Hey dear,
Don't take any of things to your heart. I know what you might have felt, but if someone's says something it is not always necessary to listen and take it to your heart. Don't be so weak that anyone says anything and you take it to your heart and spoil yourself. In future also you will get through different phases of life and will come across different people. You might face few people later in life who purposefully say some things to hurt you that too specially if you take everyone's words to your heart.
It is always said that life is not small and genre of people surrounding is not always same, we should be mentally strong. There would be few people who would come to know that you are so weak at heart and takes everyone's words seriously; will try to say lot to you and make you feel helpless. Don't make others rule your life; if there is some weakness make it your strength. Rather that taking it to heart fight with your weakness. Nothing comes true if someone says, always remember that. It's said that no one gets anything before time and gets only those things written in destiny.
It is advisable to never take things to your heart this easily.
P.S. Sorry everyone I have given a long lecture on this, but this is the truth. To survive in this world you have to be strong. If you take everyone's word you can never move ahead peacefully.
Edited by sririt - 9 years ago