lie in her questions itself.
- In her flashback Raman told her unequivocally that though she's big part of Pihu's life..he can't marry her.
- She asked even though Ishita and Raman were separated for 7 years why couldn't they develop any distance between them. Why couldn't she come between them?
- They were a happy 'family' till Ishita came back .. Then everyone went to her
- She's Raman's first love... So eventually he would have fallen in love with her again
- Everytime she is onto some happiness , Ishita comes in her way
And if you notice her focus has shifted from getting Pihu to getting everything back like it was for 7 years before Ishita came back.
So what did Shagun have in those 7 years.. Borrowed motherhood, borrowed family, pretend playing 'momma Papa' with Raman. Basically she was trying to fill in the void that was left in the Bhalla family because of Ishita's 'death' Role reversal ? That's how Ishita came to be Ruhi's mother.. Then became Bhalla bahu and eventually Raman's wife.. But where Ishita succeeded Shagun failed. Why?
Because Ishita was not trying to fill-in Shagun's void.. She embraced and nurtured each relationship as her own..and formed a genuine heart tie with them... So though she was gone, those ties were not dead as each of them had kept her alive in their own memory.. Even Raman... So for them to see her alive, just rejuvenated those ties.
Where as Shagun had essentially embraced Ishita in trying to fill in her space.. She did not carve her own space, she was trying to become Ishita or replace Ishita in their lives... So when Ishita was back, her own identity at the Bhllas became an insecurity .. Hence the 1st step of trying to use Pihu to make 'ha aar waali Aunty ' go away.
To answer your question Shagun in one sentence .. You can't claim ownership of people or position which were never yours to begin with. Ishita came back to her life, as she was never replaced in Bhallas, the kids or in Raman's life.
The answers lie in your questions.
Note: Since the CVs once again tried to waste a long segment about Shagun's insecurity about Pihu.. No no .. Now it's been transferred to Project Haasil Raman .. I thought why not address it once and for alll
Edited by -Gan- - 9 years ago