment Ishita looked at his face and decided to go to Mani's house to take care of Shagun. I just laughed watching Raman's face... Checkmate Mate!!! Can't fool her all the time, because she is letting you have your way all this time you stopped valuing her feelings now you need to taste the defeat once in a while too...
Nice move by Ishita. She is not in love with Shagun but she saw this as an opportunity to get away from this pressure from family to make her feel guilty to come back to Raman and maintain the status quo as is. And she doesn't want to be subjected to those insensitive treatment from him anymore. Her taking kids is once again to make sure that kids are not totally neglected in this disagreement between the parents.
Then that leads to Adi... This kid is making me cry. Of all this crisis he is the one getting more affected more than anyone. Shagun pregnancy, her mother leaving the house (for him it's once again he is living the nightmare of not having his mother with him.) all are getting him to lose his sane mind. Here is the kid who was happy to get a mother finally only to lose her again. This time though he was with his father who was drowning himself in his self inflicted wounds and alcohol to mask the pain and his birth mother who cares nothing for him, he was still a lonely teenager who longed for his mother. When he found her he thought life will be normal, again he almost lost her to some invisible man who put his sane mind once again on the edge. Then again he thought all is well, now his mother took a decision she never took until now. For the first time Ishita started to stand for herself and now Adi the teen kid doesn't want to understand nor accept it. Because now he understood by being nice life has been giving short stick to him all the time. Even now his mother took his sisters with her thinking he is a grown boy and he is not ready to let go of her nor go and stay in shagun's house. He was so adamantly telling Ishita today he has no other mother and she is the only one. Ishita too understood his pain but this time if she gives in, the vicious cycle will never end and she knows that. So she tried to tell him the reason for her moving to Mani's house is not really to take care of Shagun but to be away from Raman so he can understand the gravity of his behavior towards her. But by then Adi stopped listening to her (Bhalla men syndrome I guess). May be in a way she wants to help her friend too to ease his worry.
And the conversation between all - still Raman couldn't get it. He is still thinking that Ishita is doing this out of zidd though he said sorry so many times she is not giving him a chance. But the million $$ question that Raman is missing why is he saying sorry multiple times? Why Ishita who never took this kind of extreme step decided to take this step? What made her leave him and her son and the family whom she loves more than herself. Everyone guessing why she did what she did made me sad for Ishita. No one understood her pain irrespective of her repeating multiple times with multiple people. Only Bhallaji came close to guessing something hurt her really and that is why she took this extreme step. Kudos to him. Not even Ishita's Appa nor her sister and more importantly Raman the man who claims to love her to the moon and back couldn't understand Ishita's pain. All Ishita wants him to introspect and realize what he is saying to Ishita in anger is killing her more than anything and she is dying. What is more saddening for me is it took lot of convincing from a family to convince Raman to try to correct his behavior and get his wife and daughters back home.
"You didn't love her. you just didn't want to be alone. or maybe, maybe she was just good for your ego. Or, or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life,
but you didn't love her. Because you don't destroy people you love." - Grey's Anatomy
Not much to talk about Mani other than that he lost his brain along with his bramhacharya on that fateful night.
About Param.. Ayyo what happened to his brain... he is the most intelligent villain in YHM and now he seems to have misplaced his brain... probably donated to Nidhi as she is coming out to be more intelligent than anyone in YHM currently.
Girls I hope I didn't disappoint you all!!!😳
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