Raman Kumar Bhalla, powerless. - Page 6

Originally posted by: bscorp13

@bold..yup that's true though...they have distorted that track to make it totally raman's mistake. .whereas the v fact is that he repeatedly told ishita to not interfere in pallavis family matter. , And then It all came crashing down after the murder...nidhis involvement was purely desperate raman trying to n save ishita from the noose., and so was his drama later..one of my fav 7 30 pm yhm tracks. .

Now that being made 'reasom' for all problems in theur life is shocking. ..Raman's plan actually succeeded with nidhi being caught..but then as usual she was let free..

Blane the police and judicial system., else the woman should have rotted in jail..but how is all thus raman's fault. ..

IshRas bunch of mistakes starts and ends with the child swao..not with who got nidhi into their lives. .blaming raman for it ..is tjhe same as blaming ishita for shagun's continued interference in their lives because it is she who brought her home after ashok dumped her...but i don't think romi can or will ever point that out.., Male leads can be blamed for everything from psychos disrupting their lives to global warming😆😆

We have to live with that though😆

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Thanks so so much Zoya for posting such a master piece every day... Your words are magical...a dose of positivity one needs amidst such chaos. Thanks for being that source of good thought on the forum. It's easier to count faults and view everything the obvious way. It takes a lot to do otherwise. 😳🤗

I do not side Raman, or try to understand him because he is a character that I have a soft corner for, but also because I like you choose to be positive. If I wouldn't want to, its easier to believe in the facade he thinks is his reality.

Raman has been powerless in front of his destiny many a times. He has lost a lot that he thought he wouldn't ever. And every time he breaks down, gathers and begins moving ahead something does pull him back, whether its his fault or not, whether its his own actions and words or not.. At the beginning of this show they showed him gaining success and changing that one thing that he thought caused him to lose a family...the lack of money, fame and luxuries. He was shown to believe that ones destiny lies in their own hands, he believed that he could control even his emotions like he controlled the profit and loss his business made. But he was rendered incapable of restricting his emotions as Ishita came into his life, as he molded back into the man whose life revolved around the smiles and happiness of his children, around the safety of his family and around a woman who changed his world upside down ...for the good. He realized that he hadn't known love all along until she showed him what it really was... She made him a father, a husband, a lover a human again... and he entrusted her with everything...He gave her his heart, his trust and the power like you said.

His hazy mind which is only registering what his words have ended up doing, still feels that the power he gave her caused her to leave him once Ruhi had left them. He isn't able to go beyond the fact that HIS ISHITA couldn't just leave him, but could also go commit suicide. That's what she can do if she is left to take a decision.

It's not as if he doesn't realize what he's done, as if he hasn't lived with the guilt of pushing his family and life away and ruining his world with his own hands. He's as good as dead, burdened with the hurt, pain and self loath...And it is EXACTLY that what stops him from accepting it to himself and to others...because if he does he would be saying ' Yes I was at fault, I ruined us' and he probably fears she would say ' It's better we stay apart'

Now that Ruhi is alive, an illogical but faint hope has come to reside in him, that maybe she will have reason to come back to him. And this hope will make it harder to accept his mistakes. But its not something he can control. She will be back in his home, near him, with him and in the familiarity of every new moment they share that reminds them of an old memory, involuntarily he will again lose his power to Ishita...because that's how it works.

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Krishy i saw the epi..after reading the comments on the LU..

And while you make total sense.. the epi and the scene being spoken about are actually not that bad at all..

Yup I have ranted st the gimmickery of the raman shagun shaadi epi..but today if ishita was shown as vulnerable and completely broken. .raman was shown as numb and starting to break. ..

If ishita's breaking point cane with a breakdown..physical and emotional. .Raman's start to opening up came with the acceptance and realization that he can't see ishita die. ..and that along with both parents literally begging their teen daughter with folded hands to forgive them..made the epi a must watch..

The one line that's been dissected is really a very insignificant one if you look at the before and after of actions. .including those of raman. ..

Raman tomorrow will ask ruhi to call ishita ..ishima..to get her back.. to revive her..if he really blamed her and was not guilty .. wht take the pain of doing all that. ..let her rot in hell for all he cares. ..

Yes cvs are playing a game here..purposely veilimg raman's words and actions like in the accident track... they kept his thoughts hidden toll the climax.. and thus is evident by what they have chopped off from the olvs. .but today's epi certainly doesn't deserve the hate it's getting. ..and esp raman..it's just being blown out of proportion. .given the context. .

Rest ..like you said. .one hopes raman does have a role to play..but looks like he does .. at least from the way both ishra seem to be working together for the battle ahead to get ruhi back...😊

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Yup that's why context is is important. . When I read tjhe LU..I was pissed. .and was like..not again😡😆

But when I saw the scene..it was like a totally different line, esp clubbed with what he said after...it's like one forgets to put exclamation marks in a sentence hence changing the meaning. ..😛

Ishita once told mani..you can't ever love me as much as raman hates me..that was ishita's way if saying no one can love me with a passion that RKB does. ..

Today raman saying..nobody could have hated her as much as I did for losing ruhi...but today I can't see her die , pining for ruhi...was raman's way of saying he can't even hate her if he wants to..forget seeing her die...😳😛.. because no one can love her the way he does😳

Both lines..ishita's then to mani.. and raman's now to mani..have the same meaning😊