Ishraholics Anonymous ~March 24th. 2015. Gan's collages on Page 4. - Page 6

Originally posted by: cocololo123

Hey please tell me your name because we interact and I dont even know your name :( Sorry about that. @bold I couldnt agree with you more about that. I mention in a previous thread of Gan that why are the cvs showing illiogical stuff when there is enough evdience to prove to the courts that Shagun is a incompetent mother. Well for drama they show anything. Better late then never for showing logic.

Thank You Coco..for starting the thread and it was wonderful to see Gan's collages. I was feeling disappointed, as was logging in, knowing that Gan is not gonna post for a bit- till the track gets better. And was wondering where to go. And here U r, with ur lovely quote anddd... Gan's collages!!

Originally posted by: -Gan-

@bold yep...IPK..ask any ipkian😉

Hey Coco ... Glad you got this started 😳.. Thanks a lot 👍🏼

The episode was pretty much balanced. I really do not know why did they have to show the court scene again when Ishu leaves the court room without looking at Ru. Broke my heart again 😭. CVs thanks for ruining an innocent and a pure relation in a week's time. Glad you did one good by not bringing the Iyers. I really do not have it in me to hear Mrs. Iyer crying and she gets OTT 😳😳. One in the form of Mrs. Bhalla is good enough.

The couple have decided to work it together or rather Ishitha feels they should work on Ru's custody together. I have no clue where is this going cos they break promises every time 😭😭. But glad they spoke something together which hardly happens.

I still fee they did try helping Adi and have to agree with Gan here. The mention about Ru was not for Adi but Ishu. The boy feels another way and Ishu the other way. In fact all looked at ishu more than at Adi when Simmi mentioned Ru. I may be wrong but that's my thought.

I am not going to talk about leads begging. I personally feel its their new hobby 🤔. Useless CVs. Ru came and first of all over riding her that she is mature, she knows the reason behind all this is pure lame. She is a 7 year old kid , when we people who are in our 20s and 30s are not able to understand CVs brains, how is the kid supposed to understand her parents who have said no to her custody ?? What she said was right .. she did not have anyone who fought for her 😭 and now I would have preferred Adi watching her whole outburst 😈. He would have understand what exactly is going around and not think of suicide cos he is the reason behind all of this. As parents they could have fought for Ru without a stupid time frame 😵😵

Well, I am not going to jump after getting a glimpse of the RKB whom we love the most. Yes he challenged her and made Bimbo face reality. But will wait for RKB to play his challenged game and then party. I did a big mistake of partying when Bimbo was kicked out of the Bhallas and I got this in return. Not anymore. I am waiting. Whatever it is please CVs get to the end of the track already 🤔. Its's ishRaRu 🥺 and not your fav Vamp 😡.

Biwi Puttar scene 😳😳😳. Glad to see them smiling and his tiny one liner there. Really made my day. Well there are people out who feel Ishu should not talk with Puttar but at the end of the day they are husband and wife. yeh sab chaltha rehtha hai. Plus in IshRa's relation this is too common. So move on. According to me the scene was very apna apna. You people might shoo me out if I say I loved it but sorry guys I did love it and here you all go ❤️

Thanks for the thread. I always look forward to reading the posts in Gan's thread, even if I don't reply regularly and so am happy to see this one today.

Today's episode was definitely one of the best we've seen in recent times. Ruhanika was absolutely brilliant! I really find it hard to believe such a young child can understand situations like this and emote so beautifully.

Ishita's Decision: I wouldn't really call it Ishita's decision alone because Raman had already made that decision (he didn't share it with her ahead of time) and she went along with it. Right or Wrong? I guess it depends on how you look at it.. For me, nothing is right, if it made a little girl's heart break or if it makes her feel abandoned yet again. IshRa's reason for their choice was that Adi wouldn't feel like he was wanted by Shagun even if he was sent back.. but they've forgotten that they were sending a little Ruhi back to Shagun, who didn't even want her in the first place and who didn't think twice before leaving her at 6months of age and Ruhi is well aware of this.. For me, nothing can make that right.

One thing I don't get is how does Ishita expect Ruhi to understand her situation? Did anyone tell Ruhi why they were making the decision or did anyone assure her that they would get her soon? Did anyone atleast tell her that they love them but had to make this decision because of situations? No, then how does Ishita expect Ruhi to understand?

The Bhallas (including Ishita and Raman) deserved Ruhi's words and behavior. No, I don't doubt the love they have for Ruhi (definitely not and Toshiji loves Ruhi a lot too). But time and again, they have disappointed the little girl or let her down. Whether it be Raman, in the initial days, when he made Ishita apologize to Adi or whether it be Ishita planning the whole Shagun Raman anniversary (I know Ruhi wasn't present but if she was/she heard about it, how would that go with her) or the Bhallas and their nonstop GKC.. In all of these situations, no one took Ruhi's feelings into account.. It was always Adi first and then Ruhi. I understand Adi was away from them, so they tried to make him feel wanted/at home/loved.. But is it right to take advantage of one child for the other one? Nope.. especially if that child, herself has underwent

It was really good to see the real RKB today (though I would've been more happier if he had acted first and talked after - look on Shagun's face would've been a treat for us) but I really hope he sticks to his words and promise. Also it's time, we see Shagun losing.. She has had the upper hand for the last 4 months or so..at first through Adi and now through Ruhi.

On a lighter note, why is it that in every show, there is a couch in the lead couple's room but not in any other? (Even in YHM, Minky's Room didn't have a couch)..

Originally posted by: IFollower

(Ladies/ Guys (if any here)... Please do not read if you do not like Ishita or IshRa being commented).

Thank You Coco..for starting the thread and it was wonderful to see Gan's collages. I was feeling disappointed, as was logging in, knowing that Gan is not gonna post for a bit- till the track gets better. And was wondering where to go. And here U r, with ur lovely quote anddd... Gan's collages!!

I did not watch the episode from 23rd, Monday but watched the Tuesday, 24th March episode, after reading a few posts here. The first few minutes of the court scene was so heart-breaking. Did they have to show that? 😭😭!! Ruhanika is a fab actress. Bless her!!

Coming to the current episode, it was certainly a GOOD episode. Almost close to reality, the consequences of such decisions- on both parties. Though DT, KP and the rest of the ensemble cast did complete justice to their roles, I am sorry to say- I haven't felt an ounce of pity for them. Not even seeing their tears. Even Ishita's falling ill and calling out for Ruhi did not move me.

I am not stone-hearted, in fact quite the opposite. I cry buckets 😳 watching sad scenes and hence try and avoid. But no, they could not move me. What moved me, was Ruhi baby. My question since y'day was how dare they do that to a 7yr little girl? And I was disgusted with Ishita's dialogue ki Ruhi would understand. Really? Ishita surely is delusional. She truly believes that she is a "Mahaan" and hence everyone, including a 7yr little girl would understand her 'so-called' good intentions. I am not judging or questioning Ruhi's love for her Ishima or that of Ishita's for Ruhi, neither Bhallas love for Ruhi. I am only questioning and criticising her/ their actions and the decision that she has taken. Its time for the Bhallas to face reality.

I was so happy for Ruhi's dialogues. I did not think for a sec, she was OTT. She was bang on! That little girl had seen a lot in her few years of life. Yes, agreed- she is more perceptive and mature for her age, and in fact more than her 12yr brother. But, she is still a child- especially a child, who saw neglect from her dad, who sought out love and found love in her Ishima, who started building a secure home in her heart, who started rejoicing in her new found HOME (the true sense of home). And what did she receive?? Public humiliation of not being wanted, and that too coming out of her Ishima's mouth.

What Ruhi is going through is EMOTIONAL ABUSE!! She has already been through NEGLECT by her father in the past. These are quite serious, when we talk about Child Abuse cases.

Though it is not about Adi Vs Ruhi, Adi was at least fortunate enough not to go thro' them. He felt wanted and loved, albeit for the wrong reasons, but he doesnt know that.

The only other scene I liked was Raman threatening Shagun and thankfully wiping off that ugly smirk of her face. God... can someone just slap that smirk of her face forever??!!! What kind of a human is she? Such Narcissistic personality. She truly doesn't care for anyone, including her own kids. She already started her slow-poisoning of Ruhi. And boy, I was so glad that Ruhi just walked away from there. Smart little princess!!

As many of you have already pointed, I did not understand the logic behind the Bhallas shushing off Ruhi's topic. Why????? Some of U, very clever people, rightly pointed out that by dusting it under the carpet is not gonna solve the problem. Adi needs to be talked to. I haven't watched the previous episodes, hence cannot comment if Raman talked to Adi or not, regarding the suicide ?attempt. He is a 12yr old, old enough and smart enough (even to scheme and plot) to understand things. He should be explained things, be shown right from wrong and also to directly address the ?suicide attempt. But having said this, who in Bhalla's family is smart enough to do that in the 1st place? Its high time for them to buckle up and do the right, sensible, mature things for once.

Well, anyway, YHM started to fail logic long time back.

IshRa's scene did nothing to me . Surprised by myself. I am a romantic but unfortunately didnt work today.

I am sorry to have offended anyone. Not my intention. These are purely my PoV, my opinions. I do not like negative criticism, it drains me. But, I have not been able to stop myself since y'day. From being a quiet spectator that I was, in the last day, I have made so many posts on this topic. NOT me!! But this heart-breaking of a child broke my patience.

Again, please do not misunderstand me. I'm not bashing any real people here, just the characters.

I am all for IshRu, then anyone and anything else. And if it comes to Ishita or Ruhi- RUHI all the way. I know what children go through when they feel unwanted. And I've seen so many cases of Neglect/ Abuse in children that, there are no words to describe them. And though this is a fictional show- I have my emotions invested in this, that I can't stop reacting.

Parents are the Ultimate role models for their Children. Every word, movements and action has an effect. No other person or outside force has a greater influence on a child other than the Parent. - Bob Keeshan

Have a wonderful day/ evening and Love 🤗...NO WAR, Please!!!!

Originally posted by: IFollower

(Ladies/ Guys (if any here)... Please do not read if you do not like Ishita or IshRa being commented).

Thank You Coco..for starting the thread and it was wonderful to see Gan's collages. I was feeling disappointed, as was logging in, knowing that Gan is not gonna post for a bit- till the track gets better. And was wondering where to go. And here U r, with ur lovely quote anddd... Gan's collages!!

I did not watch the episode from 23rd, Monday but watched the Tuesday, 24th March episode, after reading a few posts here. The first few minutes of the court scene was so heart-breaking. Did they have to show that? 😭😭!! Ruhanika is a fab actress. Bless her!!

Coming to the current episode, it was certainly a GOOD episode. Almost close to reality, the consequences of such decisions- on both parties. Though DT, KP and the rest of the ensemble cast did complete justice to their roles, I am sorry to say- I haven't felt an ounce of pity for them. Not even seeing their tears. Even Ishita's falling ill and calling out for Ruhi did not move me.

I am not stone-hearted, in fact quite the opposite. I cry buckets 😳 watching sad scenes and hence try and avoid. But no, they could not move me. What moved me, was Ruhi baby. My question since y'day was how dare they do that to a 7yr little girl? And I was disgusted with Ishita's dialogue ki Ruhi would understand. Really? Ishita surely is delusional. She truly believes that she is a "Mahaan" and hence everyone, including a 7yr little girl would understand her 'so-called' good intentions. I am not judging or questioning Ruhi's love for her Ishima or that of Ishita's for Ruhi, neither Bhallas love for Ruhi. I am only questioning and criticising her/ their actions and the decision that she has taken. Its time for the Bhallas to face reality.

I was so happy for Ruhi's dialogues. I did not think for a sec, she was OTT. She was bang on! That little girl had seen a lot in her few years of life. Yes, agreed- she is more perceptive and mature for her age, and in fact more than her 12yr brother. But, she is still a child- especially a child, who saw neglect from her dad, who sought out love and found love in her Ishima, who started building a secure home in her heart, who started rejoicing in her new found HOME (the true sense of home). And what did she receive?? Public humiliation of not being wanted, and that too coming out of her Ishima's mouth.

What Ruhi is going through is EMOTIONAL ABUSE!! She has already been through NEGLECT by her father in the past. These are quite serious, when we talk about Child Abuse cases.

Though it is not about Adi Vs Ruhi, Adi was at least fortunate enough not to go thro' them. He felt wanted and loved, albeit for the wrong reasons, but he doesnt know that.

The only other scene I liked was Raman threatening Shagun and thankfully wiping off that ugly smirk of her face. God... can someone just slap that smirk of her face forever??!!! What kind of a human is she? Such Narcissistic personality. She truly doesn't care for anyone, including her own kids. She already started her slow-poisoning of Ruhi. And boy, I was so glad that Ruhi just walked away from there. Smart little princess!!

As many of you have already pointed, I did not understand the logic behind the Bhallas shushing off Ruhi's topic. Why????? Some of U, very clever people, rightly pointed out that by dusting it under the carpet is not gonna solve the problem. Adi needs to be talked to. I haven't watched the previous episodes, hence cannot comment if Raman talked to Adi or not, regarding the suicide ?attempt. He is a 12yr old, old enough and smart enough (even to scheme and plot) to understand things. He should be explained things, be shown right from wrong and also to directly address the ?suicide attempt. But having said this, who in Bhalla's family is smart enough to do that in the 1st place? Its high time for them to buckle up and do the right, sensible, mature things for once.

Well, anyway, YHM started to fail logic long time back.

IshRa's scene did nothing to me . Surprised by myself. I am a romantic but unfortunately didnt work today.

I am sorry to have offended anyone. Not my intention. These are purely my PoV, my opinions. I do not like negative criticism, it drains me. But, I have not been able to stop myself since y'day. From being a quiet spectator that I was, in the last day, I have made so many posts on this topic. NOT me!! But this heart-breaking of a child broke my patience.

Again, please do not misunderstand me. I'm not bashing any real people here, just the characters.

I am all for IshRu, then anyone and anything else. And if it comes to Ishita or Ruhi- RUHI all the way. I know what children go through when they feel unwanted. And I've seen so many cases of Neglect/ Abuse in children that, there are no words to describe them. And though this is a fictional show- I have my emotions invested in this, that I can't stop reacting.

Parents are the Ultimate role models for their Children. Every word, movements and action has an effect. No other person or outside force has a greater influence on a child other than the Parent. - Bob Keeshan

Have a wonderful day/ evening and Love 🤗...NO WAR, Please!!!!

Updated on page 5! 😳

Originally posted by: Veeann

KP has a bad back. He wrote that in a tweet response to DT on his gumrah ask me anything promotion.

Yes I saw that and also DT is pretty tall almost same height as KP...it's not easy...

Originally posted by: krishy13

Gan...I already messaged you but your collages are on point today! I didn't see the first one on Twitter but I love it!

Puttar blasting Shagun = #winning = I could watch this all day urrrday!

Also if I saw correctly on Twitter...did you get an Instagram for your collages?

Thanks Krishy! yep just got one this week 😃