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Posted: 9 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Mdwst

HI summits
This thought has been there since leap..but brushed aside. For the past 2-3 days I wrote it on my comment but edited it. Today I decided to post it. Well I've rea d these comments. And also one thread today, that one of @ Tm's friend was abused after her mil saw yhm..look what social awareness these people are showing/ creating. .ramans actions and lines is not going well with most of them., And it's is very wrong for Bala and mani to file without talking to her..they should've discussed it with her...that's unacceptable. Ishu has no idea what Raman was talking about...if I was Ishita I would've immediately questioned him about it.nit worried about his something trivial..I understand her concern ..but that's not top priority..


Raman had talked about Pihu before too, I think. Ishita was right since she had no clue, plus she did not sign any document, so why will she think of it? I think Mihir said that Ishita is going to file for custody thru that lawyer, Not that she has already! In any case who cares about ishita's decision-making? Raman got her to sign up for surrogacy without her even knowing about it and she did not want it. And now this!

I think what Adi did was right, coz Raman was physically going to throw her things out and he is capable of it right now. Maybe now his abuse will be toned down. Moreover, Raman is not going to jail, and Ishita will take back the complaint.

Today I felt that Raman truly does not want anything to do with her and will be happy if she dies. So now it is just Raman and Ishita. He again blamed Ishita only for Ruhi's death and Ruhi was kinda hearing it, so Ruhi as usual will be convinced that only Ishita is to blame for her plight. So what monologue are people waiting for? he has no guilt whatsoever, he still thinks she betrayed him, she killed Ruhi, so what more is there to say? Dunno how that loop will be closed.

I think Pihu's so called custody has opened the Pandora Box for her finally. She will now get to know the truth, perhaps from Adi. Raman sees Ruhi in Pihu, its got nothing to do with ishita.

I think Cvs want us to quit the show...again
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Posted: 9 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: sunitas123


Raman had talked about Pihu before too, I think. Ishita was right since she had no clue, plus she did not sign any document, so why will she think of it? I think Mihir said that Ishita is going to file for custody thru that lawyer, Not that she has already! In any case who cares about ishita's decision-making? Raman got her to sign up for surrogacy without her even knowing about it and she did not want it. And now this!

I think what Adi did was right, coz Raman was physically going to throw her things out and he is capable of it right now. Maybe now his abuse will be toned down. Moreover, Raman is not going to jail, and Ishita will take back the complaint.

Today I felt that Raman truly does not want anything to do with her and will be happy if she dies. So now it is just Raman and Ishita. He again blamed Ishita only for Ruhi's death and Ruhi was kinda hearing it, so Ruhi as usual will be convinced that only Ishita is to blame for her plight. So what monologue are people waiting for? he has no guilt whatsoever, he still thinks she betrayed him, she killed Ruhi, so what more is there to say? Dunno how that loop will be closed.

I think Pihu's so called custody has opened the Pandora Box for her finally. She will now get to know the truth, perhaps from Adi. Raman sees Ruhi in Pihu, its got nothing to do with ishita.

I think Cvs want us to quit the show...again

Just like shags Raman also want to wash of his ill treatment with Ruhi by doting on Pihu. Its got nothing to do with Ishita. cVS are clarifying it for us.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose1000

Many people are cursing Adi. But for those of us who live here in USA..we know very well Raman would have been in police custody for his spousal abuse and also domestic violence. khair choro..Balaji shows mein sab kuch chalta hai.

Everybody BHallas Iyers and even Ishita think Pihu reminds them of Ruhi. And Now I think Raman does the same. He sees Ruhi in Pihu. He lost Ruhi. He does not want to lose Pihu because in his mind he is equating loosing Pihu to losing Ruhi.
It has nothing to do with Ishita. Just my POV.

The writers have given some of the worst words of abuse to Raman.

But I feel they have written the most messed up, contradictory lines for Ruhi.
Nothing of what she says or does makes sense any more.

So pre leap Ruhi "died" first. Then Ishita suicide.

Yet Ruhi was surprised to see Ishita alive and told Nidhi "Ishita zinda hai"...How come Ruhi after being "dead" knew that Ishita died?
She thinks her parents abandoned her and Nidhi saved her...when clearly in pre leap it was NIdhi who took her away from Ishita at gun point
Ruhi wants to keep Raman and Ishita separate. But did she not know in Australia itself that Ishita was living with Mani and hence already separated from Raman?
She is jealous of Pihu because she thinks Pihu got the love and family that actually belonged to her. Then why is she not trying to separate Raman and Pihu?
She has seen now Ishita does not have Pihu. So why she keeps blaming that Ishita abandoned her for Pihu.

All the lines are so contradictory. Don't know how may writers are writing her lines.

As for Custody...well Ishita will never let Pihu go through all that. Most probably she will save Ruhi and bring her back on Sharam's wedding day and leave. May be by then Sharam will be married. Raman will realize his mistake but it will be too late. Bala hinted yesterday that by the time Raman realizes , it might be too late.
So Ishu may just go missing...or Nidhi might do something to her...

If then Raman realizes his mistake, he may want to divorce Shagun. and then Shagun applies for Pihu custody...Raman remarries Ishu...for custody

Or...Sharam marriage will stop just before he applies sindur and mangal sutra...


Word Rose. I said that too. So if Ruhi is alive Raman will start loving Ishita all of a sudden? It makes me believe he never loved her. he just used her.

I dont want comedy and one episode end to this track. Let Raman have his kids and let ishita leave him in peace since he will now have his family complete, his kids, his love, his kids ki asli ma and himself!

It does seem like if Ruhi had died, Ishita was never to be forgiven. So where is Ishra?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@GBSC thanx.. interesting perspective.. you r saying by hurling those accusations at her that night he was actually shielding her from the blame others would have put on her..he became the instigator of the events delibrately..to save Ishita from being victimsed by the family?and now wnts Ishita to fight for him and pihu and remove Xena from the scene coz unwittingly Xena has become a part of Bhalla household?but dont you think for Ishu to fight she has to believe in their relationship,,which right now she doesnot. i guess just like us viewers Ishita is also taking Raman at face value..and u will also agree she is not a person who catches on to hints that too subtle ones easily.God this serial has become a headache😆right now all that is clear is Raman's abusive behaviour or at least that's what the cvs want to show..lets see,,😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

@GBSC you r saying by hurling those accusations at her that night he was actually shielding her from the blame others would have put on her..he became the instigator of the events delibrately..to save Ishita from being victimsed by the family?and now wnts Ishita to fight for him and pihu and remove Xena from the scene coz unwittingly Xena has bbecome a part of Bhalla household?but dont you think for Ishu to fight she has to believe in their relationship,,which right now she doesnot..God this serial has become a headache😆

As usual is he asking Ishita to clean up the mess created by him? As sumita said what right she has wife or pihus mom. Wife is dead and today and end of tomorrow he is also going to strip her off the right to be asli ma of Pihu. Nice

I don't think even CVS are clear on what they want either
Edited by ishrafan_us - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Raji thank you dear..i really feel very strongly about this..people who can make a difference should do it..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: GBSC


I too felt the same.
Actually when the episodes are watched irregularly and avoiding the olvs n segments,the whole scenario does'nt sound that bad.
The discussions really spook you out.
I liked ishita-raman scene today.
I feel raman has reduced his screaming decibel.
If the viewers don't agree to the pic the cvs want to present ,raman will scream.
I still hold on to the fact that raman is overdoing it in shagun's presence.
He is just like toshiji.A chameleon according to convenience.
Rt now he is not revealing as to how he will get rid off xena.
Can anyone explain as to how can raman get ishu back and xena off the pic.What is raman supposed to do other than giving marriage promises.Did'nt nidhi create trouble and kill ruhi(as he imagines),when nidhi came to know that raman sided with ishu and was not sincere to nidhi.
As of now raman is defo clear as to what he wants.It is xena he is planning to remove from the pic.
Raman is disturbed by ishu,does not want to lose pihu and wants ishu to fight it out with him.
Raman believes pihu will be his trump card.I feel that raman wants ishu to fight HIS war with xena.
Ruhi is sending confusing signals.
Amma n appa were good today.


Are you trying to say by throwing Ishita out from the society he was teaching Shagun a lesson. Shagun was not even there. He was going to throw her stuff out that is why Adi got fed up.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: sunitas123


Word Rose. I said that too. So if Ruhi is alive Raman will start loving Ishita all of a sudden? It makes me believe he never loved her. he just used her.

I dont want comedy and one episode end to this track. Let Raman have his kids and let ishita leave him in peace since he will now have his family complete, his kids, his love, his kids ki asli ma and himself!

It does seem like if Ruhi had died, Ishita was never to be forgiven. So where is Ishra?



Reunion at this point is not possible after the words he has said..baanjh...sauteli maa...how will Raman ever take back those words????
Bhallas , including Raman, are happy with Ishita as long as everything is good. The moment something goes wrong, blame on Ishita. Param kaand, sarika kaand, Rinki kaand...But look how Shagun gets free pass... they say she is bad...but they still let her in their lives. So where is IShra in all this? Nowhere. It has become a relationship of convenience...use and throw Ishita...

This time Raman is even using Shagun. Let him reap what he is sowing...let him marry Shagun, have more kids and live happily ever after. Who cares what happens to Ishita...after all she is baanjh...and baanjh women are not allowed to live...at least in Balaji telly world.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

@Raji thank you dear..i really feel very strongly about this..people who can make a difference should do it..

Me too sumita. But after all the protest against surrogacy how they went about it killed my spirit.
Raman treatment and words towards ishita were not acceptable by lot of us the makers never toned it down infact they showed as It never bothered Ishita under the name of how much she loves him and understands him. So there is no course correction.
Just to let the leap happen the makers severely negated the beautiful love story they built for Ishita Raman and destroyed everything.
But the irony and funny part of it is the same brautiful story they want to recreate with Shagun and Raman. Go figure. One can never build something beatiful like ishra from ashes. It is failing and they will lose more viewers soon.
At this point Raman is not redeemable in my opinion.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i didn't watched today's episode bt i feel after all the happenings that raman and ishita have no love left
the show has become a typical sp show where ML blames FL for any wrong and FL clears the mess
i m unable to see any mohabbatein remaining
raman seems to be happy with the fact that he is marrying and finally live a peaceful life
it is ishita's one sided love which is irritating me nw
ishita shld leave raman to die

ps-m an ishra lover bt ri8 nw m pissed off

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