EPISODE - CONFESSION AND OUTBURST OF A DIFFERENT KIND - Page 2

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Aru, I am not sure what I am doing here. I stopped watching the show a long long time ago, and my connection with it tenuous at the best. I wandered onto IF and read a few comments and I thought this was the best thread for me to impart my wisdom! 😆

Why isn't Ishita crying? Ishita is that kind of a person who has a defense mechanism where she shuts down her emotions when it comes to her! If anything were to happen to Raman or the children she will go totally and completely bonkers! But for her, she shuts down when she is affected!



The Ishita I have seen over the past is this one. Remember how calm she was when she broke her engagement to Prateek? How she outwitted Shagun on her wedding day? Calm, composed, collected cool!

So I find nothing wrong in her not ranting and railing at the loss of her child. She shuts her emotions down and that's it.

Heck, what do I know! I could be wrong and labelled a vehement Ishu supporter! But I was am and always will be IshRa fan, whether I watch the show or not! For me Raman and Ishita are equal!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I won't say she doesn't love Raman but when Ruhi is thr, it's Ruhi everything 4 her n Raman is nowhr! It was clearly evident when she ran off wid her at d airport during Shagun fraud! Did she even think of Raman n family 4 even once? Then whr was her so called love 4 her husband? Did she think how'll he live widout them n how mad vl he go while searching them? No! N she continuously taunted Raman 4 his mistake of signing wrong papers! But that was a fraud! Nobody wud ever think of reading d actual docs after reading d copy! Did she even think even once how guilty wud he b feeling? But no! He shdn't ever commit any mistakes but if she does, she's jagatmata! All is waived! If she can't support her husband, then loving that baby is far fetched! As i said, thr's no use of pregnancy wid this attitude of hers of not herself wanting d baby, leave alone surrogacy!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What an awesome write up Aru ... Yes indeed it was ! 👏 I need to say here it was your insta post videos and the caption, that made me watch the episode... So thank you 🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayasundar

Hi Aru,

Nice take on the episode.

Initially I was upset too that they have made Raman to feel guilty and Ishita not to care about the baby still I am angry at them at least for Raman they have given valid reason for him to be guilty but with Ishita they have made her look like the baby was a burden to her so I am hoping they give at least a monologue of her thinking about the baby it doesn't even have to be in tears just a happy thought will also do because then at least we will come to know she cares for the baby.

I am sure she cared and enjoyed the baby in her womb even it it for few days. The monologue or outburst will surely happen as the track progresses. I suppose the precap should do something but there will be outburst once the surrogacy talks pick up speed.

I wanted Ishita to breakdown and Raman handling her but YHM have been always breaking the norm of the society has in its place so when I saw today episode I felt yeah just like Param track where the family accepted the DIL and threw out the SIL which is not common practice because no matter what they always support the SIL even if it his mistake here also they are breaking the tradition of why does the husband always have to be an emotional anchor in cases of family crisis why cannot the wife be husband emotional anchor and the husband can leave his maccho image and break down in front of his wife during an emotional crisis in the world.

True YHM has broken too many norms including Ex coming in and staying. Not sure but I still feel men are more emotional and they hardly express and as always YHM made it a point to focus on this.

This was brilliantly portrayed by KP and DT superb acting👏👏

That they are

In this crisis Ishita become the emotional anchor to Raman and Raman became the person who needed support breaking the norm it was brilliantly done.

Having said that I don't like Raman coming into Ashok words time and again Ishita was correct in telling him that if you want to punish him ignore his words that would be the biggest punishment for him because after that he want be able to manipulate Raman.

I don't like Raman talking about surrogacy at all mainly because this IshRa baby track was many fans dream track and they have royally butchered it I am still watching the show because it is just a build up only but the day they have confirmed that surrogacy is going to happen via Shagun that would be the last day I would be watching even this powerful IshRa magic cannot make me watch that crap.

Ashok cracks me up. One should really not take his words but Ashok in Raman's mind has always been viewed with disgust. So it is easier for Raman to get affected and Ashok is making use of the situation.

Surrogacy is just crappy to glorify the saint even otherwise Surrogacy for ishRa pisses me off terribly. By no means Surrogacy is going to make Ishitha complete and she will have to hear people calling her names.

I am hoping this talk of surrogacy will lead to finally Ishita pouring out her pain.

Fingers crossed




Nice Post Maya. My replies in violet 😃 and Thank you 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Aru I couldn't agree with you more on this! This show had always been about 'LOVE' in it's purest sense!

Love between Raman and Ishita, started as a business proposal to keep Ruhi but grew into something more meaningful and fulfilling. Their love transformed into something selfless where they just loved each other without any expectations. Raman knew Ishita wouldn't be able to give him a child and he loved Ishita for who she is and not what she can provide him with. Similarly Ishita loves Raman for he is and expects nothing in return, the fact that she got motherhood from Adi and Ruhi is a bonus. Not sounding filmy or cheesy but it is their imperfections which got them closer. If Raman was the reason to give her kids then she was the reason behind uniting the father daughter and Son

Ishima and the kids: This love in it's pious form, it proved and showed that you don't have birth someone to be a mother figure and 'mamta' is a feeling that is above biology. It was always about nature vs nurture.
Tell me about it. She loves them more than her life. Like she says their family is complete long ago

Now to forget these wonderful shades and all of a sudden go for surrogacy is absurd but maybe the makers have something in mind that clearly i cannot fathom, also I have no right to comment because I stopped watching months ago.

Stupid Stupid CVs. !! They want to glorify you know who. You are still on track and it never felt like you have stopped watching.

Brilliantly put Aru! I agree with every single word especially with Karan and Divyanka's brilliant performance, for their sake and their talent I hope the writers do justice to them.

Thank you so much Doc. They breathe life in to IshRa and the mere reason why I am still addicted to the show in spite of all the stupidity 🥱


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SA1234

Brilliantly put Aru!

Last sentence of urs says it all.

it is always IshRa for me and will always be. There is never Ishitha or Raman



Thank you so much Anju 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonu_ishradivan

Didn't und ur point when u said "y she cried so much during Romi's wedding but didn't shed even a tear now"! Same Q is haunting me since last 2 days. Did she shed those tears cz she didn't live upto Ruhi n family's expectations, or she did cz se HERSELF wanted that baby? In either case, y didn't she shed now, considering d same reason?



She cried cos she felt she couldn't give that little happiness to that kid and family who gave her everything she wanted. Oh well, I still feel she has shut herself down and prefers making it her strength instead of making it her weakness. I might be wrong but this is what I feel.

Thank you
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: arfanazneen

I completely agree wid You Aru..So aptly written...Definitely Raman is totally wrong with this Surrogacy obsession..But atleast there is a reason given for his such behaviour and guilt..abut I completely fail to understand Ishita..How could she not react a bit to the huge loss of their child..Its ok if not infront of Raman but atleast her Solo scene where she is crying for their baby..Hurt for losing their baby..Does dat child never meant anything to her..?? For Raman this child was more special of all..he is so so affected by this loss and yes I agree he Loves Ishita a little more than his kids..Ishita is the most important person..But I really wish always...that they also show such kind of thing from Ishita's side..I mean expressing and sharing wid Raman..I wish!!!! But afterall what matters the most is IshRa together not individually...



Good to see you hear Arfu. I still feel Ishitha's outburst will happen. Also she has never cried hard except when it comes towards Ruhi. Not that I blame her but that's her character. The child means to her lot and she still thought about those happy moments. She rather prefers staying in those memories and will face the pain of it as the track progresses.

Hope I made sense. Thanks Aru 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: fugitives123

Lovely Aru!!

Last line...so true...Always IshRa❤️



Thank you so much Ann 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes totally well put , 👏for many of us yhm itself will always be abt ishra- not ishita or raman😉

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