Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r
Krishy, even now, in my 30's my amma keeps saying the exact thing almost every day and she will crib for not having a son.😆😆 . She used to wonder about the unshakable confidence and trust he has in me. But even though I have been a paapa's girl all through my life, the bond with my mother did strengthen as and when I got maturity and started experiencing life. Of late, my appa has started cribbing that he finds it strange that we are able to converse and chit chat about anything and everything even at wee hours and how well we get to understand each other without uttering a word. So yes, daddy's are always special, but mothers are not far behind.😊
I totally agree - as I get older, my relationship dynamics with my dad is still the same as growing up...where he protects and takes care of me no matter what, but I definitely find myself becoming more friends with my mother. She's the one I feel I can share everything with just to get it off my chest, while my dad is the one I go to when I need help.
I think this shift in dynamics often applies to both fathers & sons and mothers & daughters...while the relationship between a father-daughter & mother-son tends to more hold on to the elements it did when kids were children. And it's interesting to think of some of the reasons why this could be the case 😳
That's why it's been cool to see the various dynamics of a parent-child relationship on YHM...Raman went from being Adi's dad growing up to more of his friend now.
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