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Posted: 9 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: avyarima


Ishita was engage to another guy, which broke Mani's heart. Unable to watch the love of his life in another man's arms, he left the country without telling her about his feelings.

Later, Ishita was found barren and her fiance dumped her. Mani's cut communication because he thought she is married. Ishita didn't go into another relationship until the guy before Raman (she wasn't rejected by many guys).

Coming back he found Ishita married another man (Raman) and learnt about all that happened while he was away.

Do you now understand?


@Bold: Is it your imagination? It has to be. I haven't found a single slightest hint on the show that you interpreted. FYI, I have just finished watching all the old episodes. Mani himself admitted to Ishita multiple times that he heard the news of Ishita-Subbu breakup (and to correct you, Subbu wasn't Ishita's fiance; she was her bf who called off their engagement just before it was going to materialize as he found her medical condition). "Mani's cut communication because he thought she is married."---this is just your own interpretation/imagination and there is no truth in it whatsoever. Ishita was single for at least two years and her family was so desperate to find a match for her but she was rejected each time. Knowing all these, Mani didn't have a courtesy to call her or her family; let alone taking her responsibility as a man.

@Red: I think you haven't watched earlier episodes of YHM. The very first episode started stating that Ishita had been rejected by many men for years. That's why Mrs Iyer used to be so worried about Ishita all the time.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Moni is the most mature n well written character in this show.i always like moni's role which is a true selfless friend of ishita in ishita's ups n downs life. Ishita's life would be completely smooth n beautiful if she chose mani as her life partner.but then there perhaps wouldn't remain any story in show n it shouldn't even be happened as ishita wouldn't ever be happy with mani n she would have to compromise her life if she got married with mani because she loves raman alot of n this was perfectly understood by mani. In fact the guy like mani doesn't deserve any relationship which is based on compromising. I wish cvs would introduce any new good lady from heart for mani in show who wholeheartedly will love him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#23
mani is the good guy who is gonna be friendzoned forever
RIP to women's logic

women choose retards and jerks like raman kumar bhalla and always frndzones the good ones !!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: avyarima

I have always supported and defended Mani in this forum even when he acts jealous and acts protective over Ishita.

My reasons are because these two things made his character real and natural.
If he was always good to Raman after what we have been watching on this show, then he would have been the worst friend in the world.
Even as a girl, I always try protect my best friend...even against her own self talkless of a relationship with seems abusive to me.
Yes, Raman and Ishita love each other, but we can't close our eyes to the fact that there are abusitve (mostly emotional and verbal) issues in their relationship.
Even as a fan who knows Raman thatalways has good intentions, I sometimes feel mad at him for the way he talks to his wife. So, I don't have any right to criticizes Mani, who can't read Raman's heart.
I think what annoys a lot of people is the fact that Ishita could have been with a better man, In a more peaceful environment. CV shows Mani is a better man than Raman in a story that is ISHRA'S
With that been said, without Raman this show would have been as boring as the lib especially since Mani doesn't have a mother in the show. Just imagine DABH without bhabo and Minakshi.

I married my own Mani. Honestly ,sometimes as boring as...lol. But, I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world because My life is also sweet, safe, protected, and full of love ( I fell in love ).


I agree with what you said about Mani being a good person and friend, but even friends have limits in my opinion. He can be protective and that is totally normal, but for me it's the boundaries that are crossed in each other's personal lives. Ishita and Mani are friends, but they have no also co-parented a child for 7 years togethers...so there are already potential boundary issues IMO.

However that's about each person as an individual and how they view life. I personally value privacy and boundaries in all my relationships outside of my family - and even there I do...which is where my discomfort stems from. Emotional connections to me are the utmost form of intimacy that's why most people protect their true emotions until they find the right people. And in a relationship that claims to have love in it - shouldn't your spouse be that person?

About bold - these two shows are very different and relationships are very different in their core nature. You have equated Raman to Bhabho. This makes Raman an overbearing saas to Ishita. Raman though is supposed to be the ML, not just something to just add "spice" to the show. He is supposed to be worthy and made to feel worthy of Ishita's love, which isn't what is shown on screen as per most viewers - he has done nothing good for Ishita in the face of all his flaws/mistakes/rudeness/vulgarity.

Honestly Mani just proves that love isn't enough b/c Raman's love doesn't make up for him. Raman isn't the one who makes ishita feel safe, protected, or sweet which is evident by the fact she goes to Mani or others with her concerns and emotional hurt first


Mani will forever raise the question - why should someone essentially throw themselves into a den of hungry lions if they love lions?
Edited by -K.13- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

Moni is the most mature n well written character in this show.i always like moni's role which is a true selfless friend of ishita in ishita's ups n downs life. Ishita's life would be completely smooth n beautiful if she chose mani as her life partner.but then there perhaps wouldn't remain any story in show n it shouldn't even be happened as ishita wouldn't ever be happy with mani n she would have to compromise her life if she got married with mani because she loves raman alot of n this was perfectly understood by mani. In fact the guy like mani doesn't deserve any relationship which is based on compromising. I wish cvs would introduce any new good lady from heart for mani in show who wholeheartedly will love him.

they could have settled shagun with mani post leap..
but they decide to make shagun negative again for trp purpose
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manan_Pani_fan


@Bold: Is it your imagination? It has to be. I haven't found a single slightest hint on the show that you interpreted. FYI, I have just finished watching all the old episodes. Mani himself admitted to Ishita multiple times that he heard the news of Ishita-Subbu breakup (and to correct you, Subbu wasn't Ishita's fiance; she was her bf who called off their engagement just before it was going to materialize as he found her medical condition). "Mani's cut communication because he thought she is married."---this is just your own interpretation/imagination and there is no truth in it whatsoever. Ishita was single for at least two years and her family was so desperate to find a match for her but she was rejected each time. Knowing all these, Mani didn't have a courtesy to call her or her family; let alone taking her responsibility as a man.

@Red: I think you haven't watched earlier episodes of YHM. The very first episode started stating that Ishita had been rejected by many men for years. That's why Mrs Iyer used to be so worried about Ishita all the time.

you are wrong dear...even i clearly remember mani once jokingly hinted to ishita that he distanced himself becoz she loved shubbu...it happened in the initial days when mani was introduced to the show...

i totally hate the character raman kumar bhalla Post leap!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hahaha. Still trying to find logic in a shitty dailu soap and comparing Raman with Mani?!! 😆 Well for starters, no man or woman will ever want a wife like Ishita or husband in real life. The way their (IshRa) characters are sketched, it is impossible to live with a woman like Ishita too. Besides, there is a huge difference between knowing the path and walking down the path. Mani didn't walk down the path and he showed a glimpse of his true color when he rejected Ishita as Aliya's mother just because Ishita supported Adi! Old RKB with all his defects always stood up for Ishita even when IshRa used to loathe each other. When makers made this beautiful story a daily soapish version of beauty and the beast only then RKB is made a puppet.

Mani is a pathetic meddler. Period. Every relationship has a limit and no reIationship must not cross lines, specially when it comes to matters of husband-wife. Mani absolutely has no sense about that at all. Personally I would never want a friend like Mani. Cos I wouldn't want anyone ruining my marriage.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bAkChOd.

you are wrong dear...even i clearly remember mani once jokingly hinted to ishita that he distanced himself becoz she loved shubbu...it happened in the initial days when mani was introduced to the show...

i totally hate the character raman kumar bhalla Post leap!!


I am pretty sure he didn't. He jokingly said Ishita had the habit of falling in love with guys who were not so good looking (!!), he hinted both Subbu and Raman. Mani never said he distanced himself from Ishita because of Subbu.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -MS-

Hahaha. Still trying to find logic in a shitty dailu soap and comparing Raman with Mani?!! 😆 Well for starters, no man or woman will ever want a wife like Ishita or husband in real life. The way their (IshRa) characters are sketched, it is impossible to live with a woman like Ishita too. Besides, there is a huge difference between knowing the path and walking down the path. Mani didn't walk down the path and he showed a glimpse of his true color when he rejected Ishita as Aliya's mother just because Ishita supported Adi! Old RKB with all his defects always stood up for Ishita even when IshRa used to loathe each other. When makers made this beautiful story a daily soapish version of beauty and the beast only then RKB is made a puppet.

Mani is a pathetic meddler. Period. Every relationship has a limit and no reIationship must not cross lines, specially when it comes to matters of husband-wife. Mani absolutely has no sense about that at all. Personally I would never want a friend like Mani. Cos I wouldn't want anyone ruining my marriage.

defending ur wife infront of the world...and abusing her in bedroom...this kind of man u want in ur life right? this seems like a teenage desires 😆...
and if mani did refuse her as alia mother he might be wrong there...but from his point of view he is the father of alia and as ishita also "claims" herself to be alia's amma(which IMO she never performed her duties as alia's mom) mani's reaction can be defended...he was the father of alia not Adi's so eventually he might have thought that ishita is neglecting her duties as alia's mom
i hope u get a life partner as RKB 😃 then u will understand
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Posted: 9 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: bAkChOd.

i hope u get a life partner as RKB 😃 then u will understand telling that i love u is not enough for life


Hahaha
I hope you get a life partner like Ishita 😃 Then you wil understand that how it is felt to see your spouse leaving you and living with his/her so called friend.

Btw, I did say no woman would want a husband like Raman too. But for old RKB, I will say yes without a second thought.

PS: Ishita also said to Raman that love is not enough for life during child swapping track. LOL.

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