rajma idli daily rantings - Page 5

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Vyas, I agree completely with the fact that people tend to have different views about the same scene and tend to visualize it based on their own reasons. Each of us tend to put forth our views and in case of differences, we try to have a conversation with those, who we think would listen to our views and where there are chances of having a healthy debate. Otherwise we tend to ignore many of them.

Now, since a week or so and specifically in the last two days, I feel there is a general name-calling about the people of the forum, by a few people. If people have problems with specific comments, call them out and talk directly, just like how they expect others to have a direct conversation. If not leave it. Why go around other threads and complain about mocking and today you also mock and have fun with others in the same thread?

Just like how people expect that their views should be respected and not mocked, they should also not do that. But today, I found a certain people complaining in other threads taking views from here about Ishita's apology and mocking and ROFLing in other threads. Why so ? You complain and crib when you are attacked and say you are sensitive, but don't hesitate to mock and make fun of other for their views in other threads. Why ? Are the others not sensitive?😕 Why double standards? Now can we generalize and call all those people as hypocrites and bullies because I myself have been a victim of one of those members preaching and lecturing about mocking and bullying.

Why not live and let live? That is my whole point.

Originally posted by: RightWingTroll

well

they can only complain name call and mock

i tried to ask directly as they said but instead got another disclaimer

haha

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Well, I did not want to comment for the last couple of days, but I guess I have seen enough.

I see many people complaining about bullying, mocking and not having freedom in IF. I understand to whom all those comment are targeted. I really wish, a few such people, watch out for your comments and what you write as well. Because there is lot of mocking, taunts and sarcasm in many of your comments as well in the past two days. I would appreciate, if you people, go back, see all your comments you have made and try & practice what you preach.

All said and done, in my personal experience in this forum, I have never seen any one review, I repeat, not one review, including mine as being unbiased or neutral. All reviews tend to take sides of their favorite characters or their favorite relationships for very own reasons. There are a very few people, who try to be unbiased by trying to understand the perspective of both the leads and all the "wanted" supporting characters. and not see the show from the perspective of FL or ML alone, but even then, most part of their comment tends to be in favor of their favorites. I guess it is natural to be that way and there is nothing wrong in that. So there is nothing like being unbiased or neutral in this forum. Even if so, being neutral or considering oneself to be one such or having a command over the language alone does not give people a free pass to consider themselves as superior to other members in the forum and give them the right to treat other members as inferior to them. A very few people have this ego a lot and it shows up in their comments.

If certain people feel that Ishita did not accept her mistake and apologize whole-heartedly today, it is their views. They feel that there was no point in Ishita admitting the mistake to someone like shagun, when she has betrayed the trust of Raman, fair enough. People feel that she just said sorry to Raman, but was still justifying that she can't think anything bad about Ruhi. Everyone knows that neither of them can think bad for Ruhi. So for them, it means she still has not accepted her fault and realized that what she did was a mistake. What is wrong in that? A few days back when Raman apologized to Ishita that he was the root cause of everything, he should have welcomed her when she was back but abused her and he is sorry for what he did, during Adi - Alia alliance. Raman's sorry was considered not detailed enough, heartfelt by few and was written as an eyewash. Now one sorry from Ishita seems to be OK for them. Fair enough. The same people who complained about being mocked, go about in other threads and mock about this comment. Why so?😕 Where is your expectation of not getting bullied gone now? If it applies to them, it applies to others as well , right? It would be really better if people practice what they preach and if they are mocking others, be ready to get mocked in return. After all, you get what you give to others.

Finally, the irony is one among those complaining about bullying and mocking in this forum is the biggest bully ever in IF, ever since I became active.. I have been a victim of her bullying where she wanted me to be a bhaanj like Ishita to understand her pain. Come on mam, you being a woman, want another woman in real life to be infertile for the sake of a fictional character and you call others out and talk about feminism? Heights of hypocrisy. I don't have to name such people. I know that person will read this one for sure and understand herself. So everyone complaining, better watch out for your comments as well and please practice what you preach wide open to others.

Sorry for the long rant everyone. I have been seeing some unnecessary comments, generalizing and targeting the general forum in the past two days. I decide to post here because I feel it is relatively easily to put forward my views here where people are open to differential views, treat other forum members at par even if they have a different view and not demean other members and their views.

NO ONE IS SUPERIOR TO ANYONE IN THIS FORUM. STAY GROUNDED IF YOU MAY PLEASE.😊

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Oh is it? Hmmm. No comments then. 😕

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Oh is it? Hmmm. No comments then. 😕

Originally posted by: gargpoo

well said priya bt nothing will change ..I too have been seeing from last two days y targeting other thread y not direct quote the person who is mocking them instead targeting all .. Now who thinks ishita didn't accept her mistake r expected ishita to fall on raman feet n wat abt wen ppl not ready to accept raman's apology ?? Bcs raman deserve a sheer torture a mere sorry is, not acceptable
Not once he too accepted his, mistake 2/3 times .. Wen ishita ws kidnapped he accepted he lost her bcs his fault then in front of adi he accepted we shud apologize before its too late then before ishra marriage he clearly accepted how wrong he ws he even stayed away from his family being a monster in family's eyes for pihu .ws it not a punishment ge had to stay away from family . And guess wat he nvr accepted his mistake and no redemption at all
We were mocked bashed or wat not still we cmmnt always no one can stop other from commenting its better ppl stop blaming others, for not commenting wen all come to cmmnt wenever there is ish vs ra and raman starts yelling otherwise who cares ..the most weired thing is special thread were opened to call others biased n hypocrite khule aam now crying they don't cmmnt bcs of mocking wen they disappear in positive tracks romantic scenes n wen raman supports ishita or ishita does a mistake bt the moment raman does mistakes they come n blame others like others forced them to stay away from forum . My pov !!..

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

@Poo - I seriously did not want to comment and refrained myself a lot, because already the show is extremely disgusting and frustrating and I don't want to stress myself with this debate that is of no use. These days, the lesser said, the better it is for us.That is why, I'm slowly cutting myself off this show and forum as much as possible. I don't want to spoil my mood on comments and taunts from a set of people,who is completely unrelated and irrelevant to me in my real life. But then targeting the forum members in general, calling the forum in general as bullying, trying to play a victim when they themselves are big bullies,pissed me off to a greater extent and hence I wrote it. Now I am done and happily go back to the "don't care a damn about everything related to the show" zone.😎😆

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Priya & all - follow me and don't go to places where that practice bias and "sweet" bullying. I am much better off and happier seeing the discussion and dissent that takes place here and on segment threads bc people disagree in these places but move on. The only reason I know some of the other things said is because of y'all. IF is a free place and if what is done down is called bullying then what about the sweet people who wish infertilitiy on others? So if you are gonna seek out those places...report comments or directly reply when you are being talked about.

These covert discussions & snub comments are more toxic than disagreeing about Ishita versus Raman discussions bc as is the show doesn't deserve any amount of seriousness from us.

And if this comment is reported than what about other places where discussions about bullying take place? They should be warned and shut down too.

Sorry Vyas if this thread gets a warning but IF is toxic bc of some behaviors are worse than the show itself, which isn't worth a glance outside of for KP and DT's acting (& is the part of reason I can't leave this toxic place 😆)