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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ya I remember ishita when first time met ruhi after leap said ur wisdom teeth has not came abhi bahoot dimag aana bacha hai
I don't remember exact word
That day I felt ya she will be impulsive to her ishimas
Her reaction after seeing ishimas was strong
She two time got attack even in unconscious state she not left her hand and even remember her handmade food smell
So these small things show that how much ishimas was for her
After seeing Raman she has flashback but not strong reaction
And after seeing shagun as if she has met this stranger in her childhood
I am not blaming ruhi but CVS for ruining heart relation and her childhood
They r creating yhm 1.0 again only in different way
Here pihu+Adi love for ishita in yhm2.0= ruhi love in yhm 1.0
And made ruhi a sufferer like Adi
I know ruhi suffered emotionally and physically both and Adi only emotionally so her hatred is also more
I think Raman and ishita will unite before ruhi truth as on the day of marriage ishra will somehow get married and then nidhi will manipulate ruhi like shagun did to Adi
But here ishra love ruhi more than anything so their love will her like Adi was healed
I am not blaming ruhi but CVS as ruhanika as ruhi has won everyone heart even today if u remember our cute innocent ruhi with this ruhi u will cry buckets
I feel more than ruhi we loved ruhanika and when we go to flashback that innocent child make us cry as we rember she is also same ruhi who was in childhood
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ruhi is villan?why,coz she is not loving Ishita? liking ishita char is ok but try to understand the pov of others too.just coz she is not suporting ishu , she became matlabi?more than any one else its Ruhi who has suffered alot.Ishita had aliya to become a mom n had mani but whom did ruhi had? none
As for ruhi hating n calling ishu a sauteli mom...she had listened ishu 's words of exchange and what would lil kid's heart think?just coz ishita has has her own daughter , now she is not needed and ishita has finally showed her blood over ruhi, that is the first thing will come in her mind and that thinking is not wrong at all , we ourselves do this in real life as well.After suffering since 7yrs ,its obvious she will hate her parents n ishita more coz she trusted n loved her more n ishu disappointed her.Last yr during child swap too , ruhi did the same thing with ishita coz she failed to keep her promise.now she doing the same.
Hope ppl understand that apart from ishita there are othet characters too who have sufferred n r sufferring more than ishita and need sympathy.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#43
neither I m against ruhi nor I made dis post to blame her I was just thinking if she know abt ishita nd still hating her den how or any possible way she can come back to ishu! we can't blame ruhi if she hate ishita more den Raman bcoz she even loved her ishima more den Papa she was tortured on d name of ishita she was too little to think abt ri8 nd wrong she might hv thought dat ishita hv loved her so much untill she did nt hv own baby again nidhi she beats nd tortures her badly still sometime she care for her family. once she come back to her family she will be fine
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-



And the funny thing is even Raman only refers to her as a sautali ma to her & no one else...but that's a different character sketch.

Honestly Ishita and Raman both failed as Ruhi, Adi, & Pihu's parents. Different degrees and different situations for both of them but both let their kids down, regardless of being biologic, step, or whatever type of parents. Their hurt blinded them to their kids hurt.

The CVs show Adi as not having any real hurt from Ishita but only Raman & everyone is fine with that. So for Ruhi to be confused and hurt towards both is also understandable.

In an ideal world IshRa would heal each other before Ruhi comes into the picture, but that won't happen as these distances create drama for the future. But when Ruhi is back in the picture - both need to redeem themselves as parents & they have a long uphill battle.

And sadly bc of the Sirf Ruhi Ke Liye dynamic they want to recreate - it may be a while before her truth is out

What ever the sick plot makers have it's their story. But as you said both Raman and Ishita failed as parents. Just because Adi is not showing hurt doesn't mean he is not hurt. In his growing years he is without his mom. Pihu no words for the way she is unaware of her real mom and living in the tv world. For Raman he needs to own up his mistakes and him and Ishita need to sort this mess ASAP without further hurting their kids. Why Adi needs to be burdened to bring his parents together?
Both Raman and Ishita need to sort out for the sake of kids.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: UMAT

Sorry to say noone is disappointed with ruhi hatred she can hate them punish them what she want can do
But she is HATING ishita as she is thinking she is her sauteli ma
And most importantly she know about everything but expecting everything from her ma not Papa because he can't do any wrong as he is his own father
I know she has gone through alot and it will be not wrong to say she has gone on her papa


Exactly, genetically you cannot inherit anything from stepmother but a lot from your own father !
One can only get the stepmother traits from "parvarish "
Ruhi was separated from Ishita at a tender age of 7-8 and under Nidhi during the impressionable age of 8-14 she can turn into anything .















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Posted: 9 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: ishrafan_us


What ever the sick plot makers have it's their story. But as you said both Raman and Ishita failed as parents. Just because Adi is not showing hurt doesn't mean he is not hurt. In his growing years he is without his mom. Pihu no words for the way she is unaware of her real mom and living in the tv world. For Raman he needs to own up his mistakes and him and Ishita need to sort this mess ASAP without further hurting their kids. Why Adi needs to be burdened to bring his parents together?
Both Raman and Ishita need to sort out for the sake of kids.



Bingo

That's where the makers are in a corner though - do they focus on IshRa the hurt lovers or IshRa the parents? In an ideal, non-soap world focusing on IshRa the couple will allow them to become better parents bc until bhoot track (except child swap)...they were decent, normal mistake making parents...but bhoot track, Shanaya track, and pre/post leap crap focused on them as a couple at the expense of them as parents.

The reality is both screwed up & their respective insecurities kept them from having the relationship we know they are capable of...and those insecurities weakened their relationship and weak parents ultimate impact their kids. When both overcome their insecurities even a little bit - they will become the selfless parents we know them to be.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#47
Judging Ruhi , seriously?
She was a young child when she heard her mother talk about child swap. NONE of her parents tried explaining to her or having a talk with her. They COLLECTIVELY made a stupid call and her anger is absolutely right. None of them had to suffer the abuse she had, her childhood was stolen , she is psychologically damaged. Do you ever wonder the kind of abuse she would have undergone ? How much of it , she would have suffered?

She had more expectations from Ishita because as a child even she went against her father too , for her Ishima. She is not "okay" with Raman but certainly had far greater faith in Ishita.

Doesn't matter if all this is cleared Ishita is hailed as "Mother of the century", fact will remain that RUHI WAS/IS A VICTIM OF CHILD ABUSE because of her parents' negligence.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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can the stem of her hatred be related to her overhearing Ishita agreeing for swap with her biological kid? ...I may be wrong...as I was not watching YHM in those days...but I read the WU.

before we put on our judgemental hat to criticize anyone...we need to walk a few steps if not a mile in their shoes ...look at what has Ruhi been through and still going through since that day...while the adults are suffering as a consequence of their own actions, Ruhi is the biggest victim in this scenario and NOT by any of her fault. If anyone, she's allowed to be bitter because since the age of 7 she has seen an ugly side of life which drive anyone albeit adults crazy, bitter...and she's angry as in Ishita she had found her savior...Raman was brought into her life in all true sense by Ishita...and more than Raman, she was assured of Ishita being her protector. So she feels more anger/abhimaan towards her than Raman.

Kids are victims of their circumstance...and Ruhi kinda got a raw deal from adults for most of her life..sans the time Ishita became her mother...so if anything she deserves some sympathy rather than judgement.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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They already showed ruhi point of view about ishra during hizack track.so she cant turn negitive
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-



Bingo

That's where the makers are in a corner though - do they focus on IshRa the hurt lovers or IshRa the parents? In an ideal, non-soap world focusing on IshRa the couple will allow them to become better parents bc until bhoot track (except child swap)...they were decent, normal mistake making parents...but bhoot track, Shanaya track, and pre/post leap crap focused on them as a couple at the expense of them as parents.

The reality is both screwed up & their respective insecurities kept them from having the relationship we know they are capable of...and those insecurities weakened their relationship and weak parents ultimate impact their kids. When both overcome their insecurities even a little bit - they will become the selfless parents we know them to be.


Word krishi👏👏
I want them to be shown as parents first no more hurt lovers. Yes their love story didn't really take on but them showing as parents who will trust and respect each other while protecting and their kids should be the focus. There is long life to live and love will be there even after kids leave the nest. Hope we see that.

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