INTERVENTION BEGINS... 2/2/17...

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Mrs. Iyer has made her appearance with 2 bowls..
There you go Mrs. Iyer started started...this woman his no clue and she's lecturing...

Mrs. I...Ishu I thought you always take the right decisions, whatever it is my ishu never takes the wrong steps.what is this?...severing relationships, Leaving home..aayiooo. All marriages have problems..doesn't mean you break the relationship..your dad and I have been thru a lot..did I leave him?...no what happened to you?..How dare you?..
Ishu..you and dad are a diff story..you've always been a team..you've always supported him..why? Coz you trusted him, you know he will, not act irrationally and do things in anger, he was well behaved..so you stood bY him..you always taught me that, to follow the right path and have you head held high.
We've always followed that...most importantly...dad respects you..a mutual, he respected you and so did you. You've always fought together, it's always been that way, so it was easier for you. What does my children see...constant yelling, disrespecting their mother in public...(raman was like what is this?..really Raman, don't tell me you never did this. so you don't agree that you never disrespected her...leave it...). I see that my kids father is not a good example for their children...he's not showing the right path for them...my son..is grown up..he knows what is right and wrong...but my daughters...nope this is not the right environment for them..

Ishra scene
Raman..hogaya thera lecture?
I..Thera..(indicating he is disrespecting him..yet again)
R...so all of you think , I'm at fault?..what are you trying to prove? That I don't love my kids?I love them more than anything in the world...(yes we all agree)..just a reminder..in case you've forgotten..when we married for the first time..we married for Ruhi KE liye..I did it for my daughter..but when I comes to this..I would've proved ruhis innocence somehow ...(so he has no plans ok)
I...how are you going to do That?..if you can't prove then what?
R..just be quiet...
I..if you can't prove, them ruhis life is ruined..(valid point)
R..I'm not a god to

Ishra/ Romi scene
There was no need for romis interference..yes he was trying to diffuse the situation..but what's the need ...let them talk..but the minute Romi said the lines..I figured they are taking the comedy route ..
Romi interrupts..why don't you people just stop..what's wrong with you 2.. ruhis is back..why the fight now?..bhabhi at least...Asks his bro to apologize..
Raman gives him an ultimatum..in this everybody is with her..so what about you? Whose side are you in, my side or her side?
(So raman brought the situation up...which forced Romi to take sides..)
Romi chose bhabhi...raman says he didn't want any explanations..he got his answer ..(fair enough ..and leaves..so to him..he was right ..ok)

Mika says how can Romi do this and Romi says I'm doing what I felt right..
Now toshiji joins too...then yesterday's precap plays..toshiji" chale jao iske sasth"..that iske...(how easily she alienated ishita...iske...ok...)
Toshiji says.." ok fine..leave, sever all relationship and go With her..."... (so all couples are separated...)
Toshiji ...well done ishita, you broke our family apart, you resurrected a wall in the family/relationship..this is not good,
Adi leaves, toshiji leaves"

Simmi gets a call...it's Gaurav...wants her to accompany...simmi denies and hangs up
Gaurav and param meet...he's come to invite the minister...and param was being professional..but Gaurav things otherwise..

So everybody leaves..ishita with Amma..

Ananya with pihu...ananya says they will miss each other..
Pihu says...you know..after coming from Aussie...I left everything at mummas house to live here..I'm doing the same thing now...I don't understand..what to take and what to leave behind...
Mika sees this..

Toshiji asks bhallaji ...why is he doing this..why can't he talk with ishita and make her understand ?
B..really? Raman has not even realized what he's done...he's not even apologized to ishita...or ashamed of his actions...or tried to make peace with her..which girl in her right mind would live with him?.. (valid)..that's why I'm going it's ishita ...to make him understand. You are blinded by your motherly love..you are encouraging his behavior, why can't you talk to him?..(good question Bhallaji)
T..Why will he apologize to ishita..whatever he does it's for his daughter!..(true..so ishita is not her mother.?..so it's ok if raman did this out if libe fir his daughter but nit ok I ishita if ishita did this?... this this double standard...you are still blaming ishita..aren't you not getting that..the very reason she's leaving?!)...won't you do the same thing?
B..no I will not..I'm not an emotional fool like you and ur son..(bang on Bhallaji.)

Romi--raman
Romi asks Raman lol..this guy..is scared of his bro..his reasoning...what a joke...I'm going there to keep an eye on bhabhi, I am your informer...now Romi says all women are like that...raman thanks Romi for being on his side.
Romi..But why don't you say sorry and stop her...
(Wow Raman is super confident that ishita will come back..this guys has not or will ever realize the enormity and the magnitude of his hurtful words..he's taking it very cool...)
Raman Says she will return with the same speed she left
But Romi is not sure...Raman is super cool and over confident
That everybody will come back...coz he believes in his love for his wife...he loves her so much..that no one in the world can love his wife the way he does..she can't live without him and even amma is not siding with her...

Ruhi looking at the pic and crying and adi consoles her...says their parents love each other very much and cannot live without the other..(finally light bulb moment for ruhi..she's guilty and accepted its all coz of her..and blames herself...good for you ruhi...) adi says their parents will get back together..they will get them back together
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Mika ..ishu
M...I didn't t expect this from you..I'm very disappointed in you...I've always supported you...but this time...it's not right...even now you are not changing ur decision after knowing about pihu...
I...why should I change my decision..I'm doing this for my kids..I don't need ur opinion
M...do U think it's right.
I..i know how to handle kids..I'm thinking in the long run...
M..yes you do..but you are doing the same thing shagun did..taking pihu away from us
Please leave it...let it go?!..(seriously ?..shagun..wow..kudos to you dear...)
I..I'm not going to change my decision..just coz you are a repeating it over and over again...This is not the right environment..as a mother I know...I have to teach raman a lesson...it's a long road ahead...as it's not easy.
M..this is not right...I don't think severing the family is right...(darling you too did the same thing..should I jolt your memory?!. Besides Mika we are also disappointed as you keep your mouth shut all along when ur jiju was hurling abisuve words at her...)
I...stop this drama, I will not change my decision
Ishuta was Firm...(I say u go girl ...but don't forget to evaluate yourself too.)

Appa ..ishu
Mr. iyer also feels the same way..courtesy Mrs.iyer..
A...No father wants his daughter's life in shambles..
ishita ...that's not the point, I don't want to do that,... it's about my kids.
Everybody has different t pov..its no wrong ..they are entitled to it...
I'm not bothered it..I'm only worried about my kids. I have no hard feelings...because you and mom don't support me..or in the same page with me. I just want to let him know..he cannot do it over and over again, some will feel I'm right..some may think I'm wrong...it's fine, I don't want to step back...
A..As a dad I will be with you ...(now this is how you deal with the situation. Look at the stark difference with the way amma handled it and the way appa handled it...yes both are unhappy with ishita's step..but one stood by their daughter...maybe even guide her instead of blaming her.)

Team ishita left ..pihu stayed back as she wanted to spend time with ananya..
Raman looks on

Precap
Ishita sent meds with a note thru neelu...Raman thought that ishita will come back..but no...Raman thinks it's a love letter...she sent bill..bubble burst...

Clearly it's going comedy way..no talk nothing..Appa ishu scene was good.
Everything will be swept under the rug...from pihu I can see she wants to stay back...both the kids were hesitant...so kids want to stay back with Raman...good to know...ishuta hon kids are over you..get it hon...leave for your self respect. Raman does not respect ishita...very clear today. Once again the core issues will not be addressed...way to go

On a lighter note...the contents on the 2 bowls still remains a mystery..is it idly and Sambhar? payasam and vada? or vada and sambhar endless combinations...we will never know...

Overall very good...I liked it
DT was very good...in fact everybody were good.

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Hello Viji,

Today episode made me clear as to whose fault IshRa life is in a mess so here it goes. The sole reason is ISHITA only because she fell in love with Raman.

Ishita hurt never reached Raman today and he was cocky that she would be back without him apologizing because she loves him who gave him this much confidence that no matter even if you hurt me I will be like a doormat and bounce back to you it was only done by Ishita.

When Ishita was not in love with Raman Toshjii threw Ishita out of the house but once the problem was sorted did she come back NO Initially Raman did not want to go and say sorry to bring her back first Romi went then Bhallaji went but she refused to budge finally Raman came to call her and both apologized to each other and the next min she did not stay in her amma house.

When Ishita fell in love with Raman he threw her out of the house because of Rinky right after promising her few minutes ago that she would be his first priority and he would value her emotions first. She went out of the house but did she take a stand for him to come and apologize to her for trampling on her emotions NO she came back to Bhalla house without any apology from him

First leap she was thrown out of the house and her things were burnt did she take a stand NO she came back to Bhalla house without any apology.

Once Ishita fell in love with Raman how many times he threw her out of the house still she came back without his apology so if Raman expects here to crawl back without any apology from his side again this time than what is wrong in his thinking because that is what Ishita does every time she comes back to Bhalla house burying her respect so no one respect her.

Coming to the episode:

Simmi/Param/Gaurav - Looks like Gaurav is interested in Simmi and would do anything to achieve his goal. Param was a professional today but he has a slight doubt on Gaurav.

My blood is boiling thinking about amma whatever she said was correct that every marriage fights happen and for that you cannot break a marriage, If she took a stand against Raman in the hospital when he was verbally abusing Ishita using callous words during first leap or for that matter said something to him when he burnt memories of Ishita then her lecture to Ishita I would have accepted. She is never their when Ishita needs support but always comes when Ishita is completely broken and breaks her further.

Ishita says to her amma that your case is different there is no respect in our marriage, what do my kids see that their father always shouts at the mother at home and in public. I don't want my kids to be in this environment my son is grown up but I am taking my daughters with me.(I wish instead of brining up about kids safety she told everyone that it is not me who broke the relationship first it was Raman who said that even after Ruhi comes back our ways are separate and it is not going to meet again)

Raman is angry on her for calling him a bad father nothing else went to head. He says to her I love my kids if you remember I married you only for Ruhi(So he has not moved from Ruhi ki lye face that is why as soon as Ruhi is not there he cuts away ties with her) I would have proved Ruhi innocent after she was safe outside. She question him back what happens if you are not able to prove it. He says to her I would have proven she is trying to tell him Romi intervenes to stop the fight from escalating. He asks why you both are fighting as Ruhi is back safe and sound why don't you guys apologize. Raman is mad and asks him why should I apologize to her tell me whose side are you on. Romi picks Ishita side and Raman walks out.

Mihika asks what is this Romi and he says he with his bhabi this time and immediately Toshjii discards Ishita from the family she doesn't even say Ishita she says she becomes more than a mother too you today and turns to Ishita and accuse her of home wrecker Ishita absorbs whatever accusation is thrown on her.

Bhallaji is packing his bag Toshjii comes and questions him why he is supporting Ishita and he says to her even after all this tamasha your son has not asked sorry to Ishita immediately Toshjii reply comes back why should he. Mr.Bhalla shuts her up saying that you can talk to Raman too. (I liked this conversation both of them were correct in their perspective Toshji wanted Bhallaji to persuade Ishita as she is talking nicely to him and Bhallaji wanted the same thing from Toshjii as Raman was talking nicely to Toshjii)

Ishita/Appa convo - They are the only one standing and Ishita asks appa do you also think what I am doing is wrong. Appa tells her yes no father likes his daughters house to break. She says to him some might accept my decision and some might not even if you don't support me that is okay I am not going to change the decision(My god what an fabulous actress DT is she emoted very well a person who has given upon life or expect anything from anyone👏👏) Appa says to her no matter what I am your father and I will stand by you. She is happy getting a support of a parent.

Raman/Romi convo Romi is apologizing to Raman and manfoying him saying that he is going with bhabi to keep on eye on things and be his informer. He asks him to apologize but Raman is confident that he doesn't need to because as soon as her anger leaves she will come back and more over amma is also my side. Romi says your over confident Raman says to him its not overconfident I have faith in my love more over she loves me more than I love her so she cannot stay without me so she will come back I don't have to apologize(I think Romi realized the extent of his bhabhi hurt and the seriousness of her stand too he realized that it not going to be easy to bring her back once she leaves the house so he was trying to diffuse the situation before even it escalated.)

Anayna/Pihu convo Pihu is sad as to what to take and what to leave in this house as she left something in her mama house after coming back from Australia. (A typical kids reaction worried about her stuff.)

Ruhi/Adi - Ruhi at last realized that it is because of insane love for Sohail that IshRa are at crossroads Adi consoles her and says to her that he is staying here so that they can plan something to unite their parents (Again a typical kids reaction to unite the parents who are separating)

Mihika comes and says to her I am disappointed in you even after saying about Pihu you are still thinking about leaving. Ishita says to her she cannot change her decision Mihika compares Ishita with Shagun saying she is doing the same things taking the kids away. Ishita patience is lost she says to her that I am not changing my decision this for Raman to learn a lesson I am not doing this for my children. ( I have a different take on this lesson line I don't think it pertains to kids or their safety as I stated to you when I started that this post that Ishita is the sole reason for Raman to abuse her now she is going to show him that she is not going to given in easily that is the lesson I think she was talking to about Mihika) Mihika says this is not the way to teach a lesson by breaking relationship ( I was thinking you did the same thing in your suspicion only but here though you akka is talking this step after she was abused numerous times). Ishita says to her she is not changing her decision.


Everyone comes back to the living room Raman is cocky that Ishita would not leave. Appa says to her that he is with her and takes the bag. Ishita calls Ruhi and Pihu Ruhi comes and says to her that Pihu wants to spend some more time with Anayna Bhallaji says lets leave and all four of them walk out. Ishita never turn to look back

Precap: They start of the track is always emotional and very good but in the end they always finish it up as a comedy but here though they are starting the track with comedy so I am hoping it gets emotional and finishes with a bang with both of realizing what they mean to each other.

Things stood out in the episode for me.

1. Ishita state - There is a saying in Tamil that " Sadhu mirandal Kadu koilathu" loose translation if some one who is very quiet burst out in anger than the opposite person would be burnt to ashes. That is the same thing has happened with Ishita she took in all the pain when she could not handle anymore she is bursting like a volcano now.

2. Ishita walking out without turning back signifies that she has given upon this relationship so its up to Raman to make here believe in this relationship.

3. Ishita is not taking kids against their wishes - Yes the kids are sad as the parents are separating but if she was taking them against their wishes then she would not have left Pihu to play with Anayna when she was going out.

4. Ishita is not doing this to satisfy her ego she is doing this because she gave up.

5. Raman has not even realized the magnitude of the hurt he has inflicted the segments were disjointed so could not understand it but looks like he is soon going to realize that Ishita is not coming back on her own.

6. Toshjii accepts Ishita as long as everything is fine for her otherwise she is shown the door. If Ishita has walked out on her own she would not have cared two hoot about it.

7. Amma is like a typical mother who always says to their daughter no matter what you have to adjust with your family

8. Romi is the only one who realized the seriousness of her bhabhi leaving and how she is affected by taunts.

9. Bhallaji and Appa were good today. Both of them did not like Ishita decision but still stood with her as morale support.


Note: I am liking this track hope they take it nicely without OTT drama.



Edited by mayasun - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Viji Thanks for the review😊look forward to them:)
today's episode seemed to be a perfect example of letting a golden opportunity slip away..
and this where as I mentioned earlier bringing the kids in was not a good idea..From Raman's immediate reaction it became a Parental squabble ..with the good parent and the bad parent equations taking precedence..and the result was Raman absolutely lost out on the message Ishu was trying to convey ..His cockiness,Flippancy over the whole issue destroyed the poignancy of Ishu's pain..
I wanted Ishu to keep it strictly between just the two of them ..to voice out how every time with his verbal abuse he would break her ..coz at the end of the day with all of Ishu's faults like hiding stuff from her husband ..wanting to do everything herself ,a wife does not deserve to hear -"I wish you were dead.I will kill you continuously like a chant whenever things go out of hand,,. burning of her stuff in anger... and so on and so forth


Ishu let go of the opportunity to convey her pain as a person by bringing in Ruhi and pihu..for once she should have kept her role as a mother aside ,,but then again it will be a different Ishu if she did so.. someone we wouldn't know ..coz she did come into Raman's life as Ruhi's mom..



fine mihika had her point of view but comparing Ishu to Shagun..has this woman lost it😲

Amma is hilarious😆

I do not take toshiji seriously .she is like a pendulum😆


so an intense track is going to turn into a comedy track..why am i not surprised..

Separation is the most maligned word in yhm..

Cvs portray separation as a "SAAT SAMUNDAR PAAR" types

when in reality it is
Hop Skip and Jump from sasural to maika,separation accomplised
then Hop Skip and Jump from maika to Sasural separation over..😆

Maybe since it s beginning of the track we are not getting the introspection and closure of their pain and insecurities as a couple..it will come when the track ends..hopefully..fingers crossed


Edited by sumita_ghosh - 8 years ago
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Thanks for the detailed review😛
Yet again cvs are forcibly routing to comedy track.
Raman is not at all taking his words seriously. No self realization😕. Again he's shouting at her? I mean she's leaving the house, why can't he just try to stop her once? In segments they showed he's asking her to come back,okay, but if he would have done today, it would have been different😕.
And ishita, when amma asked her why is she doing this, she told all other things except raman's words where he called her ruhi is not your blood and all. That's the main point, why she left that? Maybe cvs knowingly didn't focus on those dialogues, to make it a comedy track. How pathetic🤢
I watched few scenes, I didn't feel like they emphasized on raman's words, instead they are focusing on Raman illegal activity of getting ruhi out, he's not being good example, not a safe environment, actually, Bhalla kids have seen worst and ugly situations than this.
I really still can't believe that they changed this too into a comedy track😡
Anyway segments showed that ishita is back to bhalla house, there is no proper redemption as usual.
Bhallas treating Raman like some murderer
Shagun's pregnancy, hawaldar love track, every thing is so messy.
I just wish ishita don't become an aaya for the woman who constantly called her aaya many times, she doesn't deserve that.
I seriously hope iishita give birth to a baby, I'll watch the scene happily and bid good bye to the show forever🥱

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Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Viji Thanks for the review😊look forward to them:)

today's episode seemed to be a perfect example of letting a golden opportunity slip away..
and this where as I mentioned earlier bringing the kids in was not a good idea..From Raman's immediate reaction it became a Parental squabble ..with the good parent and the bad parent equations taking precedence..and the result was Raman absolutely lost out on the message Ishu was trying to convey ..His cockiness,Flippancy over the whole issue destroyed the poignancy of Ishu's pain..
I wanted Ishu to keep it strictly between just the two of them ..to voice out how every time with his verbal abuse he would break her ..coz at the end of the day with all of Ishu's faults like hiding stuff from her husband ..wanting to do everything herself ,a wife does not deserve to hear -"I wish you were dead.I will kill you continuously like a chant whenever things go out of hand,,. burning of her stuff in anger... and most importantly No wife deserves to be abandoned when she needs her husband the most ..


Ishu let go of the opportunity to convey her pain as a person by bringing in Ruhi and pihu..for once she should have kept her role as a mother aside ,,but then again it will be a different Ishu if she did so.. someone we wouldn't know ..coz she did come into Raman's life as Ruhi's mom..



fine mihika had her point of view but comparing Ishu to Shagun..has this woman lost it😲

Amma is hilarious😆

I do not take toshiji seriously .she is like a pendulum😆


so an intense track is going to turn into a comedy track..why am i not surprised..

Separation is the most maligned word in yhm..

Cvs portray separation as a "SAAT SAMUNDAR PAAR" types

when in reality it is
Hop Skip and Jump from sasural to maika,separation accomplised
then Hop Skip and Jump from maika to Sasural separation over..😆

Maybe since it s beginning of the track we are not getting the introspection and closure of their pain and insecurities as a couple..it will come when the track ends..hopefully..fingers crossed


Hi Sumi
@ bold..you nailed it...she didn't make use of the golden opportunity and it became good parents vs bad parent..and yes ..he still did not get it..yesterday I saw a subtle reaction when she said I'm being made to feel a barren ..today..it's gone...i was like dude...which part of ishita's Barren comment..did younnot understand?...😲
@ blue...agree..no wife deserves that kind of words from her husband...NO.
@ green..yes she did...I was thinking...wait..did she actually feel her relationshop is over and done?.so set the mother role front and center?...
@ red...yes it's become a comedy track now..,,sigh
@ purple ...🤣
@pink...hope so
Thanks Sumi and I loved your take ...

Edited by Mdwst - 8 years ago
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"80% women use silence to express pain. You know she is truly hurt when she chooses to ignore you."


I just watched it..wanted to watch yesterday's but they are no longer there..
Raman has compression issues when it comes to ishita's pain and he was too cocky and one thing for sure.. he has zero respect for Ishita and he thinks she being in love with him comes back crawling to him by herself as she can't stay away from him.. he doesn't need to apologize nor realize..
Girls are not happy to leave the house so I don't know how they packed their stuff yesterday..
Mrs. Iyer and Mihika full on blaming ishita as they couldn't understand her pain...and today unfortunately Ishita made it more about her kids than her pain.. the one she should've insisted is how she gets to be not their mother and how it's creating insecurity in her and her pain to be reminded over and over about her inability to give birth by not so subtle hints(?).. and until Raman realizes what is Ishita in his life..there is no way this relationship can continue as she is always on the edge about her role in kids life..
Today she clearly said her son grew up and knows right or wrong but daughter need guidance..
But her saying there is no respect sums it up i guess which sounded like an alien concept to Raman
Overall I liked it..
but the CVS dropped Shagun in today's epi as Pihu was sad leaving her toys and all with "mamma" and came here and now leaving this house again.. somehow i see there is no genuine connection with her and Ishita..but her endearment in saying "mamma" sort of grates on my nerves..because I see no warmth towards her mother in any scenes yet..
Ishita holding Ruhi's hand and leaving felt very symbolic to me.. especially leaving Raman behind.. the journey made a full circle as she consciously made a choice to leave Raman for "Ruhi ke liye" as she herself consciously got into this marriage "Ruhi ke liye" and the way Raman was making a point today to make their marriage once again for "Ruhi ke liye" sounded so insincere and more like reminding her "you know why you married me and what you got in return.. i.e. Kids".. so once again he is making it a choice less for her as she couldn't have kids.. and the sad part is he didn't respect the marriage he did for RUHI KE LIYE.. if he did he wouldn't have disrespected Ishita and try to throw her out of Ruhi and his other kids' life..
Let's see how it goes..
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Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Viji Thanks for the review😊look forward to them:)

today's episode seemed to be a perfect example of letting a golden opportunity slip away..
and this where as I mentioned earlier bringing the kids in was not a good idea..From Raman's immediate reaction it became a Parental squabble ..with the good parent and the bad parent equations taking precedence..and the result was Raman absolutely lost out on the message Ishu was trying to convey ..His cockiness,Flippancy over the whole issue destroyed the poignancy of Ishu's pain..
I wanted Ishu to keep it strictly between just the two of them ..to voice out how every time with his verbal abuse he would break her ..coz at the end of the day with all of Ishu's faults like hiding stuff from her husband ..wanting to do everything herself ,a wife does not deserve to hear -"I wish you were dead.I will kill you continuously like a chant whenever things go out of hand,,. burning of her stuff in anger... and so on and so forth


Ishu let go of the opportunity to convey her pain as a person by bringing in Ruhi and pihu..for once she should have kept her role as a mother aside ,,but then again it will be a different Ishu if she did so.. someone we wouldn't know ..coz she did come into Raman's life as Ruhi's mom..



fine mihika had her point of view but comparing Ishu to Shagun..has this woman lost it😲

Amma is hilarious😆

I do not take toshiji seriously .she is like a pendulum😆


so an intense track is going to turn into a comedy track..why am i not surprised..

Separation is the most maligned word in yhm..

Cvs portray separation as a "SAAT SAMUNDAR PAAR" types

when in reality it is
Hop Skip and Jump from sasural to maika,separation accomplised
then Hop Skip and Jump from maika to Sasural separation over..😆

Maybe since it s beginning of the track we are not getting the introspection and closure of their pain and insecurities as a couple..it will come when the track ends..hopefully..fingers crossed




Do you think if ishita only brought her bag then any one of the family will try to stop her in my pov no if she taught to go alone then mrs bhalla would have been said sab kuch teek hogaya na tu kyun jaana chathi hai phir bhi tu jaana chathi hai tho jaa
tab ishita ke paas yeh chance bhi nahi hota ki apna baath familh je saamne rak paaye
thoshiji ne ishita ko sirf issiliye rok na chahi kyuki ishita uski pothiyon ko leke jaa rahi thi
aur raman ko tho lagta hai ishita 2din me waapas aajayegi .ishu ne apna gala paad paad ke kahi ki mere pathi muje respect nahi karta phir bhi raman ko jara bhi parak nahi pada tho who akeli jaa rahi hothi tho woh aisa hi soche ga na gusse meh jaa rahi hai jab gussa tanda hojayagi tho vapas ajayegi
2episides ki footage khake ishitha ne apna dard jahir kiya woh sarre deaf ears me chaligaye
agar akeli chaligayi hothi tho woh kaha gayi uss bayh ki kisi ko kabar hi nahi rahata
haa mr bhalla thoda chinta karega baadh me samajdaar kudi hai vapas aajayegi yeh sochke relax hojatha
its purly my pov
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: --QUEEN--

Thanks for the detailed review😛

Yet again cvs are forcibly routing to comedy track.
Raman is not at all taking his words seriously. No self realization😕. Again he's shouting at her? I mean she's leaving the house, why can't he just try to stop her once? In segments they showed he's asking her to come back,okay, but if he would have done today, it would have been different😕.
And ishita, when amma asked her why is she doing this, she told all other things except raman's words where he called her ruhi is not your blood and all. That's the main point, why she left that? Maybe cvs knowingly didn't focus on those dialogues, to make it a comedy track. How pathetic🤢
I watched few scenes, I didn't feel like they emphasized on raman's words, instead they are focusing on Raman illegal activity of getting ruhi out, he's not being good example, not a safe environment, actually, Bhalla kids have seen worst and ugly situations than this.
I really still can't believe that they changed this too into a comedy track😡
Anyway segments showed that ishita is back to bhalla house, there is no proper redemption as usual.
Bhallas treating Raman like some murderer
Shagun's pregnancy, hawaldar love track, every thing is so messy.
I just wish ishita don't become an aaya for the woman who constantly called her aaya many times, she doesn't deserve that.
I seriously hope iishita give birth to a baby, I'll watch the scene happily and bid good bye to the show forever🥱

Welcome dear
Yup it's a comedy track...and yes no realization. ishita's pregnancy...nope..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lacustris

"80% women use silence to express pain. You know she is truly hurt when she chooses to ignore you."


I just watched it..wanted to watch yesterday's but they are no longer there..
Raman has compression issues when it comes to ishita's pain and he was too cocky and one thing for sure.. he has zero respect for Ishita and he thinks she being in love with him comes back crawling to him by herself as she can't stay away from him.. he doesn't need to apologize nor realize..
Girls are not happy to leave the house so I don't know how they packed their stuff yesterday..
Mrs. Iyer and Mihika full on blaming ishita as they couldn't understand her pain...and today unfortunately Ishita made it more about her kids than her pain.. the one she should've insisted is how she gets to be not their mother and how it's creating insecurity in her and her pain to be reminded over and over about her inability to give birth by not so subtle hints(?).. and until Raman realizes what is Ishita in his life..there is no way this relationship can continue as she is always on the edge about her role in kids life..
Today she clearly said her son grew up and knows right or wrong but daughter need guidance..
But her saying there is no respect sums it up i guess which sounded like an alien concept to Raman
Overall I liked it..
but the CVS dropped Shagun in today's epi as Pihu was sad leaving her toys and all with "mamma" and came here and now leaving this house again.. somehow i see there is no genuine connection with her and Ishita..but her endearment in saying "mamma" sort of grates on my nerves..because I see no warmth towards her mother in any scenes yet..
Ishita holding Ruhi's hand and leaving felt very symbolic to me.. especially leaving Raman behind.. the journey made a full circle as she consciously made a choice to leave Raman for "Ruhi ke liye" as she herself consciously got into this marriage "Ruhi ke liye" and the way Raman was making a point today to make their marriage once again for "Ruhi ke liye" sounded so insincere and more like reminding her "you know why you married me and what you got in return.. i.e. Kids".. so once again he is making it a choice less for her as she couldn't have kids.. and the sad part is he didn't respect the marriage he did for RUHI KE LIYE.. if he did he wouldn't have disrespected Ishita and try to throw her out of Ruhi and his other kids' life..
Let's see how it goes..

Raji ..wonderfully written post 😛loved your Ruhi ke liye interpretation ..she came into his life Ruhi ke liye and now leaving it again for Ruhi ke liye..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: jakkula.sirisha


Do you think if ishita only brought her bag then any one of the family will try to stop her in my pov no if she taught to go alone then mrs bhalla would have been said sab kuch teek hogaya na tu kyun jaana chathi hai phir bhi tu jaana chathi hai tho jaa
tab ishita ke paas yeh chance bhi nahi hota ki apna baath familh je saamne rak paaye
thoshiji ne ishita ko sirf issiliye rok na chahi kyuki ishita uski pothiyon ko leke jaa rahi thi
aur raman ko tho lagta hai ishita 2din me waapas aajayegi .ishu ne apna gala paad paad ke kahi ki mere pathi muje respect nahi karta phir bhi raman ko jara bhi parak nahi pada tho who akeli jaa rahi hothi tho woh aisa hi soche ga na gusse meh jaa rahi hai jab gussa tanda hojayagi tho vapas ajayegi
2episides ki footage khake ishitha ne apna dard jahir kiya woh sarre deaf ears me chaligaye
agar akeli chaligayi hothi tho woh kaha gayi uss bayh ki kisi ko kabar hi nahi rahata
haa mr bhalla thoda chinta karega baadh me samajdaar kudi hai vapas aajayegi yeh sochke relax hojatha
its purly my pov quote[ ] quite possible..

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