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Nisha/Anu: My new friend is Iyer 😊 , she was super surprized when I offered her little guy idlli as I had just made some for lunch...She said she never expected seeing idlli in a punjabi house 😆.

I was randomly watching an episode of zindagi gulzaar hai and i started associating alot of traits of Kashaf with RB and Zaroon with II, then slowly i even saw alot of RB in Zaroon and then i felt they are all human traits somewhere present in all of us, some a bit more some less, some we are aware some not and thats wat makes it so relatable and yet a mystery and so interesting to read...

Originally posted by: taara113

I was randomly watching an episode of zindagi gulzaar hai and i started associating alot of traits of Kashaf with RB and Zaroon with II, then slowly i even saw alot of RB in Zaroon and then i felt they are all human traits somewhere present in all of us, some a bit more some less, some we are aware some not and thats wat makes it so relatable and yet a myatery and so interesting to read...

Kudos to you Nish fr creating such brilliant characters :)

Totally agree !!
👏

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

Nisha/Anu: My new friend is Iyer😊, she was super surprized when I offered her little guy idlli as I had just made some for lunch...She said she never expected seeing idlli in a punjabi house😆.

Awesome!!! Me in dentists all aptmemt getting rescheduled before the storm ..u can give her ideas on a lot of Iyer traditions now 😃

Prenup according to Google :
an agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail.
This is what I google in the dentists office 😃

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

Nisha/Anu: My new friend is Iyer 😊 , she was super surprized when I offered her little guy idlli as I had just made some for lunch...She said she never expected seeing idlli in a punjabi house 😆.

Originally posted by: swathi1990

But what insecurities ? Is she doing it for manny or chachi or others? If it is so, Is she going to announce about her prenup to everyone during her wedding so that they all decide that she is not a gold digger ? If not, what is the point ? People who want to think that she is a gold digger is going to think like that anyway unless she is announces it publicly.

Even if they seperate later, she can very well refuse every financial aid at that time. Why prenup ? Whom is she trying to convince that she is not a gold digger ? I seriously don't get it

Prenup is not sitting well with me either. It almost means she does not believe in them or in this relationship. If this marriage breaks then she can refuse any money from him instead of making a prenup even before their journey starts. Poor thing she is one cofused individual right now .
Eagerly waiting on how Raman is going to handle this.

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

Prenup according to Google :
an agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail.
This is what I google in the dentists office 😃

I totally understand people's concerns about II asking for a prenup. Of course she is nervous what began as a searing attraction is now a full blown marriage proposal. For her HE IS THE ONE. She will never love anyone ever again, she never LOVED anyone. She ONLY loves him... however corny that sounds... except nobody knows, she hasn't even told Akka explicitly

What some of you see as rude, or utterly stupid, I see as sensible and practical.
I created her this way, because how can anyone in her position be trusting and logical and unquestioning? Isnt that a bit much to ask? Its not DDLJ.
Thats a grossly unreasonable expectation Yes he proposed to her. WHY should she trust him unconditionally?

He belongs to a different galaxy as far as wealth, lifestyle, habits, culture and personality go, there will never be any manned missions to those galaxies from her planet.
And she is going to go live there? For good?
At the very least she is a number 12 on his list of conquests. His family believed he would marry someone older and French. Ranjan cheated on Savita, he didn't even have multiple girlfriends before his marriage, yet...he did at age 60? Her Appa hates him thoroughly.


So many things in this relationship are just so out of her control IMO.
I don't think she lives every moment in suspicion that R&B is going to cheat or Appa is going to break them up. But those are definitely clear and present dangers.


This prenup is a little reality check for HERSELF. It's for no one else. JUST FOR HERSELF. Its like paying towards unemployment insurance, or getting car insurance
NOBODY expects a new car to crash, nobody expects to get laid off, thinking about bad things will not make it happen


But God forbid some day because of events beyond HER control things fall apart, she can pat herself on her back and say "I was not completely insane when I nodded my head, I protected my self respect and dignity at least a LITTLE BIT by insisting I don't want anything that belonged to him". She hopes to walk away "unscathed".

There is no walking away unscathed from a guy like R&B. She knows that too. She would have invested on Rakshasan.. exponentially emotionally and physically by then ... For her there is NO going back... , like they say in legal terms "restoring a person to the state prior to the occurrence of the event". That cant happen for II, in knowing him and being loved by him she will be... forever changed. Then why do it?

So she can pretend to be unhurt and intact. However sad that sounds.


I believe ONLY in movies do leading ladies look at the world through rose tinted glasses start wearing million rupee sarees and and jewelry like they are entitled to it. I crafted her this way because its thought provoking and dignified, and helps her maintain her self esteem.
She loves him insanely and doesn't want him to ever find out. It's a secret she will take to her grave.


You can all hate her for this, but that's how she is.

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

I totally understand people's concerns about II asking for a prenup. Of course she is nervous what began as a searing attraction is now a full blown marriage proposal. For her HE IS THE ONE. She will never love anyone ever again, she never LOVED anyone. She ONLY loves him... however corny that sounds... except nobody knows, she hasn't even told Akka explicitly

What some of you see as rude, or utterly stupid, I see as sensible and practical.
I created her this way, because how can anyone in her position be trusting and logical and unquestioning? Isnt that a bit much to ask? Its not DDLJ.
Thats a grossly unreasonable expectation Yes he proposed to her. WHY should she trust him unconditionally?

He belongs to a different galaxy as far as wealth, lifestyle, habits, culture and personality go, there will never be any manned missions to those galaxies from her planet.
And she is going to go live there? For good?
At the very least she is a number 12 on his list of conquests. His family believed he would marry someone older and French. Ranjan cheated on Savita, he didn't even have multiple girlfriends before his marriage, yet...he did at age 60? Her Appa hates him thoroughly.


So many things in this relationship are just so out of her control IMO.
I don't think she lives every moment in suspicion that R&B is going to cheat or Appa is going to break them up. But those are definitely clear and present dangers.


This prenup is a little reality check for HERSELF. It's for no one else. JUST FOR HERSELF. Its like paying towards unemployment insurance, or getting car insurance
NOBODY expects a new car to crash, nobody expects to get laid off, thinking about bad things will not make it happen


But God forbid some day because of events beyond HER control things fall apart, she can pat herself on her back and say "I was not completely insane when I nodded my head, I protected my self respect and dignity at least a LITTLE BIT by insisting I don't want anything that belonged to him". She hopes to walk away "unscathed".

There is no walking away unscathed from a guy like R&B. She knows that too. She would have invested on Rakshasan.. exponentially emotionally and physically by then ... For her there is NO going back... , like they say in legal terms "restoring a person to the state prior to the occurrence of the event". That cant happen for II, in knowing him and being loved by him she will be... forever changed. Then why do it?

So she can pretend to be unhurt and intact. However sad that sounds.


I believe ONLY in movies do leading ladies look at the world through rose tinted glasses start wearing million rupee sarees and and jewelry like they are entitled to it. I crafted her this way because its thought provoking and dignified, and helps her maintain her self esteem.
She loves him insanely and doesn't want him to ever find out. It's a secret she will take to her grave.


You can all hate her for this, but that's how she is.