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Posted: 10 years ago
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There is lots of difference in two scenarios that r being compared here. Weather anyone believe it ir not they loose ruhi becsuse of ramans stupidity and his irritating nature of hiding things from his wife. So afterall that happened which wife will go n shower hugs n kisses on her husband. Did ishita break her relationship with raman like subbu did, went to her mayka or any that sort of thing. She eloped with ruhi when she saw that thier every attempt to put stay order on ruhis custody is being failed. Weather she was wrong in taking ruhi without informing anyone not even raman is altogether a different thing and everyone can have different opinions abt it. But comparing her love for ruhi with subbus thought process is totally wrong. Today she was happy that ruhi us coming n she expressed it by kissing raman n that itself shows that she loves him. Whenever we r happy we share it with the ones we loved with our heart. You r saying as if idhita has no rights of being sad if her daughter is taken away n shud not be angry on ramsn for playing a part in it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: RaimaV


Well, your point is hypothetical where Ishita is proving her point. Adi was not needed for Raman to love Ishita, in fact Adi hated Ishita yet Raman fell in love with her. And, he never said or did any act that suggests he will not love Ishita if Adi wasn't there.

And, if we assume your hypothetical point to be true that doesn't negate Ishita's double standard.

Priority is not an issue here. Rather the "only priority" is the issue.


Well said. People here like to make it Raman vs Ishita, always.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaya321


Well said. People here like to make it Raman vs Ishita, always.


I think u r forgetting hiw he behaved with ishita when he was hlodaying with his family (shagun n kids) n ishita came there with ashok. That was surely not love n he was also hiding things from ishita for Adi. The way he behaved when mihir took shagun and adi with him from bhalla house. Fir raman also adi is only priority. If adi is there he is happy else he barks like a mad dog. He jimself said he was waiting for adis custody to take thier relationship to next level. What he is doing to bring back ruhi??? He wanted adi at any cost, when he was gone he was all screaming n shouting n when adi was der n ruhi is with shagun he was playing video games with adi.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think you are getting it all wrong...

Ishra can and will be happy without ruhi provided ruhi is happy staying away from them ishita will feel the same as Raman was with adi6

If ruhi wants to go to a boarding school and study will ishra relationship collapse?
Or if shaggy is a loving . parent ishita will miss her but she won't be sad with Raman. It will pass and she will get used to it
They can always adopt too if a child is important to them.

However in the current track u r a parent whose child has been removed forcefully from a familiar secure environment and put with a person who is a very poor parent. . So the child is extremely unhappy and feels abandoned. . No child will be willing to go through this even if u tell the kid the facts.

The parent is always sensitive to the kids emotions. . Now it's more so with the fact that one of the parent caused this reaction through a careless blunder. In such scenario couple react as a parent first and as man and women later.

Sadly in yhm fir dramatic effects Raman is shown as uncaring. . But actually he should be as worried and unhappy as ishita is, given that he is a loving father. . How guilt should also overwhelm him for even if this is not intended he has caused this due to hi. carelessness. . For Raman too Ishu will not be as important as ruhi at this moment. That's how a loving caring normal parent wl react.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SheetalAnshul


I think u r forgetting hiw he behaved with ishita when he was hlodaying with his family (shagun n kids) n ishita came there with ashok. That was surely not love n he was also hiding things from ishita for Adi. The way he behaved when mihir took shagun and adi with him from bhalla house. Fir raman also adi is only priority. If adi is there he is happy else he barks like a mad dog. He jimself said he was waiting for adis custody to take thier relationship to next level. What he is doing to bring back ruhi??? He wanted adi at any cost, when he was gone he was all screaming n shouting n when adi was der n ruhi is with shagun he was playing video games with adi.


Arre yaar why are you making it Ishita vs Raman actions or rather should I say misdeeds. Don't give "Raman barks like mad dog " theory coz Ishita does the same when it comes to Ruhi. If I start describing Ishita's misdeeds, it will start a third wold war here. TM here equated a simple thing-- Ishita and Subbu believe that a marriage can't continue without child. And, honestly Ishita had said and done so many things that proves TM's point.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think you are getting it all wrong...

Ishra can and will be happy without ruhi provided ruhi is happy staying away from them ishita will feel the same as Raman was with adi6

If ruhi wants to go to a boarding school and study will ishra relationship collapse?
Or if shaggy is a loving . parent ishita will miss her but she won't be sad with Raman. It will pass and she will get used to it
They can always adopt too if a child is important to them.

However in the current track u r a parent whose child has been removed forcefully from a familiar secure environment and put with a person who is a very poor parent. . So the child is extremely unhappy and feels abandoned. . No child will be willing to go through this even if u tell the kid the facts.

The parent is always sensitive to the kids emotions. . Now it's more so with the fact that one of the parent caused this reaction through a careless blunder. In such scenario couple react as a parent first and as man and women later.

Sadly in yhm fir dramatic effects Raman is shown as uncaring. . But actually he should be as worried and unhappy as ishita is, given that he is a loving father. . How guilt should also overwhelm him for even if this is not intended he has caused this due to hi. carelessness. . For Raman too Ishu will not be as important as ruhi at this moment. That's how a loving caring normal parent wl react.

Subbu could have decided to adopt discuss surrogacy any number of things. . He never bothered to even talk to Ishu about it that's callousness.

Also Ishu says. Hum hum nahi hai 2hums the meaning changes.

I guess most of us would be able to appreciate and understand this only after we are a parent. . Else no amount of discussion can make us feel how a mother or father feels.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaya321


Well said. People here like to make it Raman vs Ishita, always.

Ya, if only people with different opinion had a separate forum... becoz difference of opinion cannot be digested here.😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The fav pastime of yhm fans is to always blame.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The forum owners should make strict rules regarding blaming game...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: appuss

Ya, if only people with different opinion had a separate forum... becoz difference of opinion cannot be digested here.😕


This has got nothing to do with difference of opinion. TM mentioned about Subbu and Ishita, while some are deliberately bringing Raman to outdo the point. Like if Raman is wrong, Ishita's wrong will be justified too. One wrong simply doesn't make another one right.

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