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gargpoo

@gargpoo

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: -K.13-
Everyone keeps attributing his behavior to ego, but I vehamently disagree at least with what's happening with Ishita. Ego maybe applies in doing what he thinks is the solution. But with Ishita he is running away - he doesn't want to face why she left nor does he want to deviate and get hope that she'll stay.

So everyone saying its ego that's keeping him from opening up or being more human - I beg to differ especially after seeing & understanding Raman as a character for 2.5 years

And yes it's sad no one in his family really gets him but I guess that's what he wants - to be left alone forever, unloved and unneeded bc he finds himself useless

word krishy...
Acc to me too its not ego...he is running away from everyone n everything...wen he ws arguing today his voice ws shivering n breaking...he doesnt wanna open up to anyone ...his fear he is not worthy of love..acc to him he is worst than ashok thats y his own bro chose ashok...
Right now he is hurt helpless frustrated ...
The way ge behaved with ishita in room again proved he is trying to control his feelings..he is reminding again n again its only for ruhi bcs he knows ishita will go away again...
No one understands him except ishita ...
I guess cvs will prepare a heart wrenching scene wen raman will break down complety n his every emotion will b out that day..thats y they r dragging it...

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NINALOGY

@NINALOGY

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Raman emotions ,his feelings were never showed by cvs ,the thing they show is only his anger .Don't know when will we get his proper POV.

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NINALOGY

@NINALOGY

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: gargpoo
word krishy...
Acc to me too its not ego...he is running away from everyone n everything...wen he ws arguing today his voice ws shivering n breaking...he doesnt wanna open up to anyone ...his fear he is not worthy of love..acc to him he is worst than ashok thats y his own bro chose ashok...
Right now he is hurt helpless frustrated ...
The way ge behaved with ishita in room again proved he is trying to control his feelings..he is reminding again n again its only for ruhi bcs he knows ishita will go away again...
No one understands him except ishita ...
I guess cvs will prepare a heart wrenching scene wen raman will break down complety n his every emotion will b out that day..thats y they r dragging it...

I agree
I just hope that day come soon

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Seetha_R

@Seetha_R

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: swatica
Watevr b... bt its nt only raman is in pain...
N his constant blame game vl nt change anythng...
His anger has destroyed his family 7yrs ago...
N if he stil continues dn again it vl happen...
He needs to calm down...

His anger added to ishita's guilt n she took a gross step to nt come back to him...

Romi is accepting his fault dat ita bcz of his negligience dat ruhi is in ds state..
Wat er d reason b... bt raman is again making ishita feel guilty ..
She is nt cumin out of his guilt... rather getting more burried...

Raman is in pain bt he is nt d only one...n people ahud understand dat too...
Entire bhalla family is in pain..none is happy wid d current situatn.. none ws happy in past 7yrs also..

Well said Swati👏👏 Raman needs to understand its not only his pain and hurt everyone is in pain and hurting for Ruhi with Ishita along with her pain and hurt her guilt is also increaing everyday for Ruhis situation and Raman behavior and the state of sffairs in the house. What more is added to her pain is Raman stripped all her rights as a wife and mother of his children and bahu of the bhallas. So she can't effectively take the situations into her hand and his constant reminders to throw her out of the house once Ruhi is back is not helping the matters either.

I'm sure she will take all insults from him until they get Ruhi back then its Upto Raman and Ruhi to decide whether they want / need Ishita in their life.

No offence to anyone just my POV.

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snehaseshan

@snehaseshan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: swatica
Watevr b... bt its nt only raman is in pain...
N his constant blame game vl nt change anythng...
His anger has destroyed his family 7yrs ago...
N if he stil continues dn again it vl happen...
He needs to calm down...

His anger added to ishita's guilt n she took a gross step to nt come back to him...

Romi is accepting his fault dat ita bcz of his negligience dat ruhi is in ds state..
Wat er d reason b... bt raman is again making ishita feel guilty ..
She is nt cumin out of his guilt... rather getting more burried...

Raman is in pain bt he is nt d only one...n people ahud understand dat too...
Entire bhalla family is in pain..none is happy wid d current situatn.. none ws happy in past 7yrs also..

Bang on swati👏👏

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snehaseshan

@snehaseshan

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Many r saying that therel b raman's guilt track guilt track since very long.. But till now its not been shown that Raman is guilty first for his harsh words ,till now he's only being blaming others & calling others manhoos like today he called romi... Pehle mistake realise toh Ho,guilt track toh duur ki baat hai...

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#17

You are talking of the consequences, but who is responsible for all this? Raman needs major anger management and behavioural training. All the time it is about his guilt, his pain, how about also thinking about others and why he drives others away with his anger?

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-K.13-

@-K.13-

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: swatica
Watevr b... bt its nt only raman is in pain...
N his constant blame game vl nt change anythng...
His anger has destroyed his family 7yrs ago...
N if he stil continues dn again it vl happen...
He needs to calm down...

His anger added to ishita's guilt n she took a gross step to nt come back to him...

Romi is accepting his fault dat ita bcz of his negligience dat ruhi is in ds state..
Wat er d reason b... bt raman is again making ishita feel guilty ..
She is nt cumin out of his guilt... rather getting more burried...

Raman is in pain bt he is nt d only one...n people ahud understand dat too...
Entire bhalla family is in pain..none is happy wid d current situatn.. none ws happy in past 7yrs also..

I agree not do I absolve him of his actions but my disagreement with people is that his actions don't stem all stem from ego.

Everyone on the show is hurting and everyone is only preoccupied with their own guilt and hurt. No one wants to see other POVS and if they do, they don't want to do anything about it bc of their own hurt. This includes Raman, Ishita, Romi, Ruhi, etc.

Only with IshRa acting selflessly and thinking less about themselves and more about Ruhi can they start to open up to other POVs bc they need to get out of their own headspace

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Priya

@priyadarshini.r

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: gargpoo
word krishy...
Acc to me too its not ego...he is running away from everyone n everything...wen he ws arguing today his voice ws shivering n breaking...he doesnt wanna open up to anyone ...his fear he is not worthy of love..acc to him he is worst than ashok thats y his own bro chose ashok...
Right now he is hurt helpless frustrated ...
The way ge behaved with ishita in room again proved he is trying to control his feelings..he is reminding again n again its only for ruhi bcs he knows ishita will go away again...
No one understands him except ishita ...
I guess cvs will prepare a heart wrenching scene wen raman will break down complety n his every emotion will b out that day..thats y they r dragging it...

@Pooj, Krishy - I agree with you on Raman's state of mind.

Kaash, we get one such scene Pooj. But it is a sin to keep an expectation in YHM and specifically when it comes to Raman's thoughts, actions and his point of view.😔😔. The same was the expectation during the surrogacy track. But haila, CV's failed miserably then as well.

I guess even today only Ishita understands the pain, fear and frustration lying beneath all his actions. She understands him but unable to take control of him and the situations because she believes she has lost her rights as his wife. This is why things are getting uglier day by day. But today she has started to react when she gave it back to Raman saying that she is also staying only for Ruhi. Only after she started reacting and fighting back, Raman left the room because he cannot argue with her or hurt her more with his words. He has already done the maximum damage. Only with time these two can sort out things, reconcile , heal each other wounds. And only if things get sorted out between these two it would do a whole lot of good to people around Raman.

Both of them used to be strong earlier, now they are completely broken. While Ishita has a different way of dealing with such situations, Raman always chooses the destructive way. That is what makes RKB a complex character right? After all, RKB is not the regular Seedha-Saadha maa kaa chirag type ML. 😊

Cheers

Priya

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bscorp13

@bscorp13

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: -K.13-
Everyone keeps attributing his behavior to ego, but I vehamently disagree at least with what's happening with Ishita. Ego maybe applies in doing what he thinks is the solution. But with Ishita he is running away - he doesn't want to face why she left nor does he want to deviate and get hope that she'll stay.

So everyone saying its ego that's keeping him from opening up or being more human - I beg to differ especially after seeing & understanding Raman as a character for 2.5 years

And yes it's sad no one in his family really gets him but I guess that's what he wants - to be left alone forever, unloved and unneeded bc he finds himself useless

Word word word..

If Ishita is physically trying yo run away..Raman is emotionally trying to run away by building this facade of a rude , obnoxious man who has no feelings for anyone...and with ishita closer to him the facade is falling and he is getting more angrier in trying to cover up. Note the change in expressions today when romi hugs him and after that when he sees romi is with tjhe family. .they guy cares and how. .

And if you heard his rant to ishita in tjhe room carefully ..one could dB see tjhe fondness clearly behind his barbs..he actually said you are needed more than me in this family at this time...so pls stay..he was actually handing over the baton to her. ..today he didn't cross question her decisions at all...nor did he question her when he saw romi was back. ..

We will slowly see the man emerge from the shadows in the days to come...😛

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