YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #62 - Page 72

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Nichhs the convo last night makes more sense now.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Hi Aabha you are welcome 😊

The track definitely has more to it, the episode cant be just those two lines right? And there has to be a build-up to even Ruhi behaving rudely with Ishita if she does that because hate is too strong a word and frankly spoilers have a tendency to exaggerate too sometimes so dont buy it until you see it thats what I believe.

this track is more focused on the kids and IshRa becoming the parents of TWO kids now in every manner there is and not just one...before when Adi came and stayed with the Bhallas, he was always stuck with Shagun but that has changed now, he has no one or at least thats what he feels. In this moment of his crisis, of his identity, his worth, his very existence he will find that the people he thought never cared have loved him all along - his dad and his family, unlike his mom who just pretended to do so.

And the road to parenting is never easy, when two kids are involved in the picture it becomes even more dicey.

If we get 2 consecutive happy episodes I would be over the moon I tell ya because since the marriage that never happened track I have been sorely missing those, hopefully when this drama comes to an end and Ruhi, Adi are with the Bhallas permanently we may see some of them. Like the teacher also said that vacations are about to start in less than a month, so once the kids swap drama ends they can have episdes of the 4 - IshRa & Ruhi, Adi bonding - it could be with them helping the kids for their exams or enjoying the vacations anything. I would love some happy times then myself but until then there is no hope.

Originally posted by: Nichuss

@aani i agree to wht u wrote

thats wht upcoming so clear frm spoilers...

and thing wont stop thr... as ishu will get high fever raman is goin to take everything in his hands...

now wt we can wait is... how ishra goin to get thr 2 kids safe... n bring back

selfish mother v/s selfish father... but both want 2 kids safe...

lets see... only that i can say

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Okay...well the new spoiler of Raman behaving like a selfish father and all...just like Ishita was accused of being a selfish mother a few days back...in a way its wonderful.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Before all of you start what the hell let me explain myself.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Like I stated earlir, this track is about IshRa becoming parents of TWO kids and not just one - Ruhi is the center of Ishita' universe and Adi is Raman' weakness. When it comes to these two IshRa have no rationality left in them because their first instinct is to listen to their heart which isnt always processing the pros and cons of their actions, it just feels and reacts and they move along the way they do.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">In what seems to be the upcoming case Ishita is taking Adi under her wing now, she is becoming the mother of a child who absolutely hated her...when she fled she didnt think I am getting a son or that Raman will get the son he so loves for whom I tolerated Shagun for months on end under my roof - no she thought - I am losing my daughter - but now that she knows that acting on impulse helped no one she is back to her self, which is why she even thought of what Adi might be feeling in this moment and asked Raman to make sure Adi doesnt feel unloved, unwanted - the kid needs to know his dad loves him, she knows Raman wants his son to love him and so wanted the father-son to bond.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">In taking care of him as she is about to do, in asking Raman to look after him Ishita is becoming the mother of a son, even if she isntconsciousof her actions,subconsciously.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Now Raman is gonna do something for which he will probably regret - he may have taken Ishita' words to heart a little more than needed and overestimated the capactity of his daughter' tolerance which makes him take the decision he does or will.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Raman has always been a father of two - he loves his kids unconditionally and blindly, but whats new to him is also this whole aspect - of fathering both his children at the same time and maintaining a balance while doing so, not even unintentionally slight one of his kids in doing something for the other. Ruhi was a baby when Adi had left, he overlooked Ruhi for a better part of her life and it took Ishita coming in their lives to make him realize how he loves his daughter, to get close to her.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Now Raman has a new ace to master, new balls to juggle - he has to learn to parent two kids at the SAME time, when he never faced this situation before.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">When parents have a second child, they need to make sure that the first one doesnt feel shadowed by the new baby or neglected or unloved because now his/her parents have someone else to love - these kids have stayed under the same roof before in these months but the stipulation was while they had the same father, their mothers were different in their minds - there were 3 parents involved in the picture...and the shadow/ghost of an almost parent that lurked in the past as a baggage, Ashok, who Adi had accepted as a parent, as his dad.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Now this couple who so far came together for one child and fell in love by parenting her will have another kid to parent, one who they do love, but one whom they have to learn to parent as things go along while the kids, they too have to now have a new beginning. For Ruhi it would be having a family where her parents love another child just as much as her, her elder brother, who has faced tough times and is more vulnerable than her. For Adi the new beginning would be learning to acknowledge his new family - he loves Ruhi now, thats a given, so sibling revelry is not his problem, at least not currently, for him it will be adapting to stability - adapting to a set of parents he thought never loved him but in fact do, trusting that unlike Shagun and Ashok, they are not using, manipulating him - realizing that he is loved by Ishita and Raman unconditionally.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">The whole track if you look at it is Metamorphosis.</font>

Originally posted by: Chessy

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Thanks for the in depth analysis. . But ishita' first love isRuhi. . How will she cope with the situatio? And rRaman is notttrying to parent here he is expectingishita to do the job. And again taking a decision without consulting the wife. . Where is the husband wife relationship heading to?

Like to knowuu r perspective

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

New spoiler Nichhs read it

Could be they use this modelling assignment thing against Shagun in court - she definitely has no financial backing - they can make it seem she is using Ruhi instead of earning herself to maintain her lifestyle...it can be anything frankly cause I dont see the relevance of Ruhi suddenly becoming a child model otherwise

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Okay...well the new spoiler of Raman behaving like a selfish father and all...just like Ishita was accused of being a selfish mother a few days back...in a way its wonderful.

Before all of you start what the hell let me explain myself.

Like I stated earlir, this track is about IshRa becoming parents of TWO kids and not just one - Ruhi is the center of Ishita' universe and Adi is Raman' weakness. When it comes to these two IshRa have no rationality left in them because their first instinct is to listen to their heart which isnt always processing the pros and cons of their actions, it just feels and reacts and they move along the way they do.

In what seems to be the upcoming case Ishita is taking Adi under her wing now, she is becoming the mother of a child who absolutely hated her...when she fled she didnt think I am getting a son or that Raman will get the son he so loves for whom I tolerated Shagun for months on end under my roof - no she thought - I am losing my daughter - but now that she knows that acting on impulse helped no one she is back to her self, which is why she even thought of what Adi might be feeling in this moment and asked Raman to make sure Adi doesnt feel unloved, unwanted - the kid needs to know his dad loves him, she knows Raman wants his son to love him and so wanted the father-son to bond.

In taking care of him as she is about to do, in asking Raman to look after him Ishita is becoming the mother of a son, even if she isnt conscious of her actions, subconsciously.

Now Raman is gonna do something for which he will probably regret - he may have taken Ishita' words to heart a little more than needed and overestimated the capactity of his daughter' tolerance which makes him take the decision he does or will.

Raman has always been a father of two - he loves his kids unconditionally and blindly, but whats new to him is also this whole aspect - of fathering both his children at the same time and maintaining a balance while doing so, not even unintentionally slight one of his kids in doing something for the other. Ruhi was a baby when Adi had left, he overlooked Ruhi for a better part of her life and it took Ishita coming in their lives to make him realize how he loves his daughter, to get close to her.

Now Raman has a new ace to master, new balls to juggle - he has to learn to parent two kids at the SAME time, when he never faced this situation before.

When parents have a second child, they need to make sure that the first one doesnt feel shadowed by the new baby or neglected or unloved because now his/her parents have someone else to love - these kids have stayed under the same roof before in these months but the stipulation was while they had the same father, their mothers were different in their minds - there were 3 parents involved in the picture...and the shadow/ghost of an almost parent that lurked in the past as a baggage, Ashok, who Adi had accepted as a parent, as his dad.

Now this couple who so far came together for one child and fell in love by parenting her will have another kid to parent, one who they do love, but one whom they have to learn to parent as things go along while the kids, they too have to now have a new beginning. For Ruhi it would be having a family where her parents love another child just as much as her, her elder brother, who has faced tough times and is more vulnerable than her. For Adi the new beginning would be learning to acknowledge his new family - he loves Ruhi now, thats a given, so sibling revelry is not his problem, at least not currently, for him it will be adapting to stability - adapting to a set of parents he thought never loved him but in fact do, trusting that unlike Shagun and Ashok, they are not using, manipulating him - realizing that he is loved by Ishita and Raman unconditionally.

The whole track if you look at it is Metamorphosis.

Originally posted by: Nichuss

just now read

to b frank this make sense...

and finally raman will get his lesson same like wt happnd in accident track...

which made him realise to send adi to jail

same thing will happen...

due to toshiji Gkc and Raman andha pyaar for adi(ruhi pyaar cant b compared... )

is goin to b rectified... now

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Hey Aani 😃 I LOVE when I see you posting here.

I read through all your posts and all I have to see is I TOTALLY AGREE. I've been reading the spoilers, which are abrupt one liners and nothing more. We don't even know how it all builds, so it seems way to early to form an opinion.

I never side any characters or get into Raman Versus Ishita. So in this case too seeing the story as a whole I come to agree with your POV that now is the time for Raman and Ishita to become parents to both Adi and Ruhi. And when this switch happens, it's obviously going to be a rough road. Any change that happens in life, it takes time to settle and the people undergoing it take time to cope with them too.

So far, Ruhi has been Ishita's only focus, her life, the reason of her existence. She's had to think only about her. And Shagun and Adi were one family. Adi and Ruhi have different mothers, but Raman is the common factor here. Yes Adi is his weakness (and those who you pine for, always do become so) but he loves both his kids equally. Yes on the surface it seems that he's taking Ruhi and even Ishita for granted when he thinks of letting Ruhi be with Shagun. But to think of it, here he is the one who has to think for both the kids. Things are going too quick for Adi. He feels unloved, ignored and abandoned. On top of that, a revelation that his mom always ever used him would break him. So Raman as a father watching out his feelings in this process isn't all that wrong..And even Ishita does that, more than even he does. So going by her concerns and her words last night he is probably going to make decisions without thinking too deeply and he's going to regret it.

But as you said, this is the journey of IshRa of being parents to only Ruhi, to both Adi and Ruhi. It's going to be tough and both are going to make mistakes. But it's never easy when custody, divorces and siblings are involved. Siblings that have stayed with different set of parents all life and need to find a balance. This is actually an interesting track and I hope they deal well with it.