Tum dena saath mera *Updated* - Page 4

Originally posted by: SurrealFantasy

Res for a detailed reply and for the happiness of seeing an entire expression on Shagun's face. #luckyme

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I usually talk about the scenes, but today I'll start my talk about the relationships shown -

Ishita - Raman : People have felt that Ishita isn't there for Raman enough. I kindly like to disagree, especially seeing how she has always been his support whenever Adi, his greatest weakness, has been considered. Today was just another day in the turbulent lives of Ishita and Raman. It was all there - his guilt at being the cause behind their father's disrespect, at being the reason behind the sudden bitterness and drama in the happy ceremony for their nephew/niece and sister; her complete denial for his baseless guilt and wiping away his tears without a second thought. An almost exact role exchange from the molestation fiasco. They've exchanged their roles, but at the end of the day, all Shagun has managed to do is cement their relationship even stronger. they've become companions to such an extent - being able to calm a person's insecurities and tame a person's guilt - that Shagun is surely going to fall flat on her face no matter what ridiculous ploy she adopts. I absolutely adored the way he asks "tumhe mujhpe bharosa hai" and she instinctively says "poora bharosa hai." No second thoughts. Not a second to think about it. These two live with that trust - bonded with that mutual feeling of absolutely needing the other person to complete his/her self - forged by first "majboori" then "dosti" and now "pyaar."

Totally agree. She has been there for him, trying to give him strength and emotional support

Amma - Appa - The same story played out in the house of the senior Iyers. Appa's guilt and Amma's consoling. Neena ji cries so well. The first few seconds before Appa enters - beautiful. Amma rightfully tells Appa that in a marriage you have to share and solve problems together. It applies to their kids too - Ishita and Raman always try to shield the other person and go around fixing troubles themselves. Param, then accident, then license and the list is endless. They need to understand that they are wheels of the SAME car - there's only a certain point a single wheel can drag to. At some point, both the wheels need to spin in tandem.

Lovely analogy. Wish Ishra would learn more from Amma and Appa. Also is it weird that they don't show this type of relationship between Toshiji and Papaji? Its just usually them having fun with each other (loaded) which is nice, or him telling her to be calm down. Papaji is one of my favorite characters because he is so sensible. Would be nice to see more scenes with him. I used to especially like his and Appa's friendship.

The rest of the episode had Romi's realization and for the first time I didn't skip it. Aly had good expressions - mellow and of someone at his lowest. He has fallen - and knows that Shagun was the hurdle that put him down. And his realization in itself showed that even he believes what we've been saying for quite sometime now - he's lost his brain cells along with his swimmers.

Tomorrow he's gonna confront Shagun and she's going to call him impotent? Right? Did she say those exact words - 'cause I changed the channel once RKB gave his last dialogue. Any way doesn't impotence mean not being able to do the deed because you-know-why. Romi is infertile/sterile but not impotent, right? Am I trying to read too much into this or is Shagun being her stupid self?

I will enjoy watching Shagun dig her own grave. Yep keep pushing Romi back to his family and hopefully he will confide in his actual bhabhi this time.

Anyway, more than IshRa, I loved that RKB IS BACK IN ACTION.

He has lost his impotence (😆) - puts forth his conditions before his boss, rightly looks at the CCTV cameras, discovers what has happened, calls Subbu, locates Romi, understands his ploy and dons those glasses like some action flick hero and says that he's going to wait for the culprit to turn back home. Pack your bags faster Shagun because #RKBfoundhisballs

So then, we have the hitting on the head with a pan thing. Reminds me of Tom and Jerry so bad. #angerissues

I really want Ishita and Romi to team up now - the scene where he eats all of the undercooked chicken for Ishita comes to mind. As irresponsible and immature of a guy he is, his relationship with Ishita has been pure - his anger on Param when he says her name in the farmhouse and the Suraj drama. #bhabhidevar

Love the way you describe this. I've always had a problem with Romi as a character even though I enjoy watching Aly Goni's performance. How they can have him do the things he does and expect us to laugh at his joke the next week is weird to me. Here's hoping for a proper reformation track for this character where he wins over Sarika not because of his problem but because of the problem he left her in.

Originally posted by: Drb6

Aw KP and DT look amazing in those screencaps. Looking forward to this scene. Thanks Gan.

I think Ishita has supported and consoled Raman before, especially regarding Adi so I don't feel like this is new. What does feel new is her physical consolation which is nice to see. Raman has done that a few times (when she was molested/Ruhi custody etc) but Ishita hadn't. I never had an issue with her not expressing her support in this way because she is a fairly conservative character so it took her awhile to start being more open with him physically. It seems like a natural progression to this point.

What I've liked watching over the last couple of months is that they are so comfortable giving each other front/side hugs in emotional scenes while barely touching in sexually charged scenes. Love that duality, it seems so true to the type of relationship they have where friendship came first before love.

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Yes the consoling style was different...He had discussed issues but for her to 'baby' him was something new...something very couple like...sometimes a little touch has more healing power than words of comfort/ support. Raman had done it with Toshijee once when he had forced Ishita to apologize to Adi and Shagun which upset Ruhi...where he cried his heart out holding his Mom. Today's scene had a similar feeling...only she seeked him out and gathered him in her embrace.

Originally posted by: arshi21

I loved that scene.

But was there anything else to watch in today's episode? I mean, don't get me wrong, it was very very emotional and I loved the way she held him and soothed him and how the moment she reassured him he went back to being the man he is, self assured.

I also loved that scene where his parents and ishita are there when he is talking to his boss and how they all support him. I liked all that. Also mr. and mrs. iyer scene.

But what is Shagun doing?

I mean what? So Romi is gonna keep quiet because he thinks he cannot tell everyone that his sperm count has become low. And Shagun will slyly manage to manipulate things again and get away?

Raman will hit and blast Romi but he will keep quiet? And the Shagun drama will go on?

So Shagun can do anything and everything and get away?

Ishita needs to gear up her jagga jasoosi now. like NOW.

I am so tired of all this. I actually felt like barfing when I saw her onscreen today.

Anita used to make me love to hate her initially. Now? She just makes me want to puke. Her drama is getting too much. TOO much. And I can't take it anymore. However less time she gets, I don't like her onscreen anymore.

Her incessant self chatter is so annoying that I swear to God, I want to pull her hair, punch her in the face, drag her bodily out of the house, ALL at the same time and I think doing this STILL won't give me satisfaction.

That's how irritated I am.

WHY IS THERE NO END? WHY CAN'T WE SEE AN ENDING TO THIS NONSENSE?

PS: Lovely lovely lovely Collage :)

PPS: Agar Ishita-Raman ki anniversary dikhayi inhone...AGAR...AND if Shagun drama doesn't stop by then (basically before the consummation) I am going to kill someone.

I don't believe it. Refrain from doing 'it' for ONE year when a couple like Ishra stay in the SAME room SAME house? Its a little too far fetched for hindi drama fiction also. Tch tch.