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Posted: 8 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: sky-if

Nice reviews Viji and Raji.

DT and KP were brilliant as usual.


As for the characters, am not sure where the CVs are headed .. Raman though he apologized and said 'I luv u' multiple times seems to have no clue and thinks Ishita is angry while in reality she is hurt. So when Ishita questions Raman about how long the apology will last for - a better question would have been 'what are you apologizing for?' :)

I did like the fact that Raman asked Ishita if she thinks he is the one always wrong - in this situation both were wrong and she did accept and apologize.

The older folks are equally clueless and have no real game plan to solve the matter. Also always showing Raman drunk for every problem .. 😕

Am waiting to see where the CVs will take this.. If the past is any indication, there will be more drama before the gulabo comedy hits. Closure? Who knows?!:)

Hi thank you
The leads were amazing..
You rightly spotted the difference...its hurt not anger...@ bold..I liked that...that would probably give him a clue ..@ italics...yup. The elders..have no plan or idea on how to address this issue...they are clueless. Closure?.. good question. Thank you
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Viji,

I am loving the episodes.

CV are doing a brilliant job👏 they are brining back the subtleties of YHM 1 in both Ishita and Raman character. I hope they continue with this instead of losing their mind on Shagun once again.


Coming to the episodes:

Shagun is pregnant for the fourth time so the problem between Mani and Shagun is solved. 👏 Aliya gives a pep talk to Mani about the kid and she is excited for the kid to come.

Ishita is hurt and she shows Divya the book which has nothing on it. Divya says to her its empty Ishita says to her my husband is like that he talks more but does less Raman gets mad he says to her I apologized I planned this dinner and stops in the middle realizing what he said Ishita is more hurt by his words she forgot even two people are sitting opposite to them and says to him you planned it so all those words did not come from your heart (DT expression and voice modulation, hesitancy in speaking- she portrayed a woman who is hurt beyond her capabilities to withheld the hurt inside her was super👏👏👏) I am sorry Raman whatever you try I am not coming back to the house. She turns to Divya and say sorry to her and ACP. She says to them that he was trying to do something but leaves in the middle Raman expression shows he is hurt with her words. Ishita then tells that they are not ideal couple their marriage is not what it looks like from the outside they are separated Raman is angry now and says to her stop it Ishita I am apologizing why are you making it a big issues come back home he has an annoyed expression. Ishita is super pissed because of his attitude and says to him end it here and says sorry to ACP/Divya and walks out Raman says sorry to them as well and goes behind her.

They come back in different cars Ishita is walking home and he comes and stops her. She says to him leave me alone. Raman says to her I know your are super pissed at me but whatever I said in the restaurant is true I am sorry accept my apology and end this. She asks him are you feeling guilty he expression show he is frustrated that she is not coming back. She asks him for how long, a day, for few hours or few minutes I don't trust your guilt and anger. Raman loses it and says to her stop it how long I have been apologizing you are my wife I know you love me the same way I do so why are making a joke of our marriage I am asking you for an apology accept it and end this and come back home Ishita says to him you don't understand

you shout at me,
blame me ,
I am not sure what to do at that time,
I have to justify myself,
you disrespect me in private and public
You always point on my mother hood.

Raman starts saying kab and turns his face other way so he is not listening to what Ishita is telling him

I'm tired of this repeat cycle I am not able to bear this so sorry please leave me alone and starts walking away from him. Raman loses it and in anger catches hold of her and says to her listen to me what are you saying I'm the only one who does mistake all the times are you saying you never make mistake Ishita says to him this is not about mistake this is about your anger issue look this is a public place and how you are holding me you are not respecting me you are not respecting kids all the time you are raising hands on them, you lose your sense when you are angry so I don't want them in your influence(This dialogue made me think I always wondered why Ishita is saying Raman influence is not good on kids as we all know that he loves the kids but this dialogue triggered a spark in me Ishita is afraid that Ruhi/Pihu are going in Raman foot steps in anger they are forgetting everything else example are Ruhi /Pihu were disrespecting everyone feelings when they were angry and mainly because she is afraid that Ruhi would turn like Raman that in her anger she will destroy herself example being Ruhi was ready to take her life in anger) Raman is frustrated to the core and asks her why are you taking the talk in different directions she just say leave and walks away and Raman says strange woman( Ishita clearly told him today it is not about the mistake but the way he treats her in anger I am wondering whether it reached Raman what she was trying to say)

Ishita comes home closes the door and bangs on the door frustrated for losing her cool she doesn't see appa there but when appa comes and asks her she is okay once again she starts hiding her pain and nods to him that she is okay and asks him why you are not sleeping. He tells her he is worried about her as she is his kid (Kudos to CV for birnging in this nuances her banging in the door crying shows she is frustrated that she lost her cool in front of strangers and opened about her marriage and hiding it from appa says the Ishita who hides her pain is back)

Appa allows her breather and asks her to have coffee with him. He tries to start a conversation saying that she makes coffee like a mother that is why he doesn't miss Madhu. He says to her don't mistake me but why are doing this no one is happy Ishita says to him that she is tired of the repeat cycle with Raman. She leaves Appa monolgue I know you are doing this for Raman but you are hurt more in this.(I liked the conversation it was very mature he sat with his daughter tried to guide her to the path which will give her less tears in her life)

Ishita is trying to sleep but Raman words keep repeating that their paths are different, she has no realtionship with Ruhi and him, She is not a mother by birth in her mind so she finally gives upon sleep and gets up she gets a message from Raman. She keeps put it off but he keeps calling her repeatedly finally she picks up. He asks her to come out She says to him you are drunk you are not in your sense I will not come. He says he will break the door open to see her and starts hitting on the door finally she gives in and says that she will come. Raman is happy that she will come because she loves him.

Raman is happy seeing her and pulls her towards their home Ishita says to him you are stone drunk go home and sleep. He says to her I love you I cannot stay without you that is why I drank She asks him to go repeatedly He comes and hugs her and says I love you lets go home(Kudos to CV once again the drunk Raman understood Ishita pain he hugged her like a parents do when the kid is hurt and says to them I love you that is what Raman did here) He was pulling her to come and Ishita was resisting and she gets bruised in the process Bhallaji walks in and slaps Raman (This scene can be interpreted in two ways I am not sure which way I took it so I am going to write both my pov.

1. Bhallaji interference should have been kept to minimal he should have freed Ishita from holds and asks Romi to take him inside without slapping

2. Bhallaji as a father stood up for Ishita he slapped the guy who was misbehaving with his daughter no matter what the relationship of the guy is with his daughter it like the same way Raman beat Sohail without asking him why he was in the Ruhi room in first place

So I am not sure which side I am leaning on in this scene as both looks correct for me)

Ishita is shocked by Bhallaji behavior Bhallaji continues give a earful to Raman as to why he is misbehaving with Ishita Romi intervenes and takes Raman inside but Raman is pleading that he was only asking sorry to his wife. Ishita is sad seeing Raman state. Bhallajii apologizes to her she says it is not needed and tries to hide the marks given by Raman but Bhallaji sees it and gets mad at Raman but she says to him that is okay he is not in his sense.

The next day morning Toshji gives dress to Bhallaji. He asks whether she took the medication She cries to him saying why are you asking this when you left me alone. He says to her those are two different things this is about ethics so don't bring it up. Toshjii says to him what about Raman he is sad that his wife and children are not with him to receive a business award. She asks him to say to Ishita to act again for Raman. Bhallaji says to her if I ask her she will go but I don't want to ask her after seeing Raman behavior yesterday night. Toshjii tells him at least the kids should go. This is heard by Ishita who is standing in the door.

Precap: Raman is drunk and hit a car. He is refusing to apologize and a fight erupts.


Things stood out for me in the episode:

1. Raman still has not got that Ishita is not angry but hurt

2. Ishita clearly said its not about mistakes she is hurt with the way he treats her in anger.

3. Ishita is afraid that Ruhi is following in Raman footsteps in anger.

4. Clearly no one has any idea at the magnitude of Ishita hurt as she keeps burring it with a smile on her face so it will take sometime for everyone to realize this as of now every one is thinking she is angry.

5. Acp/Divya were the catalyst for Ishita to pour out the pain and Raman to understand she is not doing drama .

6. Bhallaji took the role of Ishita father.

7. Toshiji as usual only wants her grand kids back.

8. Appa/Romi are the only ones who are trying to figure out what the problem is and trying to find the solution others are only picking up side.

9. I don't like drunk Raman. Drinking is not the solution to solve the problem.





KP/DT nailed their scene👏👏 AWESOME acting

Hi Maya
Brilliant...you brought out all the subtleties ..you said it all...
Yes Bhallaji stood as a father to ishita just like raman did with Ruhi...but the slap could've avoided...
@ green...wow..I never thought in that angle...very good maya ..
Maya he was so happy to see ishita...the minute she stood before him..he said come lets go home ...and took her by her hand ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Viji,

I am loving the episodes.

CV are doing a brilliant job👏 they are brining back the subtleties of YHM 1 in both Ishita and Raman character. I hope they continue with this instead of losing their mind on Shagun once again.


Coming to the episodes:

Shagun is pregnant for the fourth time so the problem between Mani and Shagun is solved. 👏 Aliya gives a pep talk to Mani about the kid and she is excited for the kid to come.

Ishita is hurt and she shows Divya the book which has nothing on it. Divya says to her its empty Ishita says to her my husband is like that he talks more but does less Raman gets mad he says to her I apologized I planned this dinner and stops in the middle realizing what he said Ishita is more hurt by his words she forgot even two people are sitting opposite to them and says to him you planned it so all those words did not come from your heart (DT expression and voice modulation, hesitancy in speaking- she portrayed a woman who is hurt beyond her capabilities to withheld the hurt inside her was super👏👏👏) I am sorry Raman whatever you try I am not coming back to the house. She turns to Divya and say sorry to her and ACP. She says to them that he was trying to do something but leaves in the middle Raman expression shows he is hurt with her words. Ishita then tells that they are not ideal couple their marriage is not what it looks like from the outside they are separated Raman is angry now and says to her stop it Ishita I am apologizing why are you making it a big issues come back home he has an annoyed expression. Ishita is super pissed because of his attitude and says to him end it here and says sorry to ACP/Divya and walks out Raman says sorry to them as well and goes behind her.

They come back in different cars Ishita is walking home and he comes and stops her. She says to him leave me alone. Raman says to her I know your are super pissed at me but whatever I said in the restaurant is true I am sorry accept my apology and end this. She asks him are you feeling guilty he expression show he is frustrated that she is not coming back. She asks him for how long, a day, for few hours or few minutes I don't trust your guilt and anger. Raman loses it and says to her stop it how long I have been apologizing you are my wife I know you love me the same way I do so why are making a joke of our marriage I am asking you for an apology accept it and end this and come back home Ishita says to him you don't understand

you shout at me,
blame me ,
I am not sure what to do at that time,
I have to justify myself,
you disrespect me in private and public
You always point on my mother hood.

Raman starts saying kab and turns his face other way so he is not listening to what Ishita is telling him

I'm tired of this repeat cycle I am not able to bear this so sorry please leave me alone and starts walking away from him. Raman loses it and in anger catches hold of her and says to her listen to me what are you saying I'm the only one who does mistake all the times are you saying you never make mistake Ishita says to him this is not about mistake this is about your anger issue look this is a public place and how you are holding me you are not respecting me you are not respecting kids all the time you are raising hands on them, you lose your sense when you are angry so I don't want them in your influence(This dialogue made me think I always wondered why Ishita is saying Raman influence is not good on kids as we all know that he loves the kids but this dialogue triggered a spark in me Ishita is afraid that Ruhi/Pihu are going in Raman foot steps in anger they are forgetting everything else example are Ruhi /Pihu were disrespecting everyone feelings when they were angry and mainly because she is afraid that Ruhi would turn like Raman that in her anger she will destroy herself example being Ruhi was ready to take her life in anger) Raman is frustrated to the core and asks her why are you taking the talk in different directions she just say leave and walks away and Raman says strange woman( Ishita clearly told him today it is not about the mistake but the way he treats her in anger I am wondering whether it reached Raman what she was trying to say)

Ishita comes home closes the door and bangs on the door frustrated for losing her cool she doesn't see appa there but when appa comes and asks her she is okay once again she starts hiding her pain and nods to him that she is okay and asks him why you are not sleeping. He tells her he is worried about her as she is his kid (Kudos to CV for birnging in this nuances her banging in the door crying shows she is frustrated that she lost her cool in front of strangers and opened about her marriage and hiding it from appa says the Ishita who hides her pain is back)

Appa allows her breather and asks her to have coffee with him. He tries to start a conversation saying that she makes coffee like a mother that is why he doesn't miss Madhu. He says to her don't mistake me but why are doing this no one is happy Ishita says to him that she is tired of the repeat cycle with Raman. She leaves Appa monolgue I know you are doing this for Raman but you are hurt more in this.(I liked the conversation it was very mature he sat with his daughter tried to guide her to the path which will give her less tears in her life)

Ishita is trying to sleep but Raman words keep repeating that their paths are different, she has no realtionship with Ruhi and him, She is not a mother by birth in her mind so she finally gives upon sleep and gets up she gets a message from Raman. She keeps put it off but he keeps calling her repeatedly finally she picks up. He asks her to come out She says to him you are drunk you are not in your sense I will not come. He says he will break the door open to see her and starts hitting on the door finally she gives in and says that she will come. Raman is happy that she will come because she loves him.

Raman is happy seeing her and pulls her towards their home Ishita says to him you are stone drunk go home and sleep. He says to her I love you I cannot stay without you that is why I drank She asks him to go repeatedly He comes and hugs her and says I love you lets go home(Kudos to CV once again the drunk Raman understood Ishita pain he hugged her like a parents do when the kid is hurt and says to them I love you that is what Raman did here) He was pulling her to come and Ishita was resisting and she gets bruised in the process Bhallaji walks in and slaps Raman (This scene can be interpreted in two ways I am not sure which way I took it so I am going to write both my pov.

1. Bhallaji interference should have been kept to minimal he should have freed Ishita from holds and asks Romi to take him inside without slapping

2. Bhallaji as a father stood up for Ishita he slapped the guy who was misbehaving with his daughter no matter what the relationship of the guy is with his daughter it like the same way Raman beat Sohail without asking him why he was in the Ruhi room in first place

So I am not sure which side I am leaning on in this scene as both looks correct for me)

Ishita is shocked by Bhallaji behavior Bhallaji continues give a earful to Raman as to why he is misbehaving with Ishita Romi intervenes and takes Raman inside but Raman is pleading that he was only asking sorry to his wife. Ishita is sad seeing Raman state. Bhallajii apologizes to her she says it is not needed and tries to hide the marks given by Raman but Bhallaji sees it and gets mad at Raman but she says to him that is okay he is not in his sense.

The next day morning Toshji gives dress to Bhallaji. He asks whether she took the medication She cries to him saying why are you asking this when you left me alone. He says to her those are two different things this is about ethics so don't bring it up. Toshjii says to him what about Raman he is sad that his wife and children are not with him to receive a business award. She asks him to say to Ishita to act again for Raman. Bhallaji says to her if I ask her she will go but I don't want to ask her after seeing Raman behavior yesterday night. Toshjii tells him at least the kids should go. This is heard by Ishita who is standing in the door.

Precap: Raman is drunk and hit a car. He is refusing to apologize and a fight erupts.


Things stood out for me in the episode:

1. Raman still has not got that Ishita is not angry but hurt

2. Ishita clearly said its not about mistakes she is hurt with the way he treats her in anger.

3. Ishita is afraid that Ruhi is following in Raman footsteps in anger.

4. Clearly no one has any idea at the magnitude of Ishita hurt as she keeps burring it with a smile on her face so it will take sometime for everyone to realize this as of now every one is thinking she is angry.

5. Acp/Divya were the catalyst for Ishita to pour out the pain and Raman to understand she is not doing drama .

6. Bhallaji took the role of Ishita father.

7. Toshjii as usual only wants her grand kids back.

8. Appa/Romi are the only ones who are trying to figure out what the problem is and trying to find the solution others are only picking up side.

9. I don't like drunk Raman. Drinking is not the solution to solve the problem.





KP/DT nailed their scene👏👏 AWESOME acting

you yet again nailed it . 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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nyc review @maya di... n @viji di...👍🏼

i loved it...u both hv described it so well...
i cannot add more...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Viji,

I am loving the episodes.

CV are doing a brilliant job👏 they are brining back the subtleties of YHM 1 in both Ishita and Raman character. I hope they continue with this instead of losing their mind on Shagun once again.


Coming to the episodes:

Shagun is pregnant for the fourth time so the problem between Mani and Shagun is solved. 👏 Aliya gives a pep talk to Mani about the kid and she is excited for the kid to come.

Ishita is hurt and she shows Divya the book which has nothing on it. Divya says to her its empty Ishita says to her my husband is like that he talks more but does less Raman gets mad he says to her I apologized I planned this dinner and stops in the middle realizing what he said Ishita is more hurt by his words she forgot even two people are sitting opposite to them and says to him you planned it so all those words did not come from your heart (DT expression and voice modulation, hesitancy in speaking- she portrayed a woman who is hurt beyond her capabilities to withheld the hurt inside her was super👏👏👏) I am sorry Raman whatever you try I am not coming back to the house. She turns to Divya and say sorry to her and ACP. She says to them that he was trying to do something but leaves in the middle Raman expression shows he is hurt with her words. Ishita then tells that they are not ideal couple their marriage is not what it looks like from the outside they are separated Raman is angry now and says to her stop it Ishita I am apologizing why are you making it a big issues come back home he has an annoyed expression. Ishita is super pissed because of his attitude and says to him end it here and says sorry to ACP/Divya and walks out Raman says sorry to them as well and goes behind her.

They come back in different cars Ishita is walking home and he comes and stops her. She says to him leave me alone. Raman says to her I know your are super pissed at me but whatever I said in the restaurant is true I am sorry accept my apology and end this. She asks him are you feeling guilty he expression show he is frustrated that she is not coming back. She asks him for how long, a day, for few hours or few minutes I don't trust your guilt and anger. Raman loses it and says to her stop it how long I have been apologizing you are my wife I know you love me the same way I do so why are making a joke of our marriage I am asking you for an apology accept it and end this and come back home Ishita says to him you don't understand

you shout at me,
blame me ,
I am not sure what to do at that time,
I have to justify myself,
you disrespect me in private and public
You always point on my mother hood.

Raman starts saying kab and turns his face other way so he is not listening to what Ishita is telling him

I'm tired of this repeat cycle I am not able to bear this so sorry please leave me alone and starts walking away from him. Raman loses it and in anger catches hold of her and says to her listen to me what are you saying I'm the only one who does mistake all the times are you saying you never make mistake Ishita says to him this is not about mistake this is about your anger issue look this is a public place and how you are holding me you are not respecting me you are not respecting kids all the time you are raising hands on them, you lose your sense when you are angry so I don't want them in your influence(This dialogue made me think I always wondered why Ishita is saying Raman influence is not good on kids as we all know that he loves the kids but this dialogue triggered a spark in me Ishita is afraid that Ruhi/Pihu are going in Raman foot steps in anger they are forgetting everything else example are Ruhi /Pihu were disrespecting everyone feelings when they were angry and mainly because she is afraid that Ruhi would turn like Raman that in her anger she will destroy herself example being Ruhi was ready to take her life in anger) Raman is frustrated to the core and asks her why are you taking the talk in different directions she just say leave and walks away and Raman says strange woman( Ishita clearly told him today it is not about the mistake but the way he treats her in anger I am wondering whether it reached Raman what she was trying to say)

Ishita comes home closes the door and bangs on the door frustrated for losing her cool she doesn't see appa there but when appa comes and asks her she is okay once again she starts hiding her pain and nods to him that she is okay and asks him why you are not sleeping. He tells her he is worried about her as she is his kid (Kudos to CV for birnging in this nuances her banging in the door crying shows she is frustrated that she lost her cool in front of strangers and opened about her marriage and hiding it from appa says the Ishita who hides her pain is back)

Appa allows her breather and asks her to have coffee with him. He tries to start a conversation saying that she makes coffee like a mother that is why he doesn't miss Madhu. He says to her don't mistake me but why are doing this no one is happy Ishita says to him that she is tired of the repeat cycle with Raman. She leaves Appa monolgue I know you are doing this for Raman but you are hurt more in this.(I liked the conversation it was very mature he sat with his daughter tried to guide her to the path which will give her less tears in her life)

Ishita is trying to sleep but Raman words keep repeating that their paths are different, she has no realtionship with Ruhi and him, She is not a mother by birth in her mind so she finally gives upon sleep and gets up she gets a message from Raman. She keeps put it off but he keeps calling her repeatedly finally she picks up. He asks her to come out She says to him you are drunk you are not in your sense I will not come. He says he will break the door open to see her and starts hitting on the door finally she gives in and says that she will come. Raman is happy that she will come because she loves him.

Raman is happy seeing her and pulls her towards their home Ishita says to him you are stone drunk go home and sleep. He says to her I love you I cannot stay without you that is why I drank She asks him to go repeatedly He comes and hugs her and says I love you lets go home(Kudos to CV once again the drunk Raman understood Ishita pain he hugged her like a parents do when the kid is hurt and says to them I love you that is what Raman did here) He was pulling her to come and Ishita was resisting and she gets bruised in the process Bhallaji walks in and slaps Raman (This scene can be interpreted in two ways I am not sure which way I took it so I am going to write both my pov.

1. Bhallaji interference should have been kept to minimal he should have freed Ishita from holds and asks Romi to take him inside without slapping

2. Bhallaji as a father stood up for Ishita he slapped the guy who was misbehaving with his daughter no matter what the relationship of the guy is with his daughter it like the same way Raman beat Sohail without asking him why he was in the Ruhi room in first place

So I am not sure which side I am leaning on in this scene as both looks correct for me)

Ishita is shocked by Bhallaji behavior Bhallaji continues give a earful to Raman as to why he is misbehaving with Ishita Romi intervenes and takes Raman inside but Raman is pleading that he was only asking sorry to his wife. Ishita is sad seeing Raman state. Bhallajii apologizes to her she says it is not needed and tries to hide the marks given by Raman but Bhallaji sees it and gets mad at Raman but she says to him that is okay he is not in his sense.

The next day morning Toshji gives dress to Bhallaji. He asks whether she took the medication She cries to him saying why are you asking this when you left me alone. He says to her those are two different things this is about ethics so don't bring it up. Toshjii says to him what about Raman he is sad that his wife and children are not with him to receive a business award. She asks him to say to Ishita to act again for Raman. Bhallaji says to her if I ask her she will go but I don't want to ask her after seeing Raman behavior yesterday night. Toshjii tells him at least the kids should go. This is heard by Ishita who is standing in the door.

Precap: Raman is drunk and hit a car. He is refusing to apologize and a fight erupts.


Things stood out for me in the episode:

1. Raman still has not got that Ishita is not angry but hurt

2. Ishita clearly said its not about mistakes she is hurt with the way he treats her in anger.

3. Ishita is afraid that Ruhi is following in Raman footsteps in anger.

4. Clearly no one has any idea at the magnitude of Ishita hurt as she keeps burring it with a smile on her face so it will take sometime for everyone to realize this as of now every one is thinking she is angry.

5. Acp/Divya were the catalyst for Ishita to pour out the pain and Raman to understand she is not doing drama .

6. Bhallaji took the role of Ishita father.

7. Toshjii as usual only wants her grand kids back.

8. Appa/Romi are the only ones who are trying to figure out what the problem is and trying to find the solution others are only picking up side.

9. I don't like drunk Raman. Drinking is not the solution to solve the problem.





KP/DT nailed their scene👏👏 AWESOME acting

loved it Maya!! especially the one she kept saying about kids and your observation.. bang on. both Ruhi and Pihu are absolutely unrestrained when they were angry. Raman and Ishita as parents have the bigger responsibility to address it. especially with Raman anger management issue which were hindrance in a way to parent the kids by Ishita are the biggest problem to address apart from her deeper hurt that Raman has no clue about.
I am failing to see What and how Raman will even have a clue to what is the issue with ishita.
lets hope they address this sensibly.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Thanks for the wonderful review Viji:)..

yet to watch but seems like a good episode in terms of emotions and acting..
So first was the charming cockiness that failed
then that matter of fact scene where he says let it go..he is sorry ..he loves her that should be enough ..though there was a hint of anger..
and then the third where when both the scenarios failed his vulnerability surfaced under the effect of alcohol..and he is literally cajoling her like a kid ..
But Ishu is unmoved..
In the past Ishu Let her LOVE overpower her HURT
But now she is not letting the HURT be overshadowed by her LOVE..
Viji do you feel she has no hopes left in this relationship any more ..or she wants to stay away ..give it some time and then rethink..
Coz the cvs are constantly stressing on the fact that they love each other very much..

Just yesterday I wished to know the purpose of Shagun's pregnancy ..and today through the segments got my answers..
Shaun Pregnant=Mani's source of happiness =his Ghar ka Chirag=comes on Nidhi's radar=Nidhi Blackmails him=Majboor Mani=Gives in to BM=Nidhi out=Target Ishra=Ishra's already non existent happiness at stake=ishra succumb to Nidhi's evil machinations=Cvs Goal achieved..😳
Goal being -Raman and Ishita should not and cannot be happy ever..

So another Baby becomes the impediment to their happiness and the funny thing is all the kids are from Shagun😊

yes even Nidhi is in their life coz of Shagun😛..

So the cause and Effect of all problems in Raman and Ishu's life is SHAGUN😆





wonderful review Sumi.. especially the @bold - every time Raman kicked her out she always kept her hurt and pain aside and let her heart rule and came running even without Raman apologizing.. and he got used to her not even questioning his irrational and abusive behavior. and more over he became so arrogant in his ability to woo Ishita after all the abuses so the lines between treating her as a human being, as a woman or as a wife or as a mother became so blurred and when angry she became his punching bag. And its about time she takes a stand and hope this doesn't end in a comedy.

you are right. Even the kid that is not even connected to Ishita and Raman becomes another threat to their marriage and happiness all due to Shagun... yep she brought Nidhi too...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: svati12

nyc review @maya di... n @viji di...👍🏼


i loved it...u both hv described it so well...
i cannot add more...

Thanks swati
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: swa6

Thank u Viji Raji Sumi Diksha n Queen...fr ur wonderful reviews...

Thank you swarna
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi Raji
Once again another brilliant take..
Appa has not understood the hurt..even he thinks she's trying to teach raman a lesson..and I said how I saw Bhallaji scene...he reacted ..having said that...there was no need for that ...and it's time Bhallaji and Romi return and guide Raman...when he's in his senses. @ bold...perfect question...I'm wondering too,.is it because ishita promised to stand by him thru thick and think no matter what ..but when she left...he thought its betrayal..she broke the promise..so the anger?to him she understood him more than anybody so the anger?. Yes now is the right time for these issues to be addressed.
@ bold italics...that's why ishita refused to see him..but he was persistent and finally she agreed to see him..

Viji The way i see Raman behavior is a total 180 degrees turn. I can see him as a timid person who got betrayed and humiliated by Shagun and Changed to become a very rude and arrogant person. but though he was insensitive to Ishita initially he started becoming lovable again. But the first time he said Dafa ho jao in an anger and no one stopped him including Ishita and her coming back without him asking her to be back made him to think those words mean nothing. We might have seen little guilty looks and him trying to apologize but her stopping him from doing it gave him this extra confidence that she is ok with whatever he throws at her. then he did the next and the next. Each time she didn't let him know how it hurts her but played along with his romantic gestures. So when will he stop? never probably.
so the first shock was after Ruhi's disappearance the news of Ishita's suicide hit him.. but don't know whether the words he uttered played in his mind or not as i didn't watch the episode, but his denial mode kicked in and he never felt his words caused Ishita to commit suicide. it was due to the loss of Ruhi which she was responsible and she ended her life was all he believed.
even after she came back it was the same thing that drove him.. it's her who lost Ruhi and who disappeared and he had no role. so the abuse continued because she stayed for the kids. yes she loves him more than anything in this world and he knows.. but that didn't stop him to inflict the pain to her when he felt the angry... he without realizing started to hold her responsible for everything that happened with her decisions. it's like he almost expected her to not to execute her rights on kids or him but obey the rules that were written in the house. when those are broken her punishment was extreme anger and abuse.
may be kids showed her the mirror as Maya said because of their uncontrollable outbursts on Ishita and Raman and on top of that the recent extreme outburst from Raman made her realize this man is not having any idea what he is talking when he is mad..
it's her hurt, and the wellness of the familiy and Raman whom she loves like no one all are making her to take a stand... probably she may not need an apology as long as it darns on him the effect of his words and her hurt and him changing for good. lets see how it goes.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi Maya
Brilliant...you brought out all the subtleties ..you said it all...
Yes Bhallaji stood as a father to ishita just like raman did with Ruhi...but the slap could've avoided...
@ green...wow..I never thought in that angle...very good maya ..
Maya he was so happy to see ishita...the minute she stood before him..he said come lets go home ...and took her by her hand ...


Thanks Viji,

Yes the slap could have been avoided. He just could have separated Raman from her.

@ green - Glad you liked my interpretation.

Yes Viji he was like a small kid as soon as he got what he wanted he wished to take it home but I hope he stops drinking soon that doesn't look good.




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