Can RAMAN please live alone! - Page 4

Originally posted by: samrash27

this is one of the best post after the surrogacy incident... whatever he did .. he did it for ishita... people are seeing ishita's pain but they are ignoring the pain which raman goes through when he himself is the reason of her pain...

what matters is the intention not action...

for me, if anybody is doing something with good intention then path doesnt matter much... atlast we all are human and we all are bound to do mistakes...

Originally posted by: serious

well, I haven't watched the episode or read WU yet but I would be really hurt if I have a sister like Simmi .. who would go behind my back & test my DNA with some X, Y, Z.

Here, it could be an ex-wife but what if she has some kindda suspicious mind & starts cross checking it with every soul, sorry that's not acceptable in any terms to me.

If bro-sis had a tense relation, at least it was understandable.. if one want to malign the other in front of family or xyz..

Will try to update later, if time permits on my POV on the entire scenario, w.r.other tracks.. RKB was turned into a scapegoat by CV's .. in nearly almost all the tracks ever since Mani entered.. one of the reasons .. why we considered RKB's role especially with Ishita as - Thanks Kaho, Galti Karo, Maaphi Maango ... its a cycle, there's no change in it. Galti koi bhi kare... end mein RKB hi maaphi mangega .. TRP aunties love patis apologizing .. may be that's their fantasy ..

Originally posted by: tia.o

I would be really hurt if I have a sister like Simmi .. who would go behind my back & test my DNA with some X, Y, Z. - Ummm... WHAT? You will be hurt if you your sister went behind your back and did your DNA testing. So how would you feel if your husband went behind your back and impregnated his ex-wife (or some X, Y, Z) with your egg without your consent?

If bro-sis had a tense relation, at least it was understandable.. if one want to malign the other in front of family or xyz.. - I mean according to you, it is understandable if husband and wife had a tense situation and one wanted to hurt other where it hurts most.

Galti koi bhi kare... end mein RKB hi maaphi mangega .. TRP aunties love patis apologizing .. may be that's their fantasy .. - Husband apologizing? God forbid!!! Can husband ever be wrong? Nope. I mean he can play God with wife's life but he is still the almighty. What is wife other than his possession? He OWNS that freaking body. He can do whatever he wants with it. Right?

Originally posted by: serious

Who is my sister to test, if I've crossed a line or not ? Was I serial cheater for my family members to doubt on me ? Effing no! Sister is not a S.I.L to doubt on her own brother. I surely haven't been raised in such a culture where a sister goes behind brother's back & gets what not tested. -

So sister should not be loyal to her sister-in-law? She should always defend her blood relation and not look out for her sister-in-law who became more than her blood relation and saved the whole freaking family? I am sorry but according to you it's perfectly acceptable for a husband to go behind his wife's back but God forbid, a sister goes behind her brother's back.

Its not only me but my TRP mom agrees with it ... she said it in much simpler form ... CV's have tainted bro-sister relation of RKB - Simmi by making Simmi test her own brother's DNA & if CV's had shown either Mihika or mrs.Iyyer doing it, it was far more acceptable. -

CVS have tainted HUSBAND-WIFE'S relationship first. AND NO, even if Mihika or Mrs. Iyyer did that even then it's not acceptable for ANY FAMILY MEMBER TO GO BEHIND ANY FAMILY MEMBER'S BACK FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER... And it's unacceptable for Simmi to go behind Raman's back, then it's unacceptable for Raman to go behind Ishita's back and I will remind you, this is NOT the first time he has done so. If he had got a tight slap the last time, he won't have done it again. If my (or any self-respecting women's) husband had done that, he would have been divorced the first time for taking my signature through cheating, never mind the second time.

And, I was only talking w.r.t bro-sis relation & not a husband-wife relation.. May be you should read my post again before you jump to your views. If you've issues with my POV deal with it. I'm not here either to preach nor to be preached.

And it would have been better if you read my signature before referring to the genders in your post.

YHM isn't my first Indian serial nor gonna be my last.. I'll stick to my stand on the trend of patis apologizing & patis being a monster, while patni is an abla nari ! -

Then in your opinion, the track is the problem. I agree. The fact that CVs had come up with this kind of disgusting track was bad enough. But it doesn't change the fact that CVs have portrayed Raman Bhalla as wrong. There is no defense against it. What he did was not only illegal but a betrayal of the closest relationship a human being can create.

And jyfi, I've clearly stated, I was referring to the earlier tracks (I don't have effing time to go on & on about this, I've already posted my POV's in earlier topics) & not the present one, as I haven't watched YHM regularly for quite a while to give in a POV regarding that.