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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: FantasiaNarnia
G,waiting eagerly for your update.A big favour to ask of you as a bonus tongue-in-cheek collage..Something along the lines of pati,patni aur woh.Please go through the 2 minute ASHRA (Ashok-Raman)encounter in terms of sheer physicality,and then tell me if I'm delusional.

Itna passion to Raman ne Ishita aur Shagun ke liye shayad nahi dikhaya.
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@bold

I had felt in similar lines Jhakkad's feelings about Raman too 🤣 I made the collage already re...but not the kind you had in mind...I'll try maybe tonight as I have to capture keeping that in mind 😳

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut
Travelling scenes do something to me, two people silent yet moving at fast emotional speed. G loved the collages! Haven't watched YHM forever but this collage and your write up reminded me of a Gulzar saab nazm, be back with it in a minute. Don't know if it will fit the mood of the scene but just the pain in their eyes and the hurt in puttar's tender eyes made me log in. The vulnerability in Ishita's eyes is so depicting of her state...these two are the best. KP and DT are so good!!!
I wish I still had the connect with the show so i could enjoy their acting.

One of my favorite Gulzar saab's Nazm, like i said don't know if it fits the mood of the scene but your collage and write up reminded me of this brilliant Nazm.

Raat bhar sard hawa chalti rahi
Raat bhar hamne alaav taapa
Maine maazi se kai khushk see shaakhien kaati
Tum ne bhi guzre huway lamhon ke patte torre
Meine jaibon se nikali sabhi sukhi nazmain
Tum ne bhi haathon se murjhaaye hue khat khole
Apni in aankhon se meine kai manzer torre
Aur haathon se kai baasi lakeeren phenki
Tum ne, palkon pe nami sookh gayee thee, so gira di
Raat bhar jo bhi mila ugte badan par humko
Kaat ke daal diya jalte alaawon main use
Raat bhar phoonkon se har lau ko jagaye rakha
Aur do jismon ke eendhan ko jalaye rakha
Raat bhar bujhte hue rishte ko tapa humne

I am not going to attempt to translate this brilliance but in summary, this 'poem' talks about a man and woman with a troubled relationship who are still in love, the talk about this cold night and how they create this fire to keep their 'bodies' warm by keeping the fire burning and throwing their baggage, complains, shortcomings and tears in this fear and almost talking about a cathartic new beginning. I am so thankful Gulzar saab doesn't visit this site or he would be livid with this butchering of his work.

OMG anytime my collage inspires you to post and also include Gulzarjee's poems my day and week is made. Thank you so so much! i know you're not watching the show anymore ...infact you know where I'm too...but for you to be moved to post...just 🤗❤️( no beating one here 😆) ...and believe me Gulzar saab will be proud that an Indian American girl who has lived here most of her life could translate his nazm so well! So stop being so modest.

Love you!

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil_1
Before you update: After watching today's episode... I somehow come to believe that this is a new beginning for IshRa... they are now behaving merely as spouses' rather than parents to Ruhi or even Adi!

On the one hand, where Shagun has planted the seeds of doubt in Ishita's mind; (in an attempt for Ishita to realise that she needs to lure her man) Raman's possessiveness is also coming to the forefront! He wants Ishu for himself and him getting miffed is justifiable to me!

A lot of passion and desire is to follow I hope... with immense intensity!

Whatever, it is... I'm loving it... all due to ... DivAn ... 😳

@ bold yes I agree too ...and it's a refreshing change..I have seen them do stuff for their family and now it's time to pursue their own interest, their spouse !😛 So bring it on!

Yes DivAn makes Ishra special

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Aru.Divan

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

How much I missed your collages and so glad to have them today 😳. They are brilliant as always. Loved your post and nothing much to add but I will rant out of happiness 😆.

RELATIONSHIPS FAIL BECAUSE PEOPLE TAKE THEIR OWN INSECURITIES AND TRY AND TWIST THEM IN TO THEIR PARTNER'S FLAWS

Shagun's lecture pushed Ishitha and she was upset like no other day. Even when her nother in law cheered her up today, insecurities were floating in her face and was still not confiddence. But honestly I loved Toshi's advice to Ishitha. In a way she cheered her up in spite of all the problems that were running in their family. Actually a good scene and DT looked so cute being all upset 😛. My fangirling moment

Coming to the scene between Ashok and Raman. It was really good but I couldn't help but laugh. Thanks to Ashok's love for Raman. kitne pyaar se samjha raha tha 😆. One tapped the shoulders, other held the collar and again he grabbed his collar and made him sit. These two ..! Oh god... But in a way seeing Mrs. Tandon sparked a lot of emotions on Raman's face and he being the good friend of Mr. Tandon confronted Ashok. Ashok being the guy who would do anything to see Puttar broken. Talking about Puttar's bitter past and challenging the same which will happen with Ishitha broke him apart but apart from all this, there was something like this which was needed to kick Raman. Like I mentioned in Aani's thread, If Shagun was to Ishitha then it has to be Ashok for Puttar. Bala talking about all this is a big big failure. It's Ashok who can bring those insecure sparks which clearly did.

Loved puttar's confession..!! He loves Biwi madly and many including me questioned his behavior at the party just by seeing the segments. I was clearly wrong. This line stole it for me. You had to allure Shagun so that she could leave you and Ishitha had to come in to my life. She ain't like every other woman who would fall for your filth. Indeed puttar is a man who adores his family. They had a rift and he did fight for her eventually cos all were upset that she was made the power of attorney. Had it been Shagun in her place, I am too disgusted to even type. He would have never taken such a step. Such is their love and also you tend to behave like an idiot with the person whom you love madly. So puttar is the angry possessive insecure man who is behaving rudely with his biwi who is equally insecure.

Ishitha/ DT looked gorgeous in the dress. Any other day we would have had a gutter talk from puttar but today all he could play was Ashok's words and that made him behave rude. She never knew what really happened and rightly she could only think of Shagun's words. At the end of the day, they needed a jolt to take their relationship further which can only be given by Ashok and Shagun. Today's episode is going to fun again, I am really looking forward to it.

Some feel Ashok's character is converted in to a womenizer but I would always say he was one. He never really loved Shagun, it was her beauty that allured him and he was more close to her just for Puttar. As puttar and Biwi's relationship strengthened their fantasy dwindled down and his eyes fell on Mihika. Mihika was never that kind but she lost her screws in between and now she is back for good. Now it's Mrs. Tandon. So Ashok's character is not really butchered and so Ashok igniting such feelings in to puttar is not out of the blue. It's his character at the end of the day. He is different from param but somewhere they're similar. One acts cheap and the other acts luxuriously cheap This is entirely my POV.

I am not hoping but would be happy if they're given a chance to talk to each other before they actually do IT. So for that bring the high drama today.

Also not sure if I made sense but too excited to write coherently. Can't wait 😳

1 more to go 🥳

Edited by Aru.Divan - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: FantasiaNarnia
G,waiting eagerly for your update.A big favour to ask of you as a bonus tongue-in-cheek collage..Something along the lines of pati,patni aur woh.Please go through the 2 minute ASHRA (Ashok-Raman)encounter in terms of sheer physicality,and then tell me if I'm delusional.

Itna passion to Raman ne Ishita aur Shagun ke liye shayad nahi dikhaya.
😳

on light note ya d dostana scene in office cabin is looking scary 😆.by seeing tat push n pull bromance seems ashra share love-hate relationship it seems 😆 yhm of ashra 😆

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Pasoori

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: -Gan-

@ bold yes I agree too ...and it's a refreshing change..I have seen them do stuff for their family and now it's time to pursue their own interest, their spouse !😛 So bring it on!

Yes DivAn makes Ishra special

A honeymoon track is also coming up, hopefully! Hope that's minus all the haddis!

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Veeann

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

I can't wait to watch this weeks episodes - have to wait till Staurday cause I'm just so busy, but you are really whetting my appetite G.

Lovely lovely collages and quote - but that's as per usual.

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: nb.neha
Beautiful quote. It has such an indepth meaning.
Looking forward to ur take on the episode.
For me it was yet another realistic episode showing how at times our past, our inhibitions, our insecurities affect us as well as our loved ones.

Raman's memories of his painful past ignited by Ashok made him rebuke ishita n her dressing sense when he himself has so many times asked her to wear gowns n dresses.

Whereas ishita is hit by an iceberg named Shagun. Everything shagun said about raman not having any kind of interest in ishita was untrue yet it made her insecure. Why? Bcoz of her own low self esteem, insecurities, past.

What a realistic situation where one uttered non sense without meaning it n the other took it seriously without any need.

I liked the scene btwn ashok n raman. Both the actors were really good. Karan's expression were bang on. Sangram's portrayal of cheap Ashok was also done so well.

@bold wonderfully summarized Neha! Well somehow probably deep down she was affected by the comparison between Shagun and Raman's sexual activity and the lack of any in theirs...it's bound to shake anyone...and Ishita already feels kinda insecure in that aspect of her life.

@red Yes Sangram and Karan just nailed that scene!

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil_1

A honeymoon track is also coming up, hopefully! Hope that's minus all the haddis!

Any spoiler floating? 😳

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Savz_Startling

on light note ya d dostana scene in office cabin is looking scary 😆.by seeing tat push n pull bromance seems ashra share love-hate relationship it seems 😆 yhm of ashra 😆

Yep that chemistry was quite something 😆😆

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