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rakshaanra

@rakshaanra

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

Raman did what he did.

Surrogacy is a legitimate thing

They can show the positive stuff on surrogacy

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jhansi26

@jhansi26

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Many are justifying Raman's act saying that he has this out of love for Ishita but I choose to disagree to this point because Raman may be emotional but not senseless. If he wants her to give this happiness he will choose to convince her rather than taking sign blindly. Yesterday he spoke to shagun in a convincing way I would be happy if he chooses same path with Ishita. I know he is the person who is suffering in this and he also feels the pain of Ishita but he didn't try to reduce the pain at least by talking to her. If he don't want to tell the truth fine at least he tried to build some confidence in her by talking.

Coming to simmi I would have agree if she jumps to a conclusion but the circumstances before her which Raman paves the path for is the reason for the decision.

Then coming to Shagun, yes now she is the changed person and deserves the second chance. But how can people know she is changed. It is the deeds which will prove her as changed. But bhallas never got to see her changed look so as the benefit of doubt they will not believe shagun.

And when Raman got a chance to explain also he choose to be silent which makes other person makes to feel that he is wrong and also he shouts on Ishita that think whatever you want but I don't care makes more pain. I agree his intentions were never wrong but chooses a path with pierces so need to bare the cuts of the chosen path.

Sorry for the long post.

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kiran_kartik

@kiran_kartik

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Bang on post.

What really hurts is that the CVs have degraded the character of Raman all for what , to glorify the FL and the vamp turned good surrogate mother. According to me, raman did everything with a good intention. Agreed that he didn't consult with Ishita or get her consent but that definitely doesn't make him a culprit.

How conviniently the whole BHalla parivaar decided not to believe Raman.

Afterall it is the sympathy votes for the FL and the clash between the FL & the vamp brings TRPs.

Who is bothered about the emotions of the ML or Where is the ML even playing a role in garnering TRPs?

He is certainly better off alone than being in this mess.

Edited by kiran_kartik - 9 years ago

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream
Agreed... When Ishita fleed away with Ruhi without informing anyone, everybody justified her by stating that it was motherly love then today when Raman has done surrogacy without Ishita knowing why is people pointing fingers at him ? Y cannot he also be justified as a person who took this step out of love for his wife. Y is he being ridiculed ?

Surrogacy is not a joke. Any woman who becomes surrogate can get attached to the child. And here it is Shagun!

Manoj only conducted tests so when the hell did he do the procedure for Ishita, without her knowledge? That is illegal. Raman getting signature on the paper - is illegal.

Next what makes a woman well over 35 and who had a dangerous secodn prgnancy the right candidate for surrogacy? The whole Ruhi vs Shagun episode is clearly forgotten. Luckily Shagun survived and so did Ruhi! So in a way her life in under threat again and Raman will again need to choose between the kid and Shagun?

Let us imagine the child is born, Shagun will happily give it to Ishita? What about feeding milk etc? Will she do it? Plus she wants to live in Bhalla house, so having 2 wives under a roof makes sense?

Surrogacy was not needed at all. They have 2 kids already. Giving ishita pain, is not going to make her happy. Is Ishita ready for the surprise gift? Is she going thru the process of motherhood?Raman was spending so much time, dating Shagun and shouting at Ishita, how does he love her?

It is just his obsession for a kid, which he is passing off as love for Ishita.

He has never ever trusted her, lied, made false promises, and always listened to Shagun and manipulated Ishita. So where is the love?

Getting shagun in Bhalla house had a motive- to get Adi close to Raman, for which she took so much humiliation, but both she and Raman knew what was going on. Raman had made Ishita apologize to Adi and Shagun in the past too...

When Ishita was over friendly with Mani, they had not confessed their love. There too Raman tried to cross the line...

When she ran away with Ruhi, again it was Raman's fault. Cheating her and signing the swap papers with Shagun, Ishita literally died of shock. Should she have just handed Ruhi over? Raman has always made such huge mistakes and the mistakes only get bigger...Even after the swap he did nothing to get her back, Ruhi started hating ishita...while Raman had dinner dates and dvd dates with Shagun...😆

Hail Raman, everyone should have a husband like him...😆

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3fra

@3fra

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Surrogacy is not a joke. Any woman who becomes surrogate can get attached to the child. And here it is Shagun!

Manoj only conducted tests so when the hell did he do the procedure for Ishita, without her knowledge? That is illegal. Raman getting signature on the paper - is illegal.

Next what makes a woman well over 35 and who had a dangerous secodn prgnancy the right candidate for surrogacy? The whole Ruhi vs Shagun episode is clearly forgotten. Luckily Shagun survived and so did Ruhi! So in a way her life in under threat again and Raman will again need to choose between the kid and Shagun?

Let us imagine the child is born, Shagun will happily give it to Ishita? What about feeding milk etc? Will she do it? Plus she wants to live in Bhalla house, so having 2 wives under a roof makes sense?

Surrogacy was not needed at all. They have 2 kids already. Giving ishita pain, is not going to make her happy. Is Ishita ready for the surprise gift? Is she going thru the process of motherhood?Raman was spending so much time, dating Shagun and shouting at Ishita, how does he love her?

It is just his obsession for a kid, which he is passing off as love for Ishita.

He has never ever trusted her, lied, made false promises, and always listened to Shagun and manipulated Ishita. So where is the love?

Getting shagun in Bhalla house had a motive- to get Adi close to Raman, for which she took so much humiliation, but both she and Raman knew what was going on. Raman had made Ishita apologize to Adi and Shagun in the past too...

When Ishita was over friendly with Mani, they had not confessed their love. There too Raman tried to cross the line...

When she ran away with Ruhi, again it was Raman's fault. Cheating her and signing the swap papers with Shagun, Ishita literally died of shock. Should she have just handed Ruhi over? Raman has always made such huge mistakes and the mistakes only get bigger...Even after the swap he did nothing to get her back, Ruhi started hating ishita...while Raman had dinner dates and dvd dates with Shagun...😆

Hail Raman, everyone should have a husband like him...😆

Totally agree well said

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serious

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

well, I haven't watched the episode or read WU yet but I would be really hurt if I have a sister like Simmi .. who would go behind my back & test my DNA with some X, Y, Z.

Here, it could be an ex-wife but what if she has some kindda suspicious mind & starts cross checking it with every soul, sorry that's not acceptable in any terms to me.

If bro-sis had a tense relation, at least it was understandable.. if one want to malign the other in front of family or xyz..

Will try to update later, if time permits on my POV on the entire scenario, w.r.other tracks.. RKB was turned into a scapegoat by CV's .. in nearly almost all the tracks ever since Mani entered.. one of the reasons .. why we considered RKB's role especially with Ishita as - Thanks Kaho, Galti Karo, Maaphi Maango ... its a cycle, there's no change in it. Galti koi bhi kare... end mein RKB hi maaphi mangega .. TRP aunties love patis apologizing .. may be that's their fantasy ..

Edited by serious - 9 years ago

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-MS-

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: sunitas123
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When Ishita was over friendly with Mani, they had not confessed their love. There too Raman tried to cross the line...
When she ran away with Ruhi, again it was Raman's fault. Cheating her and signing the swap papers with Shagun, Ishita literally died of shock. Should she have just handed Ruhi over? Raman has always made such huge mistakes and the mistakes only get bigger...Even after the swap he did nothing to get her back, Ruhi started hating ishita...while Raman had dinner dates and dvd dates with Shagun...😆

Hail Raman, everyone should have a husband like him...😆

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Imane

@The_Imane

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Posted: 9 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: serious
well, I haven't watched the episode or read WU yet but I would be really hurt if I have a sister like Simmi .. who would go behind my back & test my DNA with some X, Y, Z.

Here, it could be an ex-wife but what if she has some kindda suspicious mind & starts cross checking it with every soul, sorry that's not acceptable in any terms to me.

If bro-sis had a tense relation, at least it was understandable.. if one want to malign the other in front of family or xyz..

Will try to update later, if time permits on my POV on the entire scenario, w.r.other tracks.. RKB was turned into a scapegoat by CV's .. in nearly almost all the tracks ever since Mani entered.. one of the reasons .. why we considered RKB's role especially with Ishita as - Thanks Kaho, Galti Karo, Maaphi Maango ... its a cycle, there's no change in it. Galti koi bhi kare... end mein RKB hi maaphi mangega .. TRP aunties love patis apologizing .. may be that's their fantasy ..

Complitely agree R !!

Edited by The_Imane - 9 years ago

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Imane

@The_Imane

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Posted: 9 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: hdivan
Whatever logic u give u can't remove what Raman did.m on of the those who start watching yhm for Raman bt his character totally dissapont me abt today's episode it was last minute change in script.Raman was saying simmi she did wring by doing DNA behind his back so wt about him???what he did is the main reason of this mess.lastly no wife in the world ll accept her sautan as surrogate mother .so for u it ll be okay if ishita agree shagun as surrogate mother???

What Raman did was between his wife, the doctor and the surrogate.bas

Simmi didnt needed to poke her nose in..fed up of these indians females who interfere in anyone's private matters!!

Simmi was WRONG.

Tought this is the same Simmi who supported her brother in accident track even knowing he isnt right!!

But why was her character butchered??

Because Mahaan FL cant doubt on her husband, and cant take such a step, Ah it would make her 0,5% grey you know...An Indian FL have to be 200% white.

Had the DNA test have been made by Ishit I would have no problem with it.

But Simmi should have cared about her own business, and if so bored then look out for a job

Edited by The_Imane - 9 years ago