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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaya321


This has got nothing to do with difference of opinion. TM mentioned about Subbu and Ishita, while some are deliberately bringing Raman to outdo the point. Like if Raman is wrong, Ishita's wrong will be justified too. One wrong simply doesn't make another one right.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjali_ss_20000

The fav pastime of yhm fans is to always blame.



Originally posted by: anjali_ss_20000

The forum owners should make strict rules regarding blaming game...



Excuse me! I have posted my view with detailed explanations and materials, I didn't jump into conclusions.

I have read your post though, most of them are just full on blaming others. I guess you've heard the proverb dear, "Jo sheeshe ke gharon mein rehte hein woh doosron pe pathar nahin phenkte".
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I respect ur difference of opinion. And, ur emoticon does prove my previous point. 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RaimaV





Excuse me! I have posted my view with detailed explanations and materials, I didn't jump into conclusions.

I have read your post though, most of them are just full on blaming others. I guess you've heard the proverb dear, "Jo sheeshe ke gharon mein rehte hein woh doosron pe pathar nahin phenkte".


The post was not meant for u...stop being offended without any reason...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjali_ss_20000


The post was not meant for u...stop being offended without any reason...


You said that without mentioning anyone on MY thread...what am I supposed to comprehend out of it?!! 🤔
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chessy


Is it not surprising that given the huge number of blunders and callous attitude that Raman has shown, most ppl would expect Ishita to be damn angry, but it is surprising that people expect her to romance him? And it is so strange that every single day no matter who does what, in some strange way Ishita is always wrong. May be the show should be called Ishita ki galtiyan intead of Raman ki majbooriyan😆


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chessy



I think you are getting it all wrong...

Ishra can and will be happy without ruhi provided ruhi is happy staying away from them ishita will feel the same as Raman was with adi6

If ruhi wants to go to a boarding school and study will ishra relationship collapse?
Or if shaggy is a loving . parent ishita will miss her but she won't be sad with Raman. It will pass and she will get used to it
They can always adopt too if a child is important to them.

However in the current track u r a parent whose child has been removed forcefully from a familiar secure environment and put with a person who is a very poor parent. . So the child is extremely unhappy and feels abandoned. . No child will be willing to go through this even if u tell the kid the facts.

The parent is always sensitive to the kids emotions. . Now it's more so with the fact that one of the parent caused this reaction through a careless blunder. In such scenario couple react as a parent first and as man and women later.

Sadly in yhm fir dramatic effects Raman is shown as uncaring. . But actually he should be as worried and unhappy as ishita is, given that he is a loving father. . How guilt should also overwhelm him for even if this is not intended he has caused this due to hi. carelessness. . For Raman too Ishu will not be as important as ruhi at this moment. That's how a loving caring normal parent wl react.


@bold : i dont think Ishita will ever allow her to go to boarding school...

@ blue : her concern after ruhi going with shagun, was that Ruhi is happy without her...so i dont think she wud accept ruhi with shaggy, if shaggy was loving...she wud keep crying n whining to Raman that Ruhi is away n happy with Shaggy, in short even if she is staying with Raman, she will stop living..

i think the whole scenario, where she eloped with Ruhi, was cause she doesnt want to let Ruhi go away from her, for her own insecurity...otherwise, nowhere Shaggy indicated that she will harm Ruhi...

during the fight, has she told Raman, that she won't survive without Ruhi, than i would accepted that yes, she will stay with Raman, but won't have a happy life, as Ruhi isnt there...but her words were, that without Ruhi, their marriage doesnt stand...that means Ruhi is the only foundation, without whom the marriage would collapse...which equates to what Subbu said, that kids are important after a couple of years of marriage...

infact she gave the same advice to Romi, during his infertility track, when he casually asked this question during breakfast...that time i accepted Raman;s explanation as he has kids...but even Ishita said that kids are important, they are your future...etc etc...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Point to be noted my lord I agree with you they are contradicting there statements there basic thoughts
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Posted: 10 years ago
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All I can say a track that had so much potential to balance out relationships is ruined because the cvs have lost trust in their own writing. This track had the most unnecessary twists and turns and so many blunders in the writing that the whole scenario and characters have been badly executed. The track that had potential because of the raw emotions, just turned into an unnecessary borderline child abuse track and parents just crying over their child.

I understand what your trying to say but I disagree with you. What I see if the cvs probably executed this track, they could have explored Ishra's relationship without the sirf ruhi ki liye clause without making them look like horrible parents. But that was not the case.

If they choice to show romance while Ruhi was being abused by Shagun, it would have left the bad taste in the viewers mouth. I also understand the viewers want to see Ishra explore their relationship with out Ruhi but the viewers need to realize these two cant stop being parents either. What the cvs have failed to do miserably is shown the balance between being parents and balance between husband-wife. It would have been more realistic and logic if they had shown the balance.

What we can never deny is Ruhi is the main catalyst for Ishra coming together and that will never change. What Subbu did was wrong to Ishita but Ishita didn't leave Raman when Ruhi was taken away from them due to Raman's fault. She has forgiven him and he has forgiven her time after time for each other's mistake. Thats how relationships work. Ruhi or no Ruhi, Ishra are still together and have shown to have decent moments between them in this track.

What I would like to see now is the cvs balancing out the being a parent and being a spouse in the show.
Edited by cocololo123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaya321


Arre yaar why are you making it Ishita vs Raman actions or rather should I say misdeeds. Don't give "Raman barks like mad dog " theory coz Ishita does the same when it comes to Ruhi. If I start describing Ishita's misdeeds, it will start a third wold war here. TM here equated a simple thing-- Ishita and Subbu believe that a marriage can't continue without child. And, honestly Ishita had said and done so many things that proves TM's point.


Yaar i m not making it ishita vs raman and believe me i m not ishita fan and not a raman hater either. They both r normal human beings n are wrong at many ocassions. I hate it when ishita took steps without consulting anyone and i hate it when raman hide things from ishita or he screams at ishita (in real life no one will like a person who gets irritated st miniscule things, talk rudely, screams at his wife in front of others). But again ishita vs raman is not the point of discussion here.
Here ishitas thought process is being considered same as that of subbu. Subbu broke 12 yrs relationship because ishita cant concieve but here ishita didnot break her relationship with raman. She is just angry with raman which anyone wud be if due to the husband's stupidity one has to be away from thier child. she even gave ruhis custody to shagun for adi's sake so that raman will be happy. Isn't this s love???? I dont think love is just saying i love u all the time. Ishita has many flaws but she is not like subbu. She knows how to take care of relationships.

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