It is hurting! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Mreddy

Thank you. I am Madhavi and yes, telugu and settled in Philadelphia. All of us connect to this story in one way or the other..the plight of the kids..because it does make a impression on the kids that they are wanted by both the parents. As you rightly said, not to fulfill a need. This is my first and last desi soap..I never had the patience for the desi soaps before, stick to the singing/comedy/game/dance shows. But Ishita and Ruhi caught my eye when I was surfing the channels and liked the acting..and then the story got me hooked here I am a frustrated viewer, not contributing to the TRP. The way they are callously treating infertile woman appalls me. Miscarriage for Ishita itself was a wound that they treated very liightly and on top of that within days, the husband was planning a replacement for the baby she lost. Just for one character they forgot the morality, decency in treating a sensitive subject. Do the TRP aunties watch this show unmindful of what the kids might be learning from this serial. Or what there young impressionable daughters might be learning from it..to be a doormat and suffer the consequences. We would want raise confident/independant daughters who will have the courage to deal with any situations that come across in life.

Originally posted by: infinity00

I think Raman is right in saying that Shagun is ASLI MAA, as Pihi is her and Raman's PLANNED baby for Ishita without her consent . Very well put by the topic maker as well. For the 10 minutes of so called Ishita and Raman confrontation , I believed and a lot of us believed what Ishita said " you made me feel like bhaanj by going behind my back"...and honesty after surrogacy YHM is definitely not the same as one after other stupid and silly , typical Balaji and Star Plus drama followed, unfortunately TRP is on their side, so there is no hope for sensible track in the future. I watch it for the actors so does most of the members ...for me Ishita should say this loud and clear " Pihu IS yours and Shagun's child, as I had nothing to do with her , she was never my child , you just used the excuse of giving me a status of having a biological child"...and I am very very sure that nothing like that would be said, the drama would continue...

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

hi Raji and Madhavi,,this serial has become a pain for us online viwers coz we are doing exactly what Ekta and her Balaji tproductions dont want us to do..we are thinking,analysing,and intelligently discussing and,rejecting the rubbish content..they want us to view it like a zombies ,keeping our brains aside ..this is my first Ekta serial but have heard enough about the pathetic content of her shows..but unfortunately for her she didnt expect this kind of debate over her serial YHM..well she herself is responsible..y handle a topic wen her creative team are so grossly incompetent..she bit more than she could chew with YHM..so advice for Ekta she should go back to creating crap..TRPS are high coz the Trp aunties are viewing it exactly the way she wants them to.😊

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi guys
Brilliant unbiased comments
There's nothing more to add , you guys said it all.
@TM thank you for this wonderful post. @ Mredfy,@ raji@ sumita@sheema... You guys are simply amazing.
I have immense respect for you guys. 👏

Originally posted by: moonwearer

We live in a society that feeds us not merely nourishment but a value and belief system as well. Certain regional variants and family beliefs apart we are socialised from infancy to believe we are super beings and nothing can go wrong.with us if the world around did not conspire. You fall bash the floor...you know your head...knock the inanimate object that came your way...this later gets transferred to the people around us. We begin to don the hat of the superpower and when something goes wrong blame it on others and repeat what you and others believe it is love that pushes you to act thus,

If Ishitha was upset and masking her pain at losing her baby instead of healing her Raman resorted to an illogical plan. the baby swap was his idea and ishitha faced the name calling and even now the way he spews venom everytime he sees her is far more heart wrenching than what Shagun had to face,

We watch the serial no doubt because most actors do an amazing job of acting.

The way even the women characters dont seem to understand Ishitha's state where she tells mani, i dont have any love left in my heart was extremely poignant for a woman like Ishitha who only knows to give love...care and affection especially to children.

Procreation most are capable of ...loving the way she does, is a unique motherhood state.

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi guys
Brilliant unbiased comments
There's nothing more to add , you guys said it all.
@TM thank you for this wonderful post. @ Mredfy,@ raji@ sumita@sheema... You guys are simply amazing.
I have immense respect for you guys. 👏

Originally posted by: ishrafan_us

Thank you viji, just ranted👏