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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Chessy



We all have been disappointed enough so far, Adi and Ru are not the same. ADI's wishes will always be fulfilled by Raman but Ru not so much. Even today raman is like adi tension over now ruhi... And then when Ishu is very sick i need to do something quickly. Sorry, but that's how it's been till date need to see raman pining for RU, isn't she his kid?.

Also Shaggy and Ashok can torture ishra mostly thru kids they are a big bargaining chip for them. And ishu should cry for a while to garner sympathy from trp. Aunties so... Will wait and watch :)



But we have seen Raman pining for Ruhi...the party scene at the beginning of the show where he broke down in tears after talking to her is to date one of my favorite scenes! Yes he has always made mistakes thanks to his love for Adi but during the early show, he would rectify them for Ruhi. Plus he married a woman he vehemently disliked for Ruhi's security (even though it appeared to be to beat Shagun/Ashok, I refuse to believe that was the only motivation).

Even with Ishita's crying...it's about her and not how Ruhi taking this issue. Idk that sounds callous but has anyone asked what Ruhi is mentally experiencing? I agree with what a lot of others say...even if I want to 100% enjoy Ishita & Raman becoming closer without any pretense, seeing things from Ruhi's perspective puts a damper on things!

Kids as bargaining chips = 🤢
Edited by krishy13 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If they are trying to show Ishra bonding without Ruhi, it's the wrong way to go. We as audience are emotionally attached to Ruhi, many started to watch the show because of Ishru relationship so it is hard to digest Ishita and especially Raman so chilled out about getting Ruhi back, leaving her with an abusive women like Shagun, even if conveniently they moved her to mihirs. In the real world a family would have been shattered and they would do everything possible to bring their child back asap. I can't enjoy Ishra bonding when Ruhi is not with them and now CVs it looks like are moving on to another track, it's hard to digest.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: momb24

I never write on LU😳

If they are trying to show Ishra bonding without Ruhi, it's the wrong way to go. We as audience are emotionally attached to Ruhi, many started to watch the show because of Ishru relationship so it is hard to digest Ishita and especially Raman so chilled out about getting Ruhi back, leaving her with an abusive women like Shagun, even if conveniently they moved her to mihirs. In the real world a family would have been shattered and they would do everything possible to bring their child back asap. I can't enjoy Ishra bonding when Ruhi is not with them and now CVs it looks like are moving on to another track, it's hard to digest.


Raman is not chilled out .. he is indirectly trying ruhi cums into safe hands...Mihir came into picture due to ruhi's remain in secure hands...
i guess its for 1 month after they can apply for ruhi's custody...that ws what Ishu said in car with romi after talking to vandu in one scene that after 1 month adi's custody they can apply for..i guess for ruhi it would be same ...
sametime raman stopped shagun's monetary help...but due to this ruhi doesnt get into problem he asks mihir to cum into picture
but its a gloomy in everything Raman trying to make ishu cheer up it more looks like keeping going in life even in sad times...
Edited by Badtameez_Dil - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Chessy


Hope it turns out that way.

But given that Ruhi is with Minky and she is safe we seriously can't bash the CVS as much anymore. Maybe they did it due to all our bashings. CVS also like mu as that means chemistry and more making up... Maybe this track is more for miku to go out of ashoks life and shaggy to enter?

That's what makes me think Raman is not going to win this battle anytime soon.

What you say might happen but not so soon :) CVs are like shaggy :) and like Raman to fall flat on his own challenges. How for the best.


Of course he ain't winning the battle anytime soon. But this fact is definitely going to be added to the list of Shagun's shortcomings. And Raman knowing about this will have him at advantage in the longer run is all I am saying. 😊

And honestly I think Shagun's character will be left alone eventually. I don't know what will come of Mihika and Ashok yet. But Shagun I don't think is going to have a settled life again. Does not deserve to.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Anku-


Of course he ain't winning the battle anytime soon. But this fact is definitely going to be added to the list of Shagun's shortcomings. And Raman knowing about this will have him at advantage in the longer run is all I am saying. 😊

And honestly I think Shagun's character will be left alone eventually. I don't know what will come of Mihika and Ashok yet. But Shagun I don't think is going to have a settled life again. Does not deserve to.


i guess shagun will eventually get Ashok..after raman manages to bring Mihika bk to home...
after that the only motive of shagun-ashok life will have to get after raman's life...😆
ashok can create problem in raman's life through shagun...


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Posted: 10 years ago
@Anku, Ishita- Thanks for the LU!!! You guys are saviors!🤗
@Krishy- That is the crux of the matter right? Ruhi's insecurities are being completely ignored. They need a huge jhatka I guess to wake up-Hope she is back home soon. Showing her hate/forget Ishita and become Shagun's daughter would be completely destroying the base of this show i.e nature vs nurture.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Not going to justify this track at all. I mean the one aspect of the track (what they do with the custody of the kids) Just because the creatives delay things related to them on purpose. Or show IshRa bonding over this void OR show a step by step detailed track before bringing it to conclusion for the sake of 'drama' I don't think its taken that either of the parents differ between their children. Ishita loves Ruhi more that is a given but she does love Adi too. Same way Raman loves Adi and Ruhi equally. He just becomes weak when its about Adi I believe. Sometimes some people (whatever the sex/gender of that person maybe) are a weakness to someone for some reason.

And I am not justifying the track here or the character but never in the show have I felt that Raman loved any child less than the other.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Not going to justify this track at all. I mean the one aspect of the track (what they do with the custody of the kids) Just because the creatives delay things related to them on purpose. Or show IshRa bonding over this void OR show a step by step detailed track before bringing it to conclusion for the sake of 'drama' I don't think its taken that either of the parents differ between their children. Ishita loves Ruhi more that is a given but she does love Adi too. Same way Raman loves Adi and Ruhi equally. He just becomes weak when its about Adi I believe. Sometimes some people (whatever the sex/gender of that person maybe) are a weakness to someone for some reason.


And I am not justifying the track here or the character but never in the show have I felt that Raman loved any child less than the other.



👏 Word, Anku! It's just a really messy situation for Raman & Ishita right now.

Because the creators clearly are thinking about the logical facets of the show, I hope they clearly explain to the audience again why Ruhi's custody is not being sought sooner rather than later!

As a random aside, if the CVs want to make this interesting for us (which they won't) and keep Shagun's character around with intent...they could show her actually becoming a mother to Ruhi.
Edited by krishy13 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
today i was watching the episode were ishu is talking to sleeping Adi and before there was scene where ruhi was with shagun...
My younger daughter (7 years ruhi's age ) saw me watching it..
She asked me have they exchanged kids mama..

she said aise thodi hota hai..bacche exchange nahin hote hain..

I just told her they are just staying for few days like that..

even a small child knows bacche exchange nahin hote hain 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: krishy13



👏 Word, Anku! It's just a really messy situation for Raman & Ishita right now.

Because the creators clearly are thinking about the logical facets of the show, I hope they clearly explain to the audience again why Ruhi's custody is not being sought sooner rather than later!

As a random aside, if the CVs want to make this interesting for us (which they won't) and keep Shagun's character around with intent...they could show her actually becoming a mother to Ruhi.


Yes. In real life if I am made to choose between two of my kids. I might never be able to do it. But in fiction if you have to just show it for a track, for something that they have planned... that kind of situation is messy for Raman and Ishita both. (Not that it justified what Ruhi goes through AT ALL) But like Ishita says, that although they did this, it does not mean they love the other kid any less. At that point they had to take one of the two worse decisions, and taking any would lead to pain for them. They opted for the one that would save the life of a child.

I am just going to say one thing. YES I hate how emotions of both the children are shown to be taken for granted in these dramatic tracks. And yes YHM is not as it was when it comes to tight scripts and balance and I rant about it. But YHM is STILL the one soap that shows even drama a lot decently to others. I've seen children characters in other stories, where they show the worst of worst that could be. YHM still has its soul where it should be. And that I still believe even through its inconsistency.

But definitely even if they had to show Ishita and Ruhi parting it could be done in a better way. Not so extreme like I said even before.

And I guess they did explain that a custody cannot be reapplied for before a month? Ishita did say that in the car.
Edited by -Anku- - 10 years ago

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