INTERVENTION BEGINS... 2/2/17... - Page 2

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Viji Thanks for the review😊look forward to them:)

today's episode seemed to be a perfect example of letting a golden opportunity slip away..

and this where as I mentioned earlier bringing the kids in was not a good idea..From Raman's immediate reaction it became a Parental squabble ..with the good parent and the bad parent equations taking precedence..and the result was Raman absolutely lost out on the message Ishu was trying to convey ..His cockiness,Flippancy over the whole issue destroyed the poignancy of Ishu's pain..

I wanted Ishu to keep it strictly between just the two of them ..to voice out how every time with his verbal abuse he would break her ..coz at the end of the day with all of Ishu's faults like hiding stuff from her husband ..wanting to do everything herself ,a wife does not deserve to hear -"I wish you were dead.I will kill you continuously like a chant whenever things go out of hand,,. burning of her stuff in anger... and so on and so forth

Ishu let go of the opportunity to convey her pain as a person by bringing in Ruhi and pihu..for once she should have kept her role as a mother aside ,,but then again it will be a different Ishu if she did so.. someone we wouldn't know ..coz she did come into Raman's life as Ruhi's mom..

fine mihika had her point of view but comparing Ishu to Shagun..has this woman lost it😲

Amma is hilarious😆

I do not take toshiji seriously .she is like a pendulum😆

so an intense track is going to turn into a comedy track..why am i not surprised..

Separation is the most maligned word in yhm..

Cvs portray separation as a "SAAT SAMUNDAR PAAR" types

when in reality it is

Hop Skip and Jump from sasural to maika,separation accomplised

then Hop Skip and Jump from maika to Sasural separation over..😆

Maybe since it s beginning of the track we are not getting the introspection and closure of their pain and insecurities as a couple..it will come when the track ends..hopefully..fingers crossed

Originally posted by: Lacustris

"80% women use silence to express pain. You know she is truly hurt when she chooses to ignore you."

I just watched it..wanted to watch yesterday's but they are no longer there..
Raman has compression issues when it comes to ishita's pain and he was too cocky and one thing for sure.. he has zero respect for Ishita and he thinks she being in love with him comes back crawling to him by herself as she can't stay away from him.. he doesn't need to apologize nor realize..
Girls are not happy to leave the house so I don't know how they packed their stuff yesterday..
Mrs. Iyer and Mihika full on blaming ishita as they couldn't understand her pain...and today unfortunately Ishita made it more about her kids than her pain.. the one she should've insisted is how she gets to be not their mother and how it's creating insecurity in her and her pain to be reminded over and over about her inability to give birth by not so subtle hints(?).. and until Raman realizes what is Ishita in his life..there is no way this relationship can continue as she is always on the edge about her role in kids life..
Today she clearly said her son grew up and knows right or wrong but daughter need guidance..
But her saying there is no respect sums it up i guess which sounded like an alien concept to Raman
Overall I liked it..
but the CVS dropped Shagun in today's epi as Pihu was sad leaving her toys and all with "mamma" and came here and now leaving this house again.. somehow i see there is no genuine connection with her and Ishita..but her endearment in saying "mamma" sort of grates on my nerves..because I see no warmth towards her mother in any scenes yet..
Ishita holding Ruhi's hand and leaving felt very symbolic to me.. especially leaving Raman behind.. the journey made a full circle as she consciously made a choice to leave Raman for "Ruhi ke liye" as she herself consciously got into this marriage "Ruhi ke liye" and the way Raman was making a point today to make their marriage once again for "Ruhi ke liye" sounded so insincere and more like reminding her "you know why you married me and what you got in return.. i.e. Kids".. so once again he is making it a choice less for her as she couldn't have kids.. and the sad part is he didn't respect the marriage he did for RUHI KE LIYE.. if he did he wouldn't have disrespected Ishita and try to throw her out of Ruhi and his other kids' life..
Let's see how it goes..

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Mrs. Iyer has made her appearance with 2 bowls..

There you go Mrs. Iyer started started...this woman his no clue and she's lecturing...

Mrs. I...Ishu I thought you always take the right decisions, whatever it is my ishu never takes the wrong steps.what is this?...severing relationships, Leaving home..aayiooo. All marriages have problems..doesn't mean you break the relationship..your dad and I have been thru a lot..did I leave him?...no what happened to you?..How dare you?..

Ishu..you and dad are a diff story..you've always been a team..you've always supported him..why? Coz you trusted him, you know he will, not act irrationally and do things in anger, he was well behaved..so you stood bY him..you always taught me that, to follow the right path and have you head held high.

We've always followed that...most importantly...dad respects you..a mutual, he respected you and so did you. You've always fought together, it's always been that way, so it was easier for you. What does my children see...constant yelling, disrespecting their mother in public...(raman was like what is this?..really Raman, don't tell me you never did this. so you don't agree that you never disrespected her...leave it...). I see that my kids father is not a good example for their children...he's not showing the right path for them...my son..is grown up..he knows what is right and wrong...but my daughters...nope this is not the right environment for them..

Ishra scene

Raman..hogaya thera lecture?

I..Thera..(indicating he is disrespecting him..yet again)

R...so all of you think , I'm at fault?..what are you trying to prove? That I don't love my kids?I love them more than anything in the world...(yes we all agree)..just a reminder..in case you've forgotten..when we married for the first time..we married for Ruhi KE liye..I did it for my daughter..but when I comes to this..I would've proved ruhis innocence somehow ...(so he has no plans ok)

I...how are you going to do That?..if you can't prove then what?

R..just be quiet...

I..if you can't prove, them ruhis life is ruined..(valid point)

R..I'm not a god to

Ishra/ Romi scene

There was no need for romis interference..yes he was trying to diffuse the situation..but what's the need ...let them talk..but the minute Romi said the lines..I figured they are taking the comedy route ..

Romi interrupts..why don't you people just stop..what's wrong with you 2.. ruhis is back..why the fight now?..bhabhi at least...Asks his bro to apologize..

Raman gives him an ultimatum..in this everybody is with her..so what about you? Whose side are you in, my side or her side?

(So raman brought the situation up...which forced Romi to take sides..)

Romi chose bhabhi...raman says he didn't want any explanations..he got his answer ..(fair enough ..and leaves..so to him..he was right ..ok)

Mika says how can Romi do this and Romi says I'm doing what I felt right..

Now toshiji joins too...then yesterday's precap plays..toshiji" chale jao iske sasth"..that iske...(how easily she alienated ishita...iske...ok...)

Toshiji says.." ok fine..leave, sever all relationship and go With her..."... (so all couples are separated...)

Toshiji ...well done ishita, you broke our family apart, you resurrected a wall in the family/relationship..this is not good,

Adi leaves, toshiji leaves"

Simmi gets a call...it's Gaurav...wants her to accompany...simmi denies and hangs up

Gaurav and param meet...he's come to invite the minister...and param was being professional..but Gaurav things otherwise..

So everybody leaves..ishita with Amma..

Ananya with pihu...ananya says they will miss each other..

Pihu says...you know..after coming from Aussie...I left everything at mummas house to live here..I'm doing the same thing now...I don't understand..what to take and what to leave behind...

Mika sees this..

Toshiji asks bhallaji ...why is he doing this..why can't he talk with ishita and make her understand ?

B..really? Raman has not even realized what he's done...he's not even apologized to ishita...or ashamed of his actions...or tried to make peace with her..which girl in her right mind would live with him?.. (valid)..that's why I'm going it's ishita ...to make him understand. You are blinded by your motherly love..you are encouraging his behavior, why can't you talk to him?..(good question Bhallaji)

T..Why will he apologize to ishita..whatever he does it's for his daughter!..(true..so ishita is not her mother.?..so it's ok if raman did this out if libe fir his daughter but nit ok I ishita if ishita did this?... this this double standard...you are still blaming ishita..aren't you not getting that..the very reason she's leaving?!)...won't you do the same thing?

B..no I will not..I'm not an emotional fool like you and ur son..(bang on Bhallaji.)

Romi--raman

Romi asks Raman lol..this guy..is scared of his bro..his reasoning...what a joke...I'm going there to keep an eye on bhabhi, I am your informer...now Romi says all women are like that...raman thanks Romi for being on his side.

Romi..But why don't you say sorry and stop her...

(Wow Raman is super confident that ishita will come back..this guys has not or will ever realize the enormity and the magnitude of his hurtful words..he's taking it very cool...)

Raman Says she will return with the same speed she left

But Romi is not sure...Raman is super cool and over confident

That everybody will come back...coz he believes in his love for his wife...he loves her so much..that no one in the world can love his wife the way he does..she can't live without him and even amma is not siding with her...

Ruhi looking at the pic and crying and adi consoles her...says their parents love each other very much and cannot live without the other..(finally light bulb moment for ruhi..she's guilty and accepted its all coz of her..and blames herself...good for you ruhi...) adi says their parents will get back together..they will get them back together

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Mika ..ishu

M...I didn't t expect this from you..I'm very disappointed in you...I've always supported you...but this time...it's not right...even now you are not changing ur decision after knowing about pihu...

I...why should I change my decision..I'm doing this for my kids..I don't need ur opinion

M...do U think it's right.

I..i know how to handle kids..I'm thinking in the long run...

M..yes you do..but you are doing the same thing shagun did..taking pihu away from us

Please leave it...let it go?!..(seriously ?..shagun..wow..kudos to you dear...)

I..I'm not going to change my decision..just coz you are a repeating it over and over again...This is not the right environment..as a mother I know...I have to teach raman a lesson...it's a long road ahead...as it's not easy.

M..this is not right...I don't think severing the family is right...(darling you too did the same thing..should I jolt your memory?!. Besides Mika we are also disappointed as you keep your mouth shut all along when ur jiju was hurling abisuve words at her...)

I...stop this drama, I will not change my decision

Ishuta was Firm...(I say u go girl ...but don't forget to evaluate yourself too.)

Appa ..ishu

Mr. iyer also feels the same way..courtesy Mrs.iyer..

A...No father wants his daughter's life in shambles..

ishita ...that's not the point, I don't want to do that,... it's about my kids.

Everybody has different t pov..its no wrong ..they are entitled to it...

I'm not bothered it..I'm only worried about my kids. I have no hard feelings...because you and mom don't support me..or in the same page with me. I just want to let him know..he cannot do it over and over again, some will feel I'm right..some may think I'm wrong...it's fine, I don't want to step back...

A..As a dad I will be with you ...(now this is how you deal with the situation. Look at the stark difference with the way amma handled it and the way appa handled it...yes both are unhappy with ishita's step..but one stood by their daughter...maybe even guide her instead of blaming her.)

Team ishita left ..pihu stayed back as she wanted to spend time with ananya..

Raman looks on

Precap

Ishita sent meds with a note thru neelu...Raman thought that ishita will come back..but no...Raman thinks it's a love letter...she sent bill..bubble burst...

Clearly it's going comedy way..no talk nothing..Appa ishu scene was good.

Everything will be swept under the rug...from pihu I can see she wants to stay back...both the kids were hesitant...so kids want to stay back with Raman...good to know...ishuta hon kids are over you..get it hon...leave for your self respect. Raman does not respect ishita...very clear today. Once again the core issues will not be addressed...way to go

On a lighter note...the contents on the 2 bowls still remains a mystery..is it idly and Sambhar? payasam and vada? or vada and sambhar endless combinations...we will never know...

Overall very good...I liked it

DT was very good...in fact everybody were good.

Note...my thoughts in color

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi Raji

What a way to begin your comment...hard truth...

Raji he has not realized...what will take him idk...

When was there a connection between ishpi...she only gave her " a chance"..,

Your Ruhi KE liye interpretation ...loved it ...and your comment on the marriage...true ..it hurts

Loved your pov..👏

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Raji ..wonderfully written post 😛loved your Ruhi ke liye interpretation ..she came into his life Ruhi ke liye and now leaving it again for Ruhi ke liye..