great post. And it was heart wrenching to see the 2 who are head over heel in love with each other are frightened to even mention that to the other as they have presumed the other has moved on in his or her life and doesn't want to be the hindrance to their loved one's happiness. Raman feels if Ishita is ready to move on with Mani, he should not stop her as he can't give justice to her since he has 2 kids to think. If he thinks of Ruhi, he may not give justice to Pihu and if he think of Pihu, he can't give justice to Ruhi. So not only for his love, his Ishita's happiness, he think of staying away from Ishita is better for his kids as well. Now he is not just a dotting husband but a father who knows the pain of his kids. The same is with Ishita. She has seen the love in Raman's eyes for her but she also knows that he is bound to accept Shagun for the sake of his daughter Pihu and more over Ruhi hates her (Ishita) and if Ishita's presence brings unhappiness to Ruhi and the family, ishita is all set to move away from them. So it doesn't take a minute fro Ishita to move away from her love, her husband, her Raman, if Ruhi demands it. All she wishes is the happiness of her loved ones, her family. She is confidant now that Raman will not neglect his kids but will dot them and save them in his eye lashes.
So as of now, it is sirf Rushi ke liye only. And it will be lik that till Ruhi realizes her misconception and cry out for her Ishima and fight for her Ishima's company and her rights in Bhalla family and Raman Bhalla's life.
The came together for Ruhi, separated for Ruhi and if they have to restart their life together, then it will be for Ruhi. Ishra life just revolves around Ruhi and nothing else.