Answers to Shagun's questions

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Posted: 9 years ago
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lie in her questions itself.
  • In her flashback Raman told her unequivocally that though she's big part of Pihu's life..he can't marry her.
  • She asked even though Ishita and Raman were separated for 7 years why couldn't they develop any distance between them. Why couldn't she come between them?
  • They were a happy 'family' till Ishita came back .. Then everyone went to her
  • She's Raman's first love... So eventually he would have fallen in love with her again
  • Everytime she is onto some happiness , Ishita comes in her way
And if you notice her focus has shifted from getting Pihu to getting everything back like it was for 7 years before Ishita came back.

So what did Shagun have in those 7 years.. Borrowed motherhood, borrowed family, pretend playing 'momma Papa' with Raman. Basically she was trying to fill in the void that was left in the Bhalla family because of Ishita's 'death' Role reversal ? That's how Ishita came to be Ruhi's mother.. Then became Bhalla bahu and eventually Raman's wife.. But where Ishita succeeded Shagun failed. Why?

Because Ishita was not trying to fill-in Shagun's void.. She embraced and nurtured each relationship as her own..and formed a genuine heart tie with them... So though she was gone, those ties were not dead as each of them had kept her alive in their own memory.. Even Raman... So for them to see her alive, just rejuvenated those ties.

Where as Shagun had essentially embraced Ishita in trying to fill in her space.. She did not carve her own space, she was trying to become Ishita or replace Ishita in their lives... So when Ishita was back, her own identity at the Bhllas became an insecurity .. Hence the 1st step of trying to use Pihu to make 'ha aar waali Aunty ' go away.

To answer your question Shagun in one sentence .. You can't claim ownership of people or position which were never yours to begin with. Ishita came back to her life, as she was never replaced in Bhallas, the kids or in Raman's life.

The answers lie in your questions.


Note: Since the CVs once again tried to waste a long segment about Shagun's insecurity about Pihu.. No no .. Now it's been transferred to Project Haasil Raman .. I thought why not address it once and for alll
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nyc post gan... 🤗

She herfelf gv answer...

Raamn mera kabhi kyn nai hota... Woh ka bi iska tha hi nai

Ishita ke athe mera ko sabh bhiol gye... Kynki ishita ki jagah kabhi shgun le hi nai sakti...

Mein in dono ke beech a nai ski...( this question itself an answer..)

Saal mein unki bhi dori nai l saku...kynki saat saal ki diri ubhe kabhi dur kiya hi nai.. Physicaly tgey seperated par emotionaly they ate one...

Raman mujhr kyn ki dekh...kynki use ishita kr aghe koi aurat nai dekhti...
She wil never take place of ishita...

Rman mujhr kitna pyar karta tha..."tha" par abh nai.. Tha aur hei mein bht diffrence hei...

Raman mera pehle pyar tha... Apni luxuries ke liye bhi tum chodh ke gyi this...

She actly thinks raman 's love changeEs like seasons .. Kabhi chaha kisi se bhi ho jayega.. She raman use lyar karne lagta .. Agar saat saal isne jtna kiya tabh raman ne ek ankh utha kr nai dekha .. Abhi toh fr ishita uske pass hei...

Shagun love jst changes like whatsapp 's last seen..??
Edited by sweet.Aman - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post Gan 🤗
This 7 yrs separation not only has strengthen their bond but their love is now also increased for each other that no tom dick or harry can come in between them now.
Ishita might not be there for 7 yrs with Raman physically but she was present with him through their love,memories and most importantly she was present through Pihu and Adi.
Her answers are already present in her questions.
Raman used to love her but not now.Present and past mein buhat difference hota hai and may i ask how did she she kept family intact ? Romi was not there..Bhalla's and Iyers were not on talking terms,Raman was rude who only interacted with his children ,so what exactly she did sacrifice for this family ?
She ditched Manoj who loved her whole heartily even knowing her colorful past yet she played with his emotions by giving him hopes and at last broke his heart.Wasn't this cheating on her part ?
She is so used to cheat people yet doesn't find faults in herself rather is hell bent on portraying herself as a victim.
This family and most importantly Raman and children are of Ishita and even after 7 yrs of spending with them she couldn't get them because they didn't belonged to her nor today nor yesterday
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wonderful write up gan agree she always tried to become ishita and replace her but she can never become ishita because she is not selfless like ishita but self-centred who can never think beyond her own happiness itz always me and myself for Shagun she will always run behind wat is not herz in d frst place and her diologue Raman mujhse shaadi karleta agar ishita Nahi aati toh?? Didn't Raman give her profile in matrimony to get her married to someone else?? Itz only in a fit of anger against ishita he agreed to marry her and yeh pehla pyaar vala ghatiya diologue kitne baar use karegi??? Didn't she learn dat raman was over her?? Itna bhi kya delusional world Mein kee Rahi hein ?? First of all Agar itna hi pyaar tha Raman par vuse chod kar Ashok ke pass gayi kyun yeh??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This post is just 👏


And for those who questions about Ishita stealing Shaggy's place and blah blah 😛

Edited by nitii - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I was confused shagun was asking questions ya answering questions I don't know what was funny her dialogues ya her expressions 😒

Edited by radrose - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

Nyc post gan... 🤗

She herfelf gv answer...

Raamn mera kabhi kyn nai hota... Woh kabi iska tha hi nai

Ishita ke athe mera ko sabh bhiol gye... Kynki ishita ki jagah kabhi shgun le hi nai sakti...

Mein in dono ke beech a nai ski...( this question itself an answer..)

Saal mein unki bhi dori nai l saku...kynki saat saal ki diri ubhe kabhi dur kiya hi nai.. Physicaly tgey seperated par emotionaly they ate one...

Raman mujhr kyn ki dekh...kynki use ishita kr aghe koi aurat nai dekhti...
She wil never take place of ishita...

Rman mujhr kitna pyar karta tha..."tha" par abh nai.. Tha aur hei mein bht diffrence hei...

Raman mera pehle pyar tha... Apni luxuries ke liye bhi tum chodh ke gyi this...

She actly thinks raman 's love changeEs like seasons .. Kabhi chaha kisi se bhi ho jayega.. She raman use pyar karne lagta .. Agar saat saal isne jtna kiya tabh raman ne ek ankh utha kr nai dekha .. Abhi toh fr ishita uske pass hei... 👏

Shagun love jst changes like whatsapp 's last seen..??

@bold 🤣 🤣 🤣
Shagun trying to understand Ishra is like she trying to understand the Bigbang theory 🤣..sadly both needs brain which she had lost long back
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beautifully written Gan... Will add tomorrow my thoughts but we are on the same page in this.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: radrose

I was confused shagun was asking questions ya answering questionsI don't know what was funny her dialogues ya her expressions😒




She was embracing the jeopardy style of answering questions 😆

You found multiple expressions? Kudos! 😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on post gan..
Loved ur point..in those 7 yrs she tried to b ishita she tried to take ishita's place bt failed bcs ishita can nvr b replaced in raman kids n family life..
Other hsnd ishita didn take her place ..she made a place for herself with her love thst even after separation of 7 yrs all belongs to her only..
She herself ws giving ans to her questions..
7 saal me unke beech doori ku nhi aayi mai unhe alag ku nhi kar paayi..bcs tgey r soulmate their love is beyond everything that shagun cant understand..

She is still in her own delusional world..
Raman mujhse pyaar katne lagta...she cudnt form a friendship relation with him in 7 yrs forget abt love..
He became ishita's raman withing 7 months of their marriage ...he ws is n will b ishita's only..

Ishra r inseparable..heart body soul consumed by each other!!

Now her plan to get ruhi turned into get raman wen she is married to somone else
She always lose everything bcs of her selfishness ...despo..

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