22.10.2016 ep

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Hello Everyone,

After yesterday's rendezvous, I felt this note is very much important.. Ppl shud really stop meddling with others.. like someone said yesterday that he/she is biased towards Raman, the same way we are just pointing out his mistakes.. if ppl r going to bully and name call others fr such petty issues then sorry to say u should really grow up... if u can't accept soneone's pov then b matured enough to ignore it... TBH yesterday i was on the verge of blasting but restrained myself only coz i don't want any warning in this thread.. BUT DON'T EXPECT THE SAME COURTESY FROM ME ALWAYS.. DON'T EVEN COME UP WITH THE NEGATIVITY LECTURE HERE.. EVERYONE KNOWS HOW POSITIVE THE FORUM IS.. IF U DISAGREE THEN HAVE THE DECENCY TO IGNORE.. JUST COZ U LIKE RAMAN I CAN'T CHANGE MY PERSPECTIVE.. IF PPL TRY TO CHANGE TAT THEN IT'S CLEARLY UR PROBLEM...
This is an open forum and all are entitled to their own pov, so do I... don't try to impose ur pov on others by bullying them..! I don't entertain such stupidity...
Sorry for the rant guys..
seems like it's a filler epi... Romi and simmi are searching for the love birds.. ugh... Lolz when simmi said shagun is in spa, i was like
y r u even amazed?? pihu is totally shagun's daughter and there the mother is busy in spa.. sigh...
And ishita's lecture was good but I'm sorry to say i don't agree with this kind of marriage and beliefs... NOTHING CAN JUSTIFY RAMAN MARRYING SHAGUN AND ISHITA HIDING HER IDENTITY... THAT WAS WRONG... AAJ ITNA BADA LECTURE DHEGAYI PAR JIS DIN BOLNA THA TAB THO APNA MUH BAND KARLIYA... ISHITA IF U EVER HAD SOME SELF RESPECT, PHIR ITNA KUCH BAAHAR WALON SE SUNNA NAHI PADTHA...
I'm just disappointed with the Cv's... ppl insulted her many times... i expected this lecture on that time.. but Cv's made her weep and accept all the crap.. Now all of a sudden she got reminded that she has self respect..wahh..
So the remarriage is for pyaari dadima.. Though Raman accepted it before ishita i felt it's not necessary now.. This time shaadi "Sab k liye"... What these two are made up of..??

raman is going to play another test match with ishita 😆😆

I didn't liked ishita's lecture...lots of contradictory statements were there...she said my husband didn't pointed fingers at me😲...OMG really...he was angry and may be didn't literally meant it but he did raised questions regarding her relationship with mani( one such instance was when went to invite them for his marriage with shagun..there he said "ye jo bhi hai tumhara..dost...ya ???")...but as expected ishita didn't find anything wrong in any of accusations and name calling raman threw at her

Originally posted by: ramishi

I Didn't liked ishita's lecture...lots of contradictory statements were there...she said my husband didn't pointed fingers at me😲...OMG really...he was angry and may be didn't literally meant it but he did raised questions regarding her relationship with mani( one such instance was when went to invite them for his marriage with shagun..there he said "ye jo bhi hai tumhara..dost...ya ???")...but as expected ishita didn't find anything wrong in any of accusations and name calling raman threw at her

Cvs have clearly played ishra 7 years separation to their advantage only...they made their marriage valid or invalid depending upon raman's mood...i am really annoyed that raman now thinks he and ishita are married and there is no need for remarriage even though paati clearly pointed out her concern about what others feels...then what explanation will raman give when he dismissed mrs iyers plea and went ahead with his marriage with shagun?😲...not only that there was always a confusion regarding his relation with ishita specially until shagun herself told them to marry as they are made for each other just before ishita's kidnapping incident...raman said sorry to shagun as he can't marry her but the reason he gave was not that he and ishita are still married but that he can never love her...khiar I don't think we will ever get any proper explanation for that and i think it is safe to say that he was about to commit bigamy at that time.

Pihu on one side thinks her papa doesn't love her but doesn't want her papa to know about her injury😲🤪...i mean what is her expectations from her father?...just a few days back she was afraid of her security at bhalla house and wanted her mamma by her side and now even after getting real injury she wants to save her shagun mamma.😲...what a mess this character is

Today mihika got information about a new lawyer who is good in custody cases...so another custody is on the way

So ishra remarriage for sabke liye except ek dusre ke liye

A nayi soch channel is showing parents are ready for their children's marriage at a mere age of 21 👏...i think ishra are following mr and mrs senior bhallas footstep and want their GKC as early as possible😆

Nayi soch of sp and Sonali is no need to marry that man and woman can live together as husband and wife. That is what they are teaching for young generation such disgusting.

Originally posted by: Mdwst

A Good episode

Loved Ishu's lines...she was to the point

Liked paati's lines too...

Paati had valid points..mani seconds renewal of vows...So do the kids

Raman is eager/ excited/ happy... Ishu had delayed answer ...but agreed ..she was happy too.

Precap - though Raman threw away her belongings, he still had ..her wedding saree or chennai express style pehere saree, that was nice. But had he apologized to her for throwing away her belongings..that would've been even nicer. ( credit goes to my friend for bringing up this point )

Overall good

DT was fab

So there were was a talk as to why neither Ishra nor their family were initiating the marriage talk, well we got our answer today. To them they are married..marriage is just a formality for the society. That's why 2 days back..in Ishra scene you got the dialogue.." We are unchanged, we are still the same, we pick up from where we left off"...

Ishu's lines ..showed her unshakable trust and immense respect for Raman and her family. That's why Raman stood mute, as he was ashamed that he pointed finger on ishmani's relationship. Today she attained a much superior level of respect ..without her knowledge. IMO

We also saw..that Ishu has no hard feelings for mani's betrayal...she still considers him as a friend..Coz they are childhood friends...yes it may not be the same..but she's forgiven him.

Ishu is a kind of a person..who feels..there's no need to give explanation of her relationship..Coz..in her heart she knows what kind of a person she is...what she stands for...if people accept it fine...if they don't accept it..to hell with them. That's why she stood mute when the pooja fiasco happened, as she knows she has principles and moral values. But today she just couldn't take it.

To me it was NOT a lecture ..it was very much needed..was it late?...yes it was ...but better late than never. She actually gave it back to people to questioned her..in her own way.

I liked that she stood up for herself..a glimpse of the old Ishita, proud of her upbringing..made it very clear to the paati with her held held high.

Sorry for a very short review...I'm super busy today. I saved your time from reading my lengthy comments...😆😉

Have fun and take care guys...c ya

Excellent review Viji. Loved it.

I watched the clips posted on Insta. As per my understanding Ishita as suggested by Mihika once in the early stages of YHM 'Ishita is a person who puts the person she loves above her all the time.' she is one unselfish person who looks at the greater good of everyone than her self interest. She is a giver. She gives without expecting anything in return. It's a hard concept to understand this selfless nature.

What happened today is she spoke her hurt. Call it a lecture, call it anything. But she came out of her shell and spoke about her hurt without putting anyone in bad light.

Till now no one from either Bhallas or Iyers or even Raman who claimed to love her and can't live without her asked anything about what happened? Not once. When Ruhi rejected she had a breakdown and repeated all the abuSes hurled by Raman and what happened to her

i.e that she went to commit suicide.. i don't think anyone grasped the extent of her hurt or pain. She did this twice and nothing happened. So she buried her pain and moved on. Raman even though her staying with him is his choice but when Pihu left him he didn't hesitate to hurt her again.

Now what happened? What made her come out of woods? Still i have no answer why Raman didn't shut Bala's mother talking crap about Ishita and his relationship. He could've told her she is my wife.. just few minutes ago they talked about how their life didn't change despite them being away from each other.. still he couldn't say that same thing to all questioned their relationship? Yes they all got hurt.. but if Raman didn't speak about protecting Ishita's dignity i guess it doesn't matter to them..

So today Ishita told patti all the things that hurt her.. so patti acted as a catalyst for Ishita to speak her mind.. and this is also not because she wanted to tell them about her pain, but to address few issues as they were raised..

She wanted to talk about the parvarish she gave to both kids as it's been questioned and undermined by the three people standing there. Raman he questioned her motherhood so many times knowing fully well what kind of mother she is, Mani undermined her motherhood knowing fully well how she took care of Alia these 7 years while watching her feeling guilty for Ruhi's death and for abandoning her kids and still went against her in the custody of Pihu snatching her child from her, patti an outsider who closed her eyes for 7 years not even worried about her grand daughter suddenly saw an opportunity to blame the one that took care of her all this time. So she talked about how both kids didn't want to hurt the family and put their parents in shame. They wanted to take everyone's blessings for taking their relationship forward and they both respect elders and they both wanted to win their hearts by love.. that's her parvarish.. and she is proud of it.

Secondly she mentioned her friendship with Mani which was a childhood friendship where only pure friendship mattered.. Mani may have stabbed her, Raman definitely questioned her friendship with Mani and even didn't hesitate to paint her characterless and patti again thought wrong about their friendship and portrayed it as an illicit relationship. By mentioning my husband didn't question my friendship she definitely made Raman realized how wrong he thought about her.. and knowing all that she still respected him in front of all. Yes Raman is so ashamed of his thinking he put his head down..mani looked speechless and patti uncomfortable.

When Ishita mentioned how her father in-law got hurt more than her father again she put her family on a highest pedestal that respect none of them deserved.

She is a person who is not going to dwell on negatives. Even though she got hurt from Bhallas she loved them for what they are and unfortunately they couldn't love her the way she is.. for them their love is conditional and convenient.. that includes Raman. I don't believe he could ever love ishita and respect her and trust her the way she loved, respected and trusted him. He always looked at her thru the glasses of Shagun.. and I don't think it will ever change. With Her love and trust with Raman she gave him an enormous power to hurt her and hurt he did.. his apology fall really short of the wrongs he did to her regarding everything including Pihu.

And also i believe 100% even accepting all the wrongs on her if Ishita tells him this is how you hurt me, i don't think Raman would've accepted his mistake. He is not going to accept nor realize the wrong he did with Ishita. Raman is really an egoistic person who will not accept his mistake ever even if it's pointed by her. And we saw the glimpse of it during the rain dance if anyone remember their conversation in the car after the dance.

Today indirectly she spoke of the hurt regarding her parenting, friendship by highlighting her family only.. as it's hard for an outsider to understand.. she forgave them for all the wrongs.. because she knows that by hanging on to the past she can't move into future..

Let's just see if Raman realized the good heart of Ishita and not lash out on her if the spoiler about Pihu is true..

" Why Hurt The One Woman You Claimed You Couldn't Live Without..."

Just purely my POV as per my understanding..

Maya yes Ishita as a woman, wife and mother, spoke her pain.

Viji you are right by forgiving and putting the Bhallas on a pedestal she once again became a bigger person that she always been. Let's see how deserving her family will act and stand up for her when things don't go their way.. which is part of life..

Ammu i have a slight difference of opinion than yours.. no one was ready to understand Ishita's plight all this time.. and even today it's not about her pain, but fingers were pointed at her parvarish, her friendship with Mani which put her dignity at question but as usual Raman didn't come to her rescue.. may be he had his doubts about their friendship too and her relationship with her husband which her husband conveniently forgotten to stand up once again..

It's tiring to hear every tom, dick and harry that includes her husband questioning her parvarish every time just because she didn't give them birth..and clear the doubts hanging over Raman and even Mani once and for all that Mani is a childhood friend and he remains the same.. and about her relationship with her husband for which he will never come out and say outside of their bedroom that she is his wife, and here she had to tell that he loves her so much and he is quiet because of her health..also her in-laws too love her so she gave all of them clean chit.. because she is not going to stuck in this negative feelings..

I'm also guessing that this is the same reason that Raman will never reveal the truth of her being Pihu's mother even it means to save her she had to reveal it to her.. because for her Pihu is important and she definitely didn't want Shagun to play games with Pihu..

Hope i made sense.. if not atleast i tried..