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Originally posted by: krishy13
Popping in for a quick study break!About this idea of their family's expectation of them...it's something Paru & I started to discuss in the context of leaving the house. If just Ishita & Ruhi left to make a stance, Raman would come to value them more (and very quickly) but it won't solve anything. Their family now has very unrealistic expectations of them. Anytime sh*t hits the fan, it's time to call Raman and/or Ishita in.What's equally disturbing about both the Bhalla & Iyer family is no one has shown any concern about what Shagun said about Ishita & Raman's relationship. For a couple so clearly in love, how can their families lack any sense of introspection to realize that they are partially responsible for the lack of progress in Ishita & Raman's relationship.Ishita & Raman both love too deeply and that's why they can't tell their families 'no.' And how could we expect them to? Their lives are so centered around their families, and it's in their basic character sketches to love and protect fiercely. It's the Bhalla (and even Iyer) family's job to realize what a toll their drama is taking on Ishita & Raman.What happened to the scheming mother-in-laws & father-in-laws from their anniversary? For the first time in a while, they actually prioritized Ishita & Raman even though things weren't a walk in the cake at home. Suddenly more crap has happened, and they've lost their priorities.It should be Mr. & Mrs. Bhallas job to help straighten out their kids lives. Not Raman and Ishita. They need to free them of some of the burden and soon.___@Gan & @Aun - the edited pictures & GIFs of last year's Holi episode are AWESOME and really refreshing after today's episode! I may or may not rewatch that episode before I go to bed tonight!I love seeing #Sassy Biwi & #Hotwa Angry Puttar (☺️)
Krishy I get what you're saying but the thing with these families is that they have become as unrecognizable as ISHRA themselves. That was the thing that pissed me off, as I mentioned in my post- the Bhallas just standing back and watching ISHRA duke it out over them and do nothing. Same thing with Shrieky's accusations, they did nothing. Someone rightly poi ted out yesterday that when Shagun pushed Ishu, the only person that rushed to save her, that held her up was Madhu... symbolic in the truest sense.
To answer your question, I feel like the family who helped them out and brought themtogetehr is not the ones we see now- somewhere in the middle of the SHADHI/ASMI crapfest, they all got replaced by zombies that just repeat the same old tired lines.🤢
And beside that, ISHRA are adults. They need to prioritize themselves. Okay they love their family and put their needs first but they need to realize that their relationship matters, that they matter and do something to help it become fertile again. Because they can't depend on the families to patch them up each time, they shouldn't. They need to be selfish and realize selfishness is not a bad thing. They need to come together and say 'I matter, you matter, we matter and from now on that's a priority' because only if that happens will they be a strong couple for whatever Shrieky and her villainous compatriots have stored in the future.
Yes the families need to recognize that their drama and issues are affecting the couple but they can't stop ISHRA from getting involved, that's who they are and that's who they will always be- but if ISHRA choose to approach the future incidents as a couple with the promise that no matter what the ISHRA relationship will get priority and not be tarnished as they fight their families' battles together then that would work. But that decision and promise needs to come from ISHRA. The families can't give them that sense of priority.
Okay... now for my YHM...
... we can add Adhi, but Ru is the heart!😃
PS: OLV- not even gonna look, completely agree with your response.🤢
#Nope #Wrong #They deserve better #So do we #We can wait till they get it right #This is not the way #Too typical #ISHRA are not typical #Please don't
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