Ishra moment:Disappoinment & Possessiveness *TY Note pg 8*

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Ishita: "I gave him my heart, and he took and pinched it to death;
and flung it back to me. "
Emily Bront,
Wuthering Heights

Raman: "It is when we love, that we become afraid."
Ka Wai Ng

He tries to look away as looking at her reminded him of all the vile words that Ashok filled in his ears and the otherwise normal compliments from his peers which are burning his ears as in his tunnel vision they are all leering at her, at his wife, at his Ishita...

She has been trying to get him to pay a little attention to her...look at her...look her the way her Raman always does...but her husband has been missing since the moment he laid eyes on her in the gown...even while dancing he has refused to look her way...making her feel inconsequential, undesirable

...and then momentarily their eyes meet...he gets lost in her eyes, in the moment...she notices the change in his eyes too, notices his struggle and tries to plead with him through her eyes to let her know what's bothering him...

It was a short one min or so moment...but the intensity, the rawness of his possessiveness, her disappointment... both of their suffering ...brought to life so well by the brilliance of two actors who express so much through just their expressions and body language. I was just blown away by the tangibility of emotions that transcended medium and touched my heart.

~Update

I wouldn't want to be in Ishita's shoes today. Everything a woman shouldn't have to endure, she faced them today ...from none other than her husband...and a husband who has been showering her with love for months now had turned into this cold, rude person . Every gesture of Raman's was an insult to her as his wife, a woman...she felt unwanted, unwelcome in the party...and she was made to feel that way by the very person who she had dressed up for. And every action of his rejected her, made her feel that she's indeed not 'his type'. And for her to be treated by Raman with so much contempt, indifference, it must have broken all her spirit.


And Raman was on his 'self-preservation' mode; he wanted to hurt her, reject her before she did that to him. The very woman who he used to fight with to make her stop wearing sarees for corporate parties, today he was having trouble to even look at her in gown because all his own insecurities tainting his vision.

While this kind of behavior defies logic...as we know that both have evolved in their relationship to a state where they have really good understanding of each other. But then this is YHM. Things sometimes don't follow the path or logic..otherwise why would a normal, in love couple still be celibate after more than one and half years of marriage, why would a grounded, educated girl like Rinki turn into her evil twin or Mihika into a bimbo, why would someone like Shagun care whether her ex and his current wife consummate their marriage or not? ..and there are more such instances...

What I'm happy about is that for a change Ishra are thinking only about themselves, about each other and acting possessive or hurt with respect to their partner. A marriage along with camaraderie, understanding needs some possessiveness...some desire to be the special one in your spouse's life...And we're seeing those emotions in them. And that to me is a track worth a watch.

And the two actors portraying the roles, make us feel every bit of the emotions their characters are going through. I didn't know whether I would have stuck to this story had it not been for DivAn...their acting prowess and their mutual chemistry make IshRa a whole lot relatable and an episode quite a watch.


*Note Changed the title as rightly indicated by folks that it was reflecting only Raman's POV...Sorry 😳




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Episode again was harsh, crude and passionate touching all the sensitive points. Any other day Puttar would have been clean bowled by his biwi in that dress but today all he could hear was Ashok's words. Biwi's bhudda Milgaya made it clear that she preferred adorning her sexy avatar for her husband privately in their room and seeing her drop dead gorgeous all of a sudden in a sexy dress at a party definitely miffed the already shattered Raman.

She on the other side dressed to get a romantic reaction from him after being pushed to the edge by Shagun who questioned her marital relationship calling her a bhaanj once again. Again hearing the words from her husband that none of this is suiting her broke her further and questioned her position in his life all over again. The first thing he heard when he entered in to the party was all men praising his wife including Ashok. Raman was angrily possessive of his wife and seeing Ashok complementing her personally did not really settle well with him. Any other day and place, Ashok would have been a dead meat. Not aware of what was playing in each others head both played the hurt game. End of it Biwi was terribly shattered. Puttar was insecure but those words in public surely is too much for anyone.

Then came the dance more like a formality sake but whatever they danced oozed passion and love along with their flawless chemistry which made me go for the dance again and again. Especially the pull and twirls, OMG OMG..!!! They were harsh but it showcased his crude love for Biwi. But in spite of all this he got lost in her eyes. True love cannot be hidden and these two are madly in love and that was shown in the eye lock. I could go for that again and again. Then Biwi confronted him and glad glad he shared whatever that was eating him up which only shattered her more. She was insecure thinking, she wasn't desired but it was doubting her character and comparing her with Shagun. Oh my the last push and turn were just ☺️ ☺️ ☺️. It wasn't with love but his love for her made me to blush.

Only thing that was off place in the episode, Puttar dancing with Mrs. Tandon. Though it was reluctant, I did not like the whole move. He had his eyes for her or rather it searched for hers but the sight shattered her and she found a corner to wilt. Liked the way Biwi walked away from Ashok and I wanted puttar to watch all of that. Hopefully all that comes in to light tomorrow but the C wait is killing me. It's not before Friday so yes 😭 wait begins. Their confrontation is going to be emotional and passionate. Plus the C is going to be for IshRa and not for baby or Ruhi. Cheers to that 👍🏼

G, your dance collage ❤️. Repeating it but I can stare at them endlessly.
Edited by Aru.Divan - 10 years ago
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THEIR DANCE ☺️❤️

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Beautiful ccollege Gan ... ishra ❤️

Passion and Possessiveness this two words of your post title which we saw in today's Epi you know what I and i think many ppl always enjoy to watch this two aspects in any love story.. and when this two aspects portrayed by brilliant actors like DT and KP then its always like we have short of words to praise that performance that brilliance of acting.. once again DT.. KP nailed each scen of today's Epi with there OUTSTANDING performance 👏

Coming to Epi my heart went out for both ishra.. they both were in pain.. both were fighting with there insecurities.. both were scared of looseing other.. yes they love each other way to much.. yes they know in there heart that other will never ever think of hurting him or herself but still past incidents and recent circumstances making them vulnerable.. loved the raw emotions of both ishra..

That dance was Beautiful.. yes Raman was rough with his ishita but then it was his love.. his possessiveness.. for her.. he loves her way to much that even a thought of looseing her make him mad.. make him restless.. its scares him if she also change and leave him ..i loved loved that Eyelock where he lost in her.. he was knowing he was hurting her without any fault of her. Her teary eyes effected him but then he immediately looked away.. that manipulation of Ashok was echoing in his mind.. though I didn't liked the way he behaved in this rude manner with his wife without any fault of her in the party but still can't totally blame him.. i felt very bad for ishu poor girl was heartbroken.. she was already emotionally vulnerable after shagun's words and then all this made her more sad.. Her tears.. Her hurt while she saw Raman dancing with other lady was very beautifully portrayed by DT.. i loved that dance scen most in the Epi..

Here is some lines of beautiful song on which ishra were dancing..

Aashiyana mera saath Tere hai na
Dhundhte teri gali mujhko ghar mila
Aabodaana mera haath tere hai na
Dhundhte tera khuda mujhko rab mila
Tu jho mila lo ho gaya main kabil
Tu jho mila ho gaya sab haasil

Muskil sahi Aasan hui manzil
Kyunki tu Dhadkan main Dil ❤️
Edited by s_kavya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Couldn't watch the epi yet, but on the whole the impression I get is that Raman was too rude so I'm waiting for ur posts collages & the discussions here to get a clear view.
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G...
Unressing today. Sorry for the inconsistent res and unres, I am kinda too distracted with C. Yesterday was hopeless me, I completely forgot that I had to Unres. I am just gonna rant..😆

Well coming to the past 3 episodes...

Brilliant they have been. Initially I was very mad about the episode when Shaggy madam is the new saint, all ready to unite IshRa. But I eventually got over, knowing she is the only one who can really give the jolt to Ishita. And she did. Shagun is the only woman who can do that,being the one to have shared a past with Raman. The fact that she has seen the passionate side of him surely hit ishita below the belt. She was hurt beyond imagination and doubted herself if she was not desirable as a woman to her husband. It was painful to watch the crude words shagun spewed but was needed. Yes though i deep down wished it wasn't her but I guess it had to be her. Out of the same insecurity or fear, w had Ishita shedding off her comfort zone and taking a step forward towards Raman. But it was shunned by Raman in the form of disappointment cz unfortunately Ashok had already played his trick.

Raman on the other hand was instigated by Assok's words. Deep down he knows she is not like other women, but he is definitely scared to loose her.. he wouldn't be this shaken up other wise. For the woman he claims to trust so much, his thoughts going otherwise is just his fear. In the past few days he has seen so much changing around him in the form of his siblings and his family that he is not able to accept the fact that Ishita, who has never changed is suddenly changing. Only thing he didnt know was, she had done it for him. To be appreciated by her husband. Be it him telling her " Tum Iss type ki nah ho " to badmouthing her dress. Its all out of fear. He doesn't want to believe what Ashok told him but at the same time he cannot deny what he is seeing. He saw her changed.

Today's episode, the dance was the highlight for me. It was RAW emotions. Completely Raw. He was constantly hearing his colleagues praising her adding to his all over the place thoughts with Ashok constantly making it worse with his crap. That just blew off the last state of sense. It just got him. His emotions were of passion, anger, hurt..and the the one that was RAW..His Possessiveness. He just cannot think of losing her. He is way too possessive of her to see her changing and the mere thought of her changing and going away from him is pushing him to limits he hardly knows.Even the words he spoke to her during the dance were of hurt and fear, to lose her. It was wrong, but he doesn't know what he is doing right now. He was fighting with his own dilemma to see the way he was hurting her.

She on the other hand, it was pure heart break. HIs ignorance, his refusal to even look at her after doing ti all for him was breaking her into pieces. The way she kept looking at him during the dance while he tired his best to avoid her, it was sheer hurt. His behavior was hurting her. When she asked, he lost his cool. Probably said words to her which would have shattered her so she just stood there stunned. My heart went out to her when she called Mihika asking her to take her away.. In a party of so many people, she was left all alone.

The dance was just beyond brilliance. Their raw emotions were just so evident that one just has to know, they are broken and scared to lose each other and how much they love each other. MAD LOVE. POSSESSIVE LOVE. But its LOVE! ☺️

Well, the one part which really irked me was the dance with Mrs Tandon. I just felt, if he could walk out on Ishita leaving her on the floor, I just wished he had pushed the other woman away. Being the short tempered man he is one who can shun anyone with his words, I would defo expect something of that sort from him.it was painful to see Ishita standing in the corner broken watching him with tearful eyes. Nonetheless, I would assume its just another way for CVS to get some intensity, which I am dying for. so lemme just ignore that.

And the yucky precap..Ashok back to his dirtiness. This man needs to be put in prison ASAP..Its creepy the way he eyed Ishita and the precap obviously.

DivAn were spot on today. Their brilliance makes it all the more alluring. They simply killed it. 😳

On the whole, cannot wait for tomorrow's episode to watch how he finds her and how they vent out their emotions leading to the C.!! ☺️ OMG..Its already driving me nuts..whatever will happen of me later when it happens.☺️
Lastly, Beautiful collage G! ❤️ It couldn't have been better. You chose all the perfect shots, raw emotions. It just makes it all the more hot and passionate! ☺️

Sorry for the long rant. This is 2 rants in one..🤣
Edited by Anu_IshraDivan - 10 years ago
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Gan!!!!!

I was dying for your post! Glad you opened one... I'll be waiting for your update & the takes on today's epi..!!
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I liked today's episode for some reasons...
She tried her best to walk in with him... Go let him speak up why is he being so treacherous or weird... She asked him the same n ge brushed away...

For the first time he wasn't happy introducing his wife... As his wife... And that itself put her off...

For raman... Today he was bit too harsh because he himself wasn't clear... He was fighting with himself... Because he felt history is going to repeat itself... But at the same time he couldn't believe his ishita would change... It kicked off that rudeness he venomed over her... Each time she tried to reach out to him...

He tried to protect himself... He tried to move away... Before he thought she would leave him... He tried to push her away... He tried to push her away... He went to the rkb we were introduced to... When yhm started...

Ishita... My heart wrenched for this lady... She would have to get rejected this way... She had to get herself to accept that she wasn't desirable for her own husband but the rest of the world praised her for her beauty... But her heart wanted appreciation from just two pair of eyes... She was all up to be a doormat any lady would be for her love...

Ishita got to know what was that, that bugged raman... And that she couldn't believe her raman would actually think or take her as shagun part 2... She got to know even after whatever happened between them... Still he couldn't trust her... Earlier the lady in her broke that she wasn't desirable for her husband and now the wife the lover the fragile heart that got broken...

P. S don't know if I'm making sense... To broken to see ishu... N raman like that... Both are broken... From their own prospective...
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Beautiful collages and write up Gan.

I was about to write a big essay on how Raman was totally being a big bad jerk. But I saw the C scenes so I'm dead!

Raman is humiliating his wife in front of people again and again. He has humiliated Ishita in almost every party. This has to stop. I get how raw his scars felt to him and how much pain he was in, but I don't care. Sometimes you've got to suck it in to stop the pain from creating a bigger disaster. He has to learn to deal with his pain without dumping it on anyone.
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Thanks for the collages Gan , but i thought there was no passion today...maybe possessive behavior from raman..but more than that its Raman's insecurity & his understanding of women..also his anger...

As far as Ishita was concern her expression were of Hurt, rejection & confusion about her husband behavior...

Also words said by Raman ..though out of anger & misunderstanding ..were very rude...how can he compare Ishita to Shagun & say..tum bhi uske tarah nikle..then he started dancing with Mrs. Tandon...here he thought Ishita wearing revealing dress & talking to other was wrong--what Raman did by dancing with Mrs. Tandon was absolutely right👏😡

Ishita was completely baffled & like a lost soul...its like her whole world collapsed in front of her..i don't blame here if a guy like Ashok trick's her..because this is the time any person can feel weakest & lost. Only a assuring presence from someone close like husband, sister, mother, father..can help a women..she was wanting raman..but Ravaan Kumar was in his false imagination...

Hope Raman has a decent talk with ishita & express his fears in front of ishita & says sorry to her before consummation..is time toh sorry banta hai boss

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