Raman seeking middle ground in life *NOTE pg 14*

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Posted: 10 years ago

#141

Originally posted by: beckysharp

@Krishy, @Suu, all the spoilers that I saw were for the kids swap n Mr. Bhalla's birthday n another puttar / biwi fight ... Nothing about holi as yet... So I am confused about c&c !!!

yeah thts the OLV about... About Holi.. i got it from insta.. someone posted it there... and its TOI synopsis!

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Posted: 10 years ago

#142

Hey Gan, wonderful post once again 😃

Coming to my views on the episode. I am in a total mess in the head. As messed as the story of this show seems to me now. And the spoilers just add to the confusions in my head

But I think its too premature to talk about that. So will stick to the episode.

The highlight of the episode for me was Sarika. I am really happy she spoke the way she did. Sarika isn't a commodity that can be played with, called for and sent away when they all like. And I hated Raman for taking her for granted. All along for the last few months they'd even forgotten she existed. And now when they know Romi can't have a child anymore they remember their responsibilities. I kind of felt like laughing in the scene because Raman was outright feeling shameful and it was obvious on his face, and he kept prodding for Ishita to speak because he didn't have words..

About his outrage. His tone with pathetic, his words even more and I don't think I can really justify them. BUT YES I definitely agree to your POV. Raman's been an imperfect man, a HUMAN. And this is not the first time when he spoke mindlessly venting his frustrations on Ishita. His family is in a mess, his life is a mess. There are a zillion issues going on and he just wants to set at least one right. And he's making mistakes in order to get at least SOME sort of semblance in their lives. And like you said, its not like he doesn't realize he's wrong. It's not like he does not realize Ishita is right. But he doesn't like hearing a NO from her today because he thinks when it was her time and she said she'd made a mistake and wanted to rectify it, they gave her a chance, so she should as well. I can't always justify Raman, but yes from his POV and in his mental state, his outburst was him being Raman Kumar Bhalla, the RKB we know.

But I'll have to say this. He's DEFINITELY taking her for granted. I don't think he realizes it. I don't think Ishita does, or even the writers don't .. But I as a viewer do feel so.

In the whole episode I totally loved Ishita's stand. She wanted to do the right thing. She thought going to Sarika wasn't morally right. She did go along because she had to support Raman. She gets his point, I think she got his point even when he shouted at her. But she stood her ground. That she wouldn't force her opinions on them and did not expect them to listen out, but she wouldn't go along with their way. And I think that's what hurt Raman..

The episode was a complex mix of opinions and emotions. A good start to a track. BUT I hate how YHM has amazing starts for a tracks, but never a justified conclusion.

P.S -- Raman is in a mess at this moment because of all the million issues surrounding him. He's hanging on by a thread and when it breaks, he's going to make mistakes. And they're going to cost him and the family a LOT. THAT if I am right on guessing what follows after the spoilers play out.

Edited by -Anku- - 10 years ago

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Sunita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#143

Originally posted by: Tiadas03

I'm totally with u on that one Krishy
I'm sooo scared of the cvs Hope they don't do something highly stupid n make us cry 😭
It's d worst that could happen at this point. Even them romancing is funny after the way he's treating her bt Thts still bearable. N I never mind Ishra romance even if it's just to pacify us 😆 Can't help it I'm a sucker fr their romance n since they seem to have become stagnant I would love something more 😳.
But the big C in a behosh I state is just Eeewww 😡

I agree Krishy and Tia... I read that in one of the spoilers and i found my head spinning.. Its highly unacceptable.. We fool fans having been waiting for that big Day of theirs and they r winding it up in behosh C! Not cool at all... I wouldnt mind if they romance while being on nasha and then fall off to sleep. Esp the way Raman is behaving with Ishita now.. i dont think anything can happen.. I just wish the spoilers are wrong! I got to see some pics also of Holi from Insta.. Ruhi's account! All looked decent.. aage jaake pata nahi wt they r gonna do.. Putter Biwi looked yummy in that!😳

I agree even i happened to watch that particular of SNS! Ohhh creepp it was... That hero hated her terribly and their C was not shown in detail too.. I hate them! and thn she got preggy and we got to see an emotional-less, expression-less baap-would-be!

Instead of Cn C, i would prefer separation now with the current on-going track! Puttar has been taking her for granted lately! 😡

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Sunita

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Posted: 10 years ago

#144

HAPPYYY HOLIII EVERYONEEE!😳 Play Safe!😊

Somewhere down the line I feel after all this Shaguniya drama, Mihika-Ashok kaand will be out and mihika will be set as a free bird. I feel Sarika is simply taking a revenge on Romi or to teach him a lesson something like that. I never liked her. So my brain goes in this direction. Bhallas will get to knw this and throws her out. and i guess... CVs might get Mihika and Romi hitched!

Anything can happen.. Its all my assumption! bcz ab Mihika will not Mihir!

P:S I love Romi-Mihika jodi! I was watching IshRa Holi dance and these two came in one frame and so the above idea just popped up in my brain!😃