18.6.15- Is Raman's leniency with Adi good for him in the long run? - Page 3

Originally posted by: mayasundar

Hi Akansha,

Nice review as usual.⭐️ Thanks Maya!

I liked the first conversation between IshRa but I was so hoping he would take Ishita face in his hands and tell her to calm down😆😆 but that is okay the scene was good. Yeah he differentiated that Ruhi and Adi are at different age group and needs to be treated differently. What he said is true if will fasten them tighter to us they will break out of her hands so they need to have a little bit cool attitude towards Adi but at the same time Ishita is also correct he needs to have strict rules because he was not given any rules for the past 12 years. Overall, I feel kids shud be given space...but not the way IshRa are going about it...Raman is too chilled out, Ishu is very conservative..both are not gonna work in Adi's case

Today highlight for me was Raman Adi conov. Adi realizing his mistake and told Raman that he was going to apologize but got scared. Raman comforting him saying that Ishima is overprotective but not only her but all mothers are like that which is true in real life too.👏 I loved it too! He understands Ishu is getting too worked up and yet, he sees the reason and good intention behind it...I hpe Adi understands the same...else he might take it as Ishita's extreme interference.

I did not mind Raman supporting Adi for Vinni to come to their house to do their project but he should have told Ishita and convinced her instead of hiding it which is going to cause again a big misunderstanding between them as well as IshDi(Ishita + Adi). He should have convinced it is for the project they can do their work in the living room and we can watch them over from different room that would have been good. See..had he DISCUSSED it with Iishita, it might have not looked so bad...now it seems Raman is okay with what Adi is doing and he secretly supports him, going against Ishita's POV...and it seems like Adi can easily divide and rule...parenting shudnt be done like tht...agar Ishu ne kaha hota ki koi baat nai, Vinni can come home, toh woh aur baat hoti...Ishu ka tensed hona jayaz hai coz this is an impressionable age...and I bet you...it wont be long before Adi's and Vinni's hormones kick in

If Raman does like this kids will easily pick out who they can manipulate to get what they want so Adi will go to Raman for everything and this will also cause a rift between IshDi as Adi is entering into a rebellious state and lot of changes physically as well as mentally to his appearances. Exactly. Like I said earlier...whatever be the decision...whatever be the approach...IshRa hav to be UNITED on that front. Nai toh Adi will get his way around by trying to appeal to Raman's better nature

Vinni character so far looks like typical teenage girl I still don't understand what Ishita has against her. See..she has not DIRECTLY done anything...but yeah, it seems she is a rebel too and will grow up to be a I-dont-care-a-damn kinda girl..she has tht streak...uske liye hi Adi ne jhooth bola...again now he is hiding stuff from his Ishima coz of Vinnii...

Vandu character brings a smile on my face she has cute expression even though Abhika glances were hot I had eyes only for Vandu expression they were good. Vandu is my ABS fav! Just LOVE her! She is so real, so relatable...so spunky! I wished CVs gave her more screen space..shez such a natural and so naughty too!😆

Abhika has sizzling chemistry but nothing can be compared to IshRa chemistry they are on their own league.😳 When it comes to chemistry, AbhiKa are good..but obvio they come second to IshRa in this dept.

Romi sudden fascination for Sarika I don't understand but think they want to close that chapter once for all so that is why they are bringing it I think let wait and watch as what is going to happen. Nai yaar...I want it to be done with. It looks so criminal on the part of Romi to have defrauded a girl and ruined her life. So I want closure in that regard

The one thing I found odd in the precap was Ishita was angry when coming inside the house even before she meet vinni so I am wondering why that is I noticed that too...maybe she got a whiff of Raman's plan or something...dunno...kal hi pata chalega

Originally posted by: DipaRB6

🤣🤣🤣 at your descriptions of Vandu man. Hilarious. Loving the whole Abhika nonsense with Vandu as the scene stealer. LOL...Yea man! She looked like the doc just told her, "Baccha nikal gaya" hahaha...Loved Shruti's expressions...suchA FAB find...and one of the reasons why I feel I can never feel this way about any other show on Indian telly..partly coz the CAST is so so fabulous. Spot-on. Except for Subbu...

Almost like IshRa round two. Almost but not really. In fact I was thinking what if any other actors than KP/DT played these characters. Even in the early days of the show when their scenes were perfection, I don't think it would have been the same. They make every silly, unimportant glance and gesture totally sizzle. Abhika have proved that out to me. They're scenes are fun but certainly not dhak dhak types like with IshRa. Nai yaar!! HAD ANYBODY played Isha's characters, they would not have BEEN our IshRa...the ones we feel such a zingy connect to...and Abhika are OBVIO nice..andI like their pairing better than MiMis...but of course, IshRa take the cake in romance..sizzling effortless chemistry..tadka😆

On the Adi parenting topic, I'm totally loving this and find Raman and Ishita dealing with him so differently very entertaining. But if we are speaking of real life, I think its always best to have the parents united on this front in how they deal with misbehavior and rule setting. You don't want the kids to start manipulating and running their parents. Divided we fall and all... See...it would have been entertaining in a diff context...but given the fact tht its Adi, who had previously flouted SO many rules and is so impressionable, Raman shud be a tad bit cautious and keep Ishu in the loop...even if its the fact tht Adi has a crushon Vinni...Ishita SHUD know...haan, father-son confidentiality is for keeps when the son is an adult, is mature and knows what he's doing in life...tab romance mein help karna banta hai..not right now

Ruhi is still at camp I guess. I miss that baccha. I hope we get tons more scenes with her and her Ishima before (if) leap happens and she's gone forever 😭 I MISS HER. Period.😭

Originally posted by: -Atii-

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I agree with everything Raman did today except the part about hiding the thing about ViDi project planning shanning...he shouldn't have done that. Idk..I mean, I feel like if Ishu finds out..she'll feel bad. Already she has missed so many years with Adi... he has done so much to her in the past..accused her of burning him, sent her to jail..almost got her abused by drunk men..so much. Adi's and Ishita's relationship is vulnerable..it's not like Ishru's...Ishita should know stuff..Raman shouldn't hide things and plan behind her back with Adi..that's not how parenting works. I would be pissed. Ishita might feel like Raman is not letting her do her job as a mother and she might actually feel like she is not really his mother if she isn't informed of things..I hope you get what I mean 😆 Yep...she might feel Adi/Raman dont really consider her as Adi's mother...this is a possibility..and let's say Ishita is not Adi's step-Mom...EVEN THEN Raman shudnt be hiding stuff from Ishita...parenting need to take a unified approach...all this planning and all looks cool and funny on the outside, but we have to rem, that aise hi mastimasti mein Romi ne Sarika ki life kharab kar di

I'm not saying Ishita is entirely right either but as a parent..she has the right to know such things.. ABSOLUTELY!

Excited to see Ishita band bajaoing of Raman tomorrow Im not...I feel it could be something ugly/despondent..exciting toh tab hota hai jab we get some laughs out of it..I doubt we will get any tomorrow coz Ishu is damn serious when it comes to kids

Episode was good..missed Ishra but I guess that's understandable since they were at Nach..so chalega.. I heard they're dancing for NB 7 finale...is tht true??

Liking Abhika so far..hadn't realised just how cute ACP is Hehehe...I know...it feels good to tadofy ANOTHER male in the show naeen😆

Vandu was amazing..I don't get why she isn't given much screen space? She shud have a whole track dedicated to her you know...or a track where she drives the story ahead...linked somehw...Shruti Bapna is amazing!

Fianlly Romi-Sarika track is happening..about damn time!

Like I said...faltu mein showed stupid Subbu track when they could've shown the other characters.. Think of it this way..that moronic track being over, we can aaram se, enjoy other tracks now...😊

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Lovely review! I agree with your PS - I want to see Ishita the working woman. Now we rarely even get references to her clinic. I MISS seeing the Ishita who used to juggle domestic chores, kids, husband and a profession...Im not saying stay-at-home Moms are useless..no, they're not...but these mostly women take days off when they're caring for a child...Adi and Roo are still old enuff to take care of their basic necessities...so what's the deal with Ishita NOT GOING to the clinic?

As for the question you posed as the title...

Raman is being too lenient, but on the same hand Ishita is being too overprotective. You can't fault either, but both of their actions will push Adi instead of reeling him in. Hehehe..Yyes...I feel that too, just tht it wont have fit in the space...IshRa need to TEMPER their reactions...na zyada na kam...just lukewarm...just right..that wud work

Thanks to Raman's approach - Adi may start to believe his dad is ok with things, so no need to ask for permission. Kids generally end up manipulating one parent to get things done...something they wudnt have been able to d with the other parent...Till date, my sis runs to my dad for favours/concessions/privileges coz she knows Mom would not allow certain things...I try to not take advantage, but woh automatically ho jata hai (not for things Adi wants though😆)

Thanks to Ishita's approach - Adi mah hesitate to tell her anything, thus leading to secrets that could have negative outcomes on his life. Absolutely. She shud stop freaking out so much and first try and be a good friend to Adi. Teens need that. You cannot be a PARENT to your teen child to guide them...u hav to be their friend and confidante first

I have seen both of these approaches first hand to know it doesn't work with these extreme approaches.

Raman needs to encourage open communication but set clear boundaries & expectations. On the other hand, Ishita needs to respect Adi's space and approach him as an young adult & not the 11/12 year old she met during Holi.

They are still lucky because Adi clearly understands right & wrong and is concerned about causing stress to his parents. However his need for acceptance for Vinnie & his friends is overpowering his good judgement. He is an adolescent...and at this age, kids are eager to win over a peer group, impress someone from the opp sex, find acceptance...that's what's Adi is trying to do as well...IshRa need to be careful ...also, I feel, if the leap happens, Vinni will hav a role to play in how Adi shapes up as a young boy

Overall lots of great dimensions to this track!