Just stop it..it hurts!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hii..this is Khushi here..

I don't generally make posts but today's epi..uh no it just triggered it and compelled me to make a post and to just let my emotions flow.

It hurts..it bloody well damn hurts!!
it's like I'm in ishita's place myself..!
I'm not even a mother and I don't know if I'm experiencing this much pain and how much she'll be going through.

Through all Raman's actions, taunts and her own child's innocent ignorance. Today's pihu dialogue made me cry, her own child requesting to be away from her.

and what made me cringe today seeing a small family scene between Raman,pihu and shagun..ishita should've been there not her..!!

I don't care whose mistake was it in the past (I believe both) but Raman sometimes forgot or he just didn't realize that it sometimes words impact more than any other action and that too on such a sensitive..a person can't help but to agree on it and Raman can't blame her that she run away..ishita just can't help it..her guilt is bigger than him coz she saw it happening in front of her eyes too.

ishita should move on yaar..I don't like seeing her dying little by little every day each time she faces Raman.

P.S. I don't understand ekta's love for shagun..she's literally follow' uttaran' concept here..I mean whatever ishita has to call her own has been let down by her..it's always somehow connected to her..now it just hurts me to see pihu call shagun her mother instead of ishita..I want a child badly to belong solely to ishita..Raman can go to hell, coz I'm really angry at him now! He needs to understand his mistakes too..!!

thanks for hearing my rant!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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True.surrogacy was a crap...ishita didn't got anything extra that she she didn't got from ruhi and adi and at the moment i don't see any difference between ruhi, adi and pihu...all were born from xena's womb... whetehr anyone agree or not but the truth is by choosing surrogacy raman couldn't give ishita any feeling of motherhood...its a bitter truth ...because of this kid he enjoyed a fatherhood for the 3rd time but ishita remained as before. imo
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on post buddy.
Well written ...yes its hurt .i dont know after all this how a women accept raman like husband?
Bcoz of this track ,the more affected viewer is a women.it's affecting the younger generation too.raman words are more impact on me and his words ranting in my ears .if members believe me or not ..it is the truth.i know some members said it is just a fanfiction. it is a ff i know that, but still we are following it, why?for what?still we are expecting a monologue from raman sorry to say this ,its too late.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -whitepearl-

Hii..this is Khushi here..

I don't generally make posts but today's epi..uh no it just triggered it and compelled me to make a post and to just let my emotions flow.

It hurts..it bloody well damn hurts!!
it's like I'm in ishita's place myself..!
I'm not even a mother and I don't know if I'm experiencing this much pain and how much she'll be going through.

Through all Raman's actions, taunts and her own child's innocent ignorance. Today's pihu dialogue made me cry, her own child requesting to be away from her.

and what made me cringe today seeing a small family scene between Raman,pihu and shagun..ishita should've been there not her..!!

I don't care whose mistake was it in the past (I believe both) but Raman sometimes forgot or he just didn't realize that it sometimes words impact more than any other action and that too on such a sensitive..a person can't help but to agree on it and Raman can't blame her that she run away..ishita just can't help it..her guilt is bigger than him coz she saw it happening in front of her eyes too.

ishita should move on yaar..I don't like seeing her dying little by little every day each time she faces Raman.

P.S. I don't understand ekta's love for shagun..she's literally follow' uttaran' concept here..I mean whatever ishita has to call her own has been let down by her..it's always somehow connected to her..now it just hurts me to see pihu call shagun her mother instead of ishita..I want a child badly to belong solely to ishita..Raman can go to hell, coz I'm really angry at him now! He needs to understand his mistakes too..!!

thanks for hearing my rant!

:)


i can feel u nd ya only one line sums up my feelings that it hurts
but i hv learnt sumthing nd i think u should try it dont see episodes just watch lollipop scenes for divan (that will lift up ur mood for sure )

nd u know what now i dont feel anything because i was connected with ishra but last time i checked nd found that which ishra i was in love with is no more.

but i know watching a woman' self esteem being torn apart at the label of NAYI SOCH (that too by her very own husband) is something well i dont have words
really it hurts

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramishi

True.surrogacy was a crap...ishita didn't got anything extra that she she didn't got from ruhi and adi and at the moment i don't see any difference between ruhi, adi and pihu...all were born from xena's womb... whetehr anyone agree or not but the truth is by choosing surrogacy raman couldn't give ishita any feeling of motherhood...its a bitter truth ...because of this kid he enjoyed a fatherhood for the 3rd time but ishita remained as before. imo


exactly surrogacy track is another crap to degrade bareen women.raman and xena planned for a baby not ishita and raman.raman even not discussed with her.xena and raman planned for a new baby like wife and husband .same like they planned for ruhi and adi.he even not take ishita opinion he just through on her face with a forced baby that too with his ex wife.he not leave a stone on her ,what ishitha will do?she accepted it bcoz no option left for her...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with your point that both Raman and Ishita were wrong in the past and it's more wrong to see Raman hurling abuses at her the moment he lays his eyes on her. In fact he has turned into a person with whom nobody can stay with irrespective of the relation they share with him.
But I disagree with your point of Ishita getting the authority of being Pihu's mother. The reason why Ishita left is irrelevant, the fact remains that Shagun has brought up Pihu as her daughter for 7 long years and it's inhuman for you to come and claim the child now.


Ishita loved Ruhi for a day with whole heart and we all started stating that Ishita is real mother of Ruhi and the same applies to Adi who was raised by Ishita for less than a year. Then the same reason applies here with Shagun as Pihu had her first brush of motherhood through Shagun so she should be her mother and not Ishita.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on post true IT HURTS specially the way raman was seperating pihu from ishita before leap it was he who wanted pihu for ishita's happiness but now he doesn't even let ishita come near the kid infact in tgese 7 yrs he didn't even tell pihu about ishita
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Posted: 9 years ago
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totally agree wid u...
anyways shagun has again started her dirty tricks...
but in dis case its clear tht she wont suceed...i think pihu...without her knowledge will get attracted to ishu...pihu will see the goodness in ishu...n mayb her adhi bhaiyya will also help her n ishu get closser...
loved adi 2day...d way he was crying 4 n with his ishima...ireally want adi to get out of ramans house n go n stay wid ishu...being n giving her support...yes as he said ishita is juz his ishima right now...i can understand tht aliya loves ishu...but she cant jus tell tht ishu is not adis mom...really gud tht he gave it back 2day...only character l like after d leap...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The possessive streak of every character was very poignantly expressed.DT i was sobbing as i heard her talk to Mani expressing her anguish at not being able to be a part of Pihu's life. She had built a wall of indifference and what had hurt her till now was the differences between her family of birth and the one she still feels part of the Bhallas.
When she heard her little girl ask her to leave she was shattered. The venom spewing Raman was silenced thereafter as he carried Pihu and walked away.
Shagun back to her mean games using kids as pawns. Ruhi should have a redeeming role when will that start. Now it seems to be Sirf Pihu ke liye.
Heart wrenching episode and justifies why DT won such accolades in SPA.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: janani_divan

Bang on post buddy.
Well written ...yes its hurt .i dont know after all this how a women accept raman like husband?
Bcoz of this track ,the more affected viewer is a women.it's affecting the younger generation too.raman words are more impact on me and his words ranting in my ears .if members believe me or not ..it is the truth.i know some members said it is just a fanfiction. it is a ff i know that, but still we are following it, why?for what?still we are expecting a monologue from raman sorry to say this ,its too late.


Very true janu women is d worst affected.. Wenever I read d dialogues of Raman I really get affected n I really think how wil a women go back to a man like Raman who has abused her so much ?. Wat hurts more is ppl who r justifying raman's actions as his jealousy,outburst n wat not that too most of them r women only who defend raman's actions.. Being a women I'm really feeling bad for ishita n want her to stand & fight for her self respect I know it's a love story n a daily soap so they wil reunite but not without teaching Raman a lesson & making him to realise his mistake not simply forgiving him after he says sorry...

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