Answers to Shagun's questions - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Gan-

lie in her questions itself.

• In her flashback Raman told her unequivocally that though she's big part of Pihu's life..he can't marry her.
• She asked even though Ishita and Raman were separated for 7 years why couldn't they develop any distance between them. Why couldn't she come between them?
• They were a happy 'family' till Ishita came back .. Then everyone went to her
• She's Raman's first love... So eventually he would have fallen in love with her again
• Everytime she is onto some happiness , Ishita comes in her way

And if you notice her focus has shifted from getting Pihu to getting everything back like it was for 7 years before Ishita came back.

So what did Shagun have in those 7 years.. Borrowed motherhood, borrowed family, pretend playing 'momma Papa' with Raman. Basically she was trying to fill in the void that was left in the Bhalla family because of Ishita's 'death' Role reversal ? That's how Ishita came to be Ruhi's mother.. Then became Bhalla bahu and eventually Raman's wife.. But where Ishita succeeded Shagun failed. Why?

Because Ishita was not trying to fill-in Shagun's void.. She embraced and nurtured each relationship as her own..and formed a genuine heart tie with them... So though she was gone, those ties were not dead as each of them had kept her alive in their own memory.. Even Raman... So for them to see her alive, just rejuvenated those ties.

Where as Shagun had essentially embraced Ishita in trying to fill in her space.. She did not carve her own space, she was trying to become Ishita or replace Ishita in their lives... So when Ishita was back, her own identity at the Bhllas became an insecurity .. Hence the 1st step of trying to use Pihu to make 'ha aar waali Aunty ' go away.

To answer your question Shagun in one sentence .. You can't claim ownership of people or position which were never yours to begin with. Ishita came back to her life, as she was never replaced in Bhallas, the kids or in Raman's life.

The answers lie in your questions.

Note: Since the CVs once again tried to waste a long segment about Shagun's insecurity about Pihu.. No no .. Now it's been transferred to Project Haasil Raman .. I thought why not address it once and for alll

@bold..👏👏👏 I'm reading them again and again...these were the things I was struggling to frame it into a meaningful sentence😆..sadly I can never do that...so thank you and welcome back...Missed ur post and collages 😃

Originally posted by: nitii

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Shagun trying to understand Ishra is like she trying to understand the Bigbang theory🤣..sadly bothneeds brain which she had lost long back

Originally posted by: -Gan-

She was embracing the jeopardy style of answering questions 😆

You found multiple expressions? Kudos! 😉

Again im posting this...

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

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Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

Again im posting this...

Originally posted by: nitii

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Imagine those close up ads and think me as one of those reporters barging suddenly with a big mike in hand and ask ..."what's ur thoughts about shaggys new blouse"🤣

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must funny part this 7years most happy part of her life , whole family were suffering, she was happy, today whole family are happy she is unhappy & want to distroyed thier happiness, this woman need treatment urgently

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

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exactly 🤣 🤣

Awesome post
Shagun can't see beyond her happiness it's ok kuch log hote hai aise jo pahle apne bate me sochte hai but the main problem is when she is telling herself ,she can't create rift between ISHRA and can't make a place in bhalls's heart and ISHRA still back to themselves after being separated for 7 yrs ,then still she can't understood the basic fanda of ISHRA relationship and why she is now not love interest of RAMAN.
It's like u know the all logic but still not ready to accept that.
If she was only selfish then fir v chalta but here she is selfish plus blind in ego and totally brainless.
She should think now she get a man with good financial position and her life is settle now ( as she claimed infront of ISHITA and taunted her that ur life is unsettle but mine is now settled) so she is achieved what her dream was I mean a luxurious life and in addition a loving life partner (may be) so why she is behind bhallas family love I mean aise bhi nahi hai ki bhallas ke jaise koi aur nahi hai they r Infact a problem surrounded family jab Dekho kuch na kuch hota rahta hai , so why shagun wants to go there it's just her egoistical mind which keep her away from present happy married life with Mani and that same egoistical mind wants to take away every damn thing from ISHITA even if it's not what she wanted/needed indeed.

And one more thing is hilarious when she can't love Mani who is perfect man then why she expects RAMAN to love her back when he is already head over heels in love with other lady, Matlab khud jab itni characterless hone ke baad bhi wo for a fun Mani ke karib nahi jaa rahi hai as now she is suddenly in love with RAMAN then why can't RAMAN stay away from her when he is actually in love not a sudden wala love like hers.

She is day by day degrading herself and will soon reach the bottom line of insanity, I think she should kept in mental asylum like urmila of 'pyar tune kya kiya' here change is her obsessed love is herself.

Ps- I m trying hard to find some reason of shagun behavior but then what can I do I have my logical mind with myself who is unable to understand the illogical 'changing on daily basis' reasons of shagun motive.