Originally posted by: Chessy
I think you are getting it all wrong...
Ishra can and will be happy without ruhi provided ruhi is happy staying away from them ishita will feel the same as Raman was with adi6
If ruhi wants to go to a boarding school and study will ishra relationship collapse?
Or if shaggy is a loving . parent ishita will miss her but she won't be sad with Raman. It will pass and she will get used to it
They can always adopt too if a child is important to them.
However in the current track u r a parent whose child has been removed forcefully from a familiar secure environment and put with a person who is a very poor parent. . So the child is extremely unhappy and feels abandoned. . No child will be willing to go through this even if u tell the kid the facts.
The parent is always sensitive to the kids emotions. . Now it's more so with the fact that one of the parent caused this reaction through a careless blunder. In such scenario couple react as a parent first and as man and women later.
Sadly in yhm fir dramatic effects Raman is shown as uncaring. . But actually he should be as worried and unhappy as ishita is, given that he is a loving father. . How guilt should also overwhelm him for even if this is not intended he has caused this due to hi. carelessness. . For Raman too Ishu will not be as important as ruhi at this moment. That's how a loving caring normal parent wl react.
@bold : i dont think Ishita will ever allow her to go to boarding school...
@ blue : her concern after ruhi going with shagun, was that Ruhi is happy without her...so i dont think she wud accept ruhi with shaggy, if shaggy was loving...she wud keep crying n whining to Raman that Ruhi is away n happy with Shaggy, in short even if she is staying with Raman, she will stop living..
i think the whole scenario, where she eloped with Ruhi, was cause she doesnt want to let Ruhi go away from her, for her own insecurity...otherwise, nowhere Shaggy indicated that she will harm Ruhi...
during the fight, has she told Raman, that she won't survive without Ruhi, than i would accepted that yes, she will stay with Raman, but won't have a happy life, as Ruhi isnt there...but her words were, that without Ruhi, their marriage doesnt stand...that means Ruhi is the only foundation, without whom the marriage would collapse...which equates to what Subbu said, that kids are important after a couple of years of marriage...
infact she gave the same advice to Romi, during his infertility track, when he casually asked this question during breakfast...that time i accepted Raman;s explanation as he has kids...but even Ishita said that kids are important, they are your future...etc etc...