Originally posted by: DesiUs_fan
Breaking up the marriage or cheating, pain is the same. In both scenarios you are rejecting the other person. If he cheats then II will break the marriage, if he gets bored he will break the marriage. II entered this marriage making sure that he would not cheat. Remember she told him she is not into open marriage. At that point she did not know if Raman was in an open relationship with M. She just assumed he is capable of open marriage and made it clear that she will not tolerate it. But she still fears the other possibility, that Raman might get bored and breakup with her. Sadly she is now constanly living with that fear and that is Appa's fear too.
I dont think it is the same re...In one case, you are deceiving the person, in other case u r rejecting the person...U can handle rejections...But deceiving is a totally different ball game...
Sure it hurts when u r rejected but it is much more insulting when u r cheated...In that case, it means that the spouse doesn't respect u...and the person cheating becomes characterless...
Sure II is living in that fear and R&B has his own fears that II would someday leave him after knowing the reality of being a Bhalla...like these bihar situations...Both are in the same position here...and its going to take years to understand that neither of them is going to leave the other whatsoever happens...only time can convince them...
[Bold] My reply was only for that comment...R&B wont cheat and II knows that...