Ishita cant live without Ruhi, but does Raman REALLY love Ruhi? - Page 8

Originally posted by: DipaRB6

A- I was afraid for a second this would devolve into another mahabharat when I saw that post about your partiality. I don't think you are ever. Right now most of the board is unhappy with Raman because of the way he is being written. As Sunita said, we can only react to what's being shown. And I've concluded that the writers don't care about the integrity of the characters anymore. Even their leads are just plot drivers at this point. They react in a way that is convenient to generate more drama. Otherwise would the Ishita we know who understands kids hearts so well say those things in court while Ruhi was there? And then wonder why her child won't speak to her? Would the Raman we loved be sitting around like this while his daughter was with Shagun. These are alterna versions of these characters that I don't recognize. Sunita was correct when she hinted we are a REACTIVE audience..not a provoked one, looking for an outlet to vent our frustration...I ABS ADORE and LOVE Raman...usko aise ajeeb sa portray karenge toh bura toh lagega hi naa!! But just coz he's my fav doesnt mean I can or will blindly endorse and accept all he does... I am most pained about Raman...its like, they carelessly write his lines and then after backlash from the audience, change the script at the last minute...that makes Raman look vry flippant and insincere...and that truly disappoints me😭 As long as there is healthy discussion, there'll be no Mahabharat😛 but if someone starts, I wudnt back down😆

On the point of Ruhi seemingly not being angry at Raman...here's what I don't get. Okay Ruhi is most angry with Ishita because she was the one who said those words in court. She was the one who promised to get Ruhi back in 2 days and to be frank Ishita is the one she loves the most and trusts the most. We have to remember that Ruhi has already experienced her father abandoning her before. But her Ishima never did. But at the same time, Ruhi was angry with all the Bhallas as well right? Shouldn't she be at least as angry as that with her father. This just doesn't make sense either. And you're right A, Raman should be using the opportunity to mend the IshRu relationship like Ishita always does for the RuMan relationship. I hope they show that in the future. Even I thought so, since Ruhi looked Raman IN THE EYE and pleaded with him, "Aap mere bina nai reh sakte naa Papa?" and Raman just turned his face away...so when I saw the epi today I realised she's MORE THAN NORMAL with Raman...hugging him, having ice-creams with him, but she's very pissed with Ishita...now what I am guessing is, Ishita is the one who made those promises and Ishu is the one she EXPECTS things from...noT Raman...its like, in life there are some people we know who'll take us for granted, but we'll rile against someone else we dont expect that kinda treatment from...wat do YOU think??