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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: snehaseshan


Very true I don't believe that Ruhi said all this.. I don't know how r they going to show Ruhi redeeming her words n behaviour towards ishita coz twrds Raman she is ok she addresses her as papa too ishita only she behaves so badly


Hi Sneha,

I hope they really address IsRaRu insecurities and how the heal each other and not push it under the rug with one sorry but I don't have any hopes of it because of they only concentrate on Shagun and her feelings.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very disjointed epi..
@Maya ,you are absolutely right about Ishita.. not even one soul is concerned about her.. looks like her missing is part of ever day thing..sad..

Time element is messed up big time.. so do these people go to work in the night and Vandu works in the night college?

Ok.. chronological order..
Day 1 night - Nidhi comes with Ashok and Ruhi puts her condition.

Day 2 morning - wedding preparations in the house
* Both Ruhi and Ishita in Sarees and goes for shopping
* Let's assume that Pihu saw Ishita in that saree that morning
* Amma brings marriage stuff for Raman and says evening pancit will come for muhurat
* Romi and Raman talk
* Shagun and Pihu talk about pajama party
* Mihir and Shagun talk
* Ishita kidnap
* All are waiting for Ishita and Ruhi
* Ruhi walks in alone and pansit leaves
* Romi goes to Ashok and Ashok knows Ishita got kidnapped
* Raman, Shagun and Ruhi goes to judge
* Back at home Shagun puts blame on Ishita ( if she is really behind this by saying she delayed Ishita recover chances and sort of impaired people thinking)
* Shagun instigates Ruhi and makes it look like Ishita is doing out of love for Ruhi
* Everyone back into their life
* Vandu goes to work - does she work in night college?
* Raman goes to office
* Mihir chides Alia
* Kidnappers want to keep "Ishita Bhalla" alive
* Waiting for boss call
* Pihu is shown watching the saree pallu. It's dark so not sure how. And remembers as "Ishita Auntie" saree
* Informs Ruhi
* Raman upset Ishita not home yet
* Vandu gets into accident
* Pihu and Ruhi traveling in a cab
* Pihu tells Ruhi she didn't talk to "Ishita Auntie" since yesterday ( is this after midnight or same day? Why Pihu said yesterday?)
* Raman calls Ruhi and wants to take her to dinner - so is this still dinner time
* Raman is going to where Pihu and Ruhi went
* Shagun calls Raman and upset that Pihu is with Ruhi - may be Raman will tell her more info in tomorrow epi

I am clearly loosing it.. but Ruhi is clearly crying.. she is angry and crying.. again same question if she is ready to go to Nidhi no need to cry but she is.. so here is what I am thinking..

She took a gamble and she failed.. not that Ishita failed her again.. here is why she is shown both crying and angry..
She saw Raman ready to marry Shagun and in fact he almost married her. At the time of that marriage Ruhi goal was to separate her parents so they know the pain... But something hit her.. that is on the day of marriage dhe saw how much it broke her mother.. she in fact cried..with that one act of her mother i believe she also understood Mani has no place in her mother's life other than that of a good friend..
From then on her mission started.. she rejected them , taunted them blamed them . Because she is also hurt and her trust is broken by her parents.. so can she forgive them easily.. still her heart beats for her mother..
Once she is home she observed all the drama to keep her with them and also she is sure that once she comes back to her parents they will separate because for her her father is ready to move on with Shagun for Pihu ke liye.. dhe knew the history and she knew about her birth mother and she also loves her sister and she wants her happy family with her mother and not with Shagun..
This is where she gambled.. her father said yes.. but her mother took time.. but dhe also said yes..but.. until it happens she can't be sure.. Ruhi knows Ishita and how she wants to do justice for others.. two people who knew Ishita well are Raman and Ruhi.. Raman forgot and Ruhi didn't..
Do after the disappearance of Ishita and the talk with the judge dhe cried and threatened Raman saying she will wait until Ishita comes back and then she will go back to Nidhi..
Now she is crying, because with her threats she thought her parents will get married again and she can finally have a secure life back.. but now she is thinking Ishita is playing this game because she doesn't want to marry her father because he already moved on with his ex-wife and by delaying this judgement date she is giving Ruhi time to reconsider her opinion of going back with Nidhi.. so Ruhi failed and it's not because she couldn't plan it's because of her mother she failed..
The reason she wants tell Shagun or judge about this is because everyone is saying Ishita is good person but for her Ishita is not because she is abandoning her again and she wants to tell everyone that Ishita is not as good as they are thinking..
Her anger and her tears are actually showing her fears and her distrust.. again she wants to believe Ishita is bad and wrong.. it's fight between head and heart..
Hope i made sense.. if not atleast i tried.. nowadays as story is revolving around Shagun so much analyzing Ruhi is giving me some satisfaction..


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishrafan_us

Very disjointed epi..
@Maya ,you are absolutely right about Ishita.. not even one soul is concerned about her.. looks like her missing is part of ever day thing..sad..

Time element is messed up big time.. so do these people go to work in the night and Vandu works in the night college?

Ok.. chronological order..
Day 1 night - Nidhi comes with Ashok and Ruhi puts her condition.

Day 2 morning - wedding preparations in the house
* Both Ruhi and Ishita in Sarees and goes for shopping
* Let's assume that Pihu saw Ishita in that saree that morning
* Amma brings marriage stuff for Raman and says evening pancit will come for muhurat
* Romi and Raman talk
* Shagun and Pihu talk about pajama party
* Mihir and Shagun talk
* Ishita kidnap
* All are waiting for Ishita and Ruhi
* Ruhi walks in alone and pansit leaves
* Romi goes to Ashok and Ashok knows Ishita got kidnapped
* Raman, Shagun and Ruhi goes to judge
* Back at home Shagun puts blame on Ishita ( if she is really behind this by saying she delayed Ishita recover chances and sort of impaired people thinking)
* Shagun instigates Ruhi and makes it look like Ishita is doing out of love for Ruhi
* Everyone back into their life
* Vandu goes to work - does she work in night college?
* Raman goes to office
* Mihir chides Alia
* Kidnappers want to keep "Ishita Bhalla" alive
* Waiting for boss call
* Pihu is shown watching the saree pallu. It's dark so not sure how. And remembers as "Ishita Auntie" saree
* Informs Ruhi
* Raman upset Ishita not home yet
* Vandu gets into accident
* Pihu and Ruhi traveling in a cab
* Pihu tells Ruhi she didn't talk to "Ishita Auntie" since yesterday ( is this after midnight or same day? Why Pihu said yesterday?)
* Raman calls Ruhi and wants to take her to dinner - so is this still dinner time
* Raman is going to where Pihu and Ruhi went
* Shagun calls Raman and upset that Pihu is with Ruhi - may be Raman will tell her more info in tomorrow epi

I am clearly loosing it.. but Ruhi is clearly crying.. she is angry and crying.. again same question if she is ready to go to Nidhi no need to cry but she is.. so here is what I am thinking..

She took a gamble and she failed.. not that Ishita failed her again.. here is why she is shown both crying and angry..
She saw Raman ready to marry Shagun and in fact he almost married her. At the time of that marriage Ruhi goal was to separate her parents so they know the pain... But something hit her.. that is on the day of marriage dhe saw how much it broke her mother.. she in fact cried..with that one act of her mother i believe she also understood Mani has no place in her mother's life other than that of a good friend..
From then on her mission started.. she rejected them , taunted them blamed them . Because she is also hurt and her trust is broken by her parents.. so can she forgive them easily.. still her heart beats for her mother..
Once she is home she observed all the drama to keep her with them and also she is sure that once she comes back to her parents they will separate because for her her father is ready to move on with Shagun for Pihu ke liye.. dhe knew the history and she knew about her birth mother and she also loves her sister and she wants her happy family with her mother and not with Shagun..
This is where she gambled.. her father said yes.. but her mother took time.. but dhe also said yes..but.. until it happens she can't be sure.. Ruhi knows Ishita and how she wants to do justice for others.. two people who knew Ishita well are Raman and Ruhi.. Raman forgot and Ruhi didn't..
Do after the disappearance of Ishita and the talk with the judge dhe cried and threatened Raman saying she will wait until Ishita comes back and then she will go back to Nidhi..
Now she is crying, because with her threats she thought her parents will get married again and she can finally have a secure life back.. but now she is thinking Ishita is playing this game because she doesn't want to marry her father because he already moved on with his ex-wife and by delaying this judgement date she is giving Ruhi time to reconsider her opinion of going back with Nidhi.. so Ruhi failed and it's not because she couldn't plan it's because of her mother she failed..
The reason she wants tell Shagun or judge about this is because everyone is saying Ishita is good person but for her Ishita is not because she is abandoning her again and she wants to tell everyone that Ishita is not as good as they are thinking..
Her anger and her tears are actually showing her fears and her distrust.. again she wants to believe Ishita is bad and wrong.. it's fight between head and heart..
Hope i made sense.. if not atleast i tried.. nowadays as story is revolving around Shagun so much analyzing Ruhi is giving me some satisfaction..



Hi Raji,

Yes it is a sad state to see how much value Ishita holds in the family

As usual you put Ruhi view more clearly for people to understand. I was mad with her today but to think with your view point it kind of makes sense why Ruhi is acting that way.




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayasundar


Hi Raji,

Yes it is a sad state to see how much value Ishita holds in the family

As usual you put Ruhi view more clearly for people to understand. I was mad with her today but to think with your view point it kind of makes sense why Ruhi is acting that way.




@Maya, you can kick me.. as said I am clearly loosing it..
But happy that you sort of agree..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Raji - Loved your take on Ruhi. Her pain is too deep and both her parents are failing to understand her. She wants her happy home as it was before for her to heal. Her father who has played a major role in the mess created in the aftermath is not doing anything to give rights to his estranged wife because of his helplessness because of Pihu. She wants to come home with her real identity and not an orphan Ruhi who needs rescuing from the mean aunty. FOr a child who had been denied her identity for seven long years, to again live under false prententions in her rightful home is devastating. She realized the first night she came home, all the pictures on the wall were of Pihu and Sahgun and the rest of the family. She has been relegated to a hidden box. Both her mom's identity and her identity has been erased from the Bhalla house as if they did not exist. As you said she is fighting for her and her mom's rights as her mom won't fight and her dad is a furniture piece, courtesy of the CVs.
Feel for Ruhi but with all the dialogs, people are not privy to her inner turmoil. She wants her mom to fight for her because if she goes from the bhallas, the family will once again break and there is no happy family for her to come home to. Shagun is a non entity to her..so she needs her mother..Shagun is also scared of the sisters bond and that is why she is against Ruhi, because along with Ruhi comes Ishita..and Pihu might get to know the truth. I do not have any words for a mother like Shagun who cannot empathize with her biological child suffering, but lectures on motherhood and she understood what it means after Pihu's birth. She is trying her best to hold onto Pihu and her importance in the family..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mreddy

@Raji - Loved your take on Ruhi. Her pain is too deep and both her parents are failing to understand her. She wants her happy home as it was before for her to heal. Her father who has played a major role in the mess created in the aftermath is not doing anything to give rights to his estranged wife because of his helplessness because of Pihu. She wants to come home with her real identity and not an orphan Ruhi who needs rescuing from the mean aunty. FOr a child who had been denied her identity for seven long years, to again live under false prententions in her rightful home is devastating. She realized the first night she came home, all the pictures on the wall were of Pihu and Sahgun and the rest of the family. She has been relegated to a hidden box. Both her mom's identity and her identity has been erased from the Bhalla house as if they did not exist. As you said she is fighting for her and her mom's rights as her mom won't fight and her dad is a furniture piece, courtesy of the CVs.

Feel for Ruhi but with all the dialogs, people are not privy to her inner turmoil. She wants her mom to fight for her because if she goes from the bhallas, the family will once again break and there is no happy family for her to come home to. Shagun is a non entity to her..so she needs her mother..Shagun is also scared of the sisters bond and that is why she is against Ruhi, because along with Ruhi comes Ishita..and Pihu might get to know the truth. I do not have any words for a mother like Shagun who cannot empathize with her biological child suffering, but lectures on motherhood and she understood what it means after Pihu's birth. She is trying her best to hold onto Pihu and her importance in the family..

Hi Madhavi, thank you for liking it.
Yes with the choice of words she is using Ruhi is not understandable to anyone..for me even her mom understands there is not much she can do with Raman flipping out on her whenever he feels insecure.. it all became more his and Shagun insecurity than the two people who lost everything..
Ruhi always fought for her mother.. she is her anchor and she believed that because of her mother she also got het Father's love..
Right now she doesn't want to live in her own house as an orphan and the only way she fells she belongs in that house is by bringing in her anchor, her mother..
Raman never really understood the depth of Ishita's live for him and also depth of Ruhi's love for Ishita.. it's just because of his insecurities Shagun always had an upper hand over him and that will be the case now too..
I really loved how you wrote about her and her mother's memories are delegated to hidden box.. reading it itself is breaking my heart..she clearly sees what happened to Ishita after she was missing.. that's why she was able to ask his father how could you even propose to Shagun when you love my mother.. reminds you off the lohri epi.. here she is determined to fight for her mother.. and I'm also believing that if her father plays majboor card she wouldn't hesitate to take her mother and walk out of the house with Adi in tow..

Now I clearly see why Shagun is upset with Pihu being with Ruhi.. yes it makes sense.. how sad that she is telling her biological daughter that she means nothing and her unconditional love only extends to Pihu.. that's Shagun for us..
Wonder who will do the honors of letting Pihu know who her real mother is.. i don't expect it from Raman.. he will not want that spotlight.. rest of the people are there for census only.. no use..

Please do comment.. i love reading your take..
Edited by ishrafan_us - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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P.S - Ruhi is getting dumber and more irritating by the day for me.

P.S. - I really felt bad for Ishita who does everything for the family but no one cares about her until they need something from her.

P.S - Shagun is going to be more dangerous this time around I guess because she is white outside.

Totally agree without doubt

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