Lovely take and a very brave post...đ
Its difficult to see beyond things that make you uncomfortable normally...but...I am glad you have a very balanced view , always..
Plus my small take..it's not deja vu..raman asked everything that needed to be asked..stuff I would have loved loved yup hear from him in a mature albeit high on emotions conversation. .mind you . L such a conversation can never be a quiet, weepy, why did u do this to me in hushed whispers ..it is going to be ugly..we all expected it to be ugly. .it will be very ugly in real life too...esp with the ones you love most..I am married and see enough happily married couples around me..and trust me something like losing a child can drive the sanest of couples apart that too in tune ugliest of manners..
People who feel raman, in fact even Ishita could have talked in na nice manner..after all the events which unfolded in the last few days and the build up of 7 yrs...no it thn never would. . Only in fairytales it might..
Its not deja vu..because raman is not intentionally reliving the night..he asked her everything right about leaving her kids , leaving him writhing in guilt for 7 yrs ( he said he died in guilt of killing her every moment of 7 yrs), not informing anyone, living happily with another man - her fb best friend ( it's unfair to crucify him on this too, because noone has cleared her stance on this yet, ishita chooses to keep mum and Mani's actions are b very spuoselike and confusing)..and then starts the insinuations again..
You killed ruhi, you are dead for me.. you didn't come back for the kids.. you decided to instead bring up someone else's as your oenand your kids grew up without you. .though you were happy elsewhere. . You are the worst mother, you are not even worthy of b r ing called a step mom... you should have died. .stay away from my family. .. you are dead for me...,
If one could listen carefully beying of the tone and brute anger ...there was a clear reason for the outburst after the first few questions. .
He was clearly happy to see her bac but her status dB quo with a new family r ankles his insecurities like nothing ever before and so he doesn't relive they night acc to me..like you said in your previous post, he finds the weakest chunk in her armour to hurt her as she is him..to push her away before she does that to him...
Ishita not responding, reacting..not asking him questions or answering him back. .or stopping him from thinking too much about mani her and aliya compounds the magnitude of his words...that's all you are left with as a viewer..and that passes me off no end...đ¤˘
Adding an excerpt from a different thread...purely for your takrđ
So the 2 people who apparently love ishita the most..not including ruhi here yet, site is presumed dead...were the only people to question her decision to stay away and lie about her death..I actually want to applaud cvs for this..they really surprised me..
Monster raman asking questions was WV expected.. and I am glad he did. .though I do not want to comment on the tone and language...but amma asking the same questions was a master stroke. ..
Raman and Amma are the only people who would have been most affected by ishita's death and then even more by her lying about her death...the ones you love the most , you also think the world of them. ..and for both raman and Amma it was not fathomable that ishita would do this. .lie to them for so many years...it is just not the ishita they know...for raman she was his jhansi ki rani.. the woman who could fight for him, with him and fight the world for his kids...she running away and then living a life ..according to him a happy life..with her best friend is as bad as it gets..
For amma..ishu was always her pride.. the girl who fought society, accusations, took on a marriage for the sake of a little girl and fought every circumstance to turn around the family.. she was always a fightet.. so while she committee suicide..that itself would have been tough to digest and accept. . The fact that she chose to stay away all these years and didn't even inform her amma.. would have hurt very y very hard...
Raman again bringing in the ruhis death and step mom talk...he knows what hurts ishita the most..we often give out our biggest weaknesses to tie ones SC we love the most..leaving us exposed when those loved ones turn on us..for raman this is the only weapon he will choose again and again to hurt ishita everytime he feels betrayed. .
Yes. .I heard he confessed he was dying in guilt every minute of the last 7 yrs..but yes cvs as usual did not give enough time for showing this. . And made the male lead say all right things as if he was accusing and abusing the bechaari FL...
if all this had been said to ishita behind closed doors or when ishita and raman were alone the story would have been different. .
But that wouldn't have got cvs their DRAMAđ..now bechaari FL crying and saying I shouldn't have come back and male lead saying you should have died makes for loads of dramađ
Raman trying to run away from having to face ishita..was unexpected ..but thn he has been trying to run away from ishita and her memories for 7 years..that's why he kept saying post leap that they should shift houses.. that was because it had ishita's memories but he wouldn't accept it..now he wants to run from ishita herself..for the fear fb of facing her or for the fear of breaking down..
I think it's the latter. .he has his defence up because he thinks she was living a happy life with shani..but when he knows the truth. .he would still want to run away because of guilt and his apparent breakdown..
Thanks again for making this post...i am glad this time around there are places where one can still discuss with freedom without having to toe the line or being shouted downđ
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