Tum dena saath mera *Updated*

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"What is home? My favorite definition is "a safe place," a place where one is free from attack, a place where one experiences secure relationships and affirmation. It's a place where people share and understand each other. Its relationships are nurturing. The people in it do not need to be perfect; instead, they need to be honest, loving, supportive,
recognizing a common humanity that makes all of us vulnerable."
Gladys Hunt


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Finally Raman,the guy who internalizes everything and embraces all that goes wrong around him as his fault, somehow has found someone to lend her shoulder for him to support him on those days. It's a beautiful scene where a wife steps in and coddled her hubby as she knows how he must be blaming himself and helps him through his emotions. It was such an emotional scene...she just gave him what he needed...a tender touch, some words of comfort, her shoulder to lay his head on and the caress of her soothing voice...and unequivocal support.

To say I was touched by the tenderness of the scene would not express how moved I was by that scene. KP and DT are great emotional actors and they just raised the emotional quotient of the scene to make it transcend the medium and pull at our heart strings.

This is a very favorite song of mine...the scene reminded me of this song

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BAqgHmIwp00&feature=youtu.be[/YOUTUBE]
Link: http://youtu.be/BAqgHmIwp00

Notes
  • Loved...RKB in Jagga jasoos mode 😛


  • Loved the Appa Amma scene...and yes couples need to share their problems together and not hide from each other and go through it alone.

  • What the heck is Shagun's plan wrt Romi...I'm baffled by it

  • It's a shame that the #1 villain, Ashok has become an afterthought in the CV's mind...such a wastage of talent. I really felt bad for Sangram today.





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Posted: 10 years ago
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G the collage today is so precious that I have been staring at it for a long time, it conveys the essence of the scene so well and transports me back to the world of Raman and Ishita in a jiffy.

I am a sucker for emotional scenes where the characters are allowed to bare their souls to each other and connect at a deeper level, where words are often not needed because the eyes do all the talking and a gentle touch does all the healing.

I loved how puttar was being tough and angry with the outside world but as soon as he saw missus enter their room, his eyes mellowed down, his shoulders drooped and hurt he was suppressing all this time was out in the open. That's what true love does, it gives us the strength to be ourselves, it allows us to be vulnerable, it allows us to be human. As soon as he saw Ishita, the gravity of the situation hit him, he was a broken man once again, the cause of trouble for his family which now included his in laws. I absolutely loved that without words the missus just took puttar in her arms and wiped away his fears, she helped his tears dry up and gave him the confidence he needed to overcome this new hiccup in their life.

I had said it before on one of your threads and I will see it here again with the fear of it sounding incestuous but it is not. When I see a broken down Raman in Ishita's arm I almost see a mother taking over the wife and coddling away her husband's troubles. The love between a mother and child is so pious that sometimes that dynamic is needed in a relationship to cast away doubts and troubled time. I don't know if I made any sense and it seems like I am rambling on so I will end it here.

While watching today's episode I wondered what if Shagun had walked in to that room where Raman stood broken and dejected, what kind of wife and a partner would she have been in that situation, would she have cared about his tears or the tears spoiling her designer sarees. Thank the lord the witch left my puttar and now he has the missus to coddle him in love.

I wish Shagun had seen the comfort, love, understanding and acceptance between Raman and Ishita, not because I wanted her to be jealous but because for once I wanted her to see what real love means, what it feels like to have someone in your life that genuinely cares, has your back and is your strength.

Romi: This too shall pass, your swimmers don't swim but your bun is already cooking in someone's oven and next time talk to a doctor in a clinic and not in a shady hotel. Amen brother!

Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago
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Today's episode.. Oh God, how beautiful it was...😳👏

Right from taking a firm stand with his family and on his decisions, to he being apologetic about the whole ruined up GodhBharai to finding comfort on his wife's shoulder to being detective about the robbery...👏

So muchh better than kitchen politics.. I am so glad that CV's started moving quick.

KP and DT burned the screen with their emotional acting.. Oh God, I literally got carried away and I just love that way when Biwi was cudding and supporting Putter morally... How sweet.. I was in Awe... Today Ishita turned out to be his private pillow to cry on! A beautiful beautiful moment. Nothing romantic and sensuous but a heart-touching and assurance feel.

The dialouges that touched me today was "tume mujhpe bharosa hai" and pat comes her reply "Pura bharosa hai" was simply WOW!👏

And the ease at which she was handling him, just similar to how she handles Ruhi. Ishita was extra soft spoken today while comforting Putter, where only he can hear her. My favorite again.

Putter in detective mode was the best... Ok, I really need to fangirl now or else I will lose my mind (already lost)😆😆😆 He looked even hotter today, esp when Gussa element comes... Very fresh and delectable too!😳 His form without blazer and first two buttons open with clean shaved chest! Hailaaa☺️☺️☺️

(Alright Ladies, I am not getting desperate, Dont take me wrong😆)

I loved Rinki-Raman conversation. Ever since Rinki came into Bhalla House, she had been there as a cameo in few scenes like shopping or with her accounts books and in others completely vanished.

Today a proper conversation with her Raman Bhai was great to see. She had few dialouges to say and express. Love their bond!

Shagun and her intensions.. Bullshit.. What is she gonna earn by hurting Romi.. she wanted IshRa right? Kheir, I will be happy when she is literally thrown out of the house by ADI and I hope that comes soon.. I just read somewhere Adi will gain trust from Ishita.. It seems he will overhear their conversation. Hope thats true!

Romi ko aakal aya finally.. Bwhahaha!! Get ready to be hit with Tawa. Bechara Tawa.. Ab Biwi Dosa kaise banayengee!?😆😆😆

Gan Di... EXQUISITE COLLAGE😳 and That Super Awesome Quote.. Totally agree and loved it!👏

"There is nothing like staying at home for real comfort".. and here "Home" , I refer to your respective spouse, finding solace. I don't know if it makes sense here😕
Edited by avni_19 - 10 years ago
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I am back to edit my comment 😆. The only thing I was looking forward to in the morning was your collage. All put together in to one looks beautiful ! Treat to the eyes. With your permission of course.. Can I save your collages please ? I am madly in love with them 😳.. The definition of Home which you've posted took me back years behind ! Way back in school we were given a similar definition for home and we were asked to memorize the same... Ahhh ! Beautiful days ..

Coming to the episode, Are CVs alright mentally 😲😲 ?? They have been giving 3 fast paced episodes on the trot. But Shagun has been focused less this week, Is that the reason ?? Whatever it may be !!! Right now I am really happy and literally clapping in excitement 👏👏👏👏... But I must give it to them for giving us some really good emotional episodes like the one today. KP and DT nailed it with their emotions. Gan you know my craziness .. I am one of those crazy DIVAN AT members and so this episode was like DIVAN ❤️...

I do not know if Raman's boss had to say that Ishitha is the only sensible Bhalla but the smile that lit Puttar's face was out of the world infact the same proud feeling he felt when Ruhi defended her Ishima the same say at the Godhbharai function. Also the smile on Toshiji was also genuine when Ishith was praised and Puttar looked at Ishitha just for a flaash second but whatever that conveyed was lovely and heart warming. Raman can get really tender hearted and is a grounded fellow. When his boss almost begged him to take back his position the change in his attitude, the gratitude for his boss and something every employee expects from his/ her boss is trust and whatever the problem may be discuss the issue internally before blowing it up. These are the tiny little things we expect from the CVs instead of the same old boring Sauten drama. This episode gave the much needed break for the drama ahead.

Romi your swimmers are done for life give it a break. They might start kicking 🤣 not directly but your seed which is growing in Sarika's oven will so till then relax. Get one thing clear she will definitely come back in your life and you have your Bhai and Bhabhi to get hooked with Sarika. So please chill maro 🥱.. What on earth made you believe Bimbo of all the people ?? You have have taken a lame step so please reap the harvest ! Whether you spare Shagun or not your Bhai has planned solid dhulai 🤣. But personally I am with puttar for thrashing Romi ! Every time that guy has messed he has very conveniently got his way out of the mess. Yes Pan might sound a bit over the board but I am taking it for all of his Khaand till date. He is still planning to blame Mr. Iyer for the robbery so that might be one of the reasons for Puttar going over board. We have to wait a little more to see how it all unfolds. Whatever it is I am with Puttar. At the same time if his "MAJHBHOORI" ever comes out the first person who will support him will be Puttar and Biwi !! I am 100% confident about that.

My favorite part ❤️❤️... That emotional moment between the two. We have seen them sharing their personal things with each other only when the issue goes out of hand but today both sat together right in the beginning 😳. That hug and when he pulled him on to her chest for comfort . I can stare at the scene for hours. They have come a long way. When she held on to him there was no discomfort and it was with "Haq" which made it all the more special 😳.


Those words when she blamed the fate which is none other than Shagun 🤢. True ! Whatever problems they have faced till date have all been set up by her. Otherwise a lot of things would have happened by now including C & C 😕. They really can't do much about it unless we say a GOODBYE to Bimbo . Puttar wanted her to help him out and Biwi was there with her healing touch and words. Whatever happens between the trust for each other is too much to break. So in a way this scene says Good Luck Bimbo you have a huge wall to jump and no ladder (GKC) will help you.

Oh before that !! Scope for gutter thoughts .. Loads .. Huge chunk of Biwi's pallu was over Puttar's shoulder ☺️❤️☺️❤️☺️...

Coming up RKB 👏.. I am waiting for the episode already !

P.S: Other GIFs posting them separately 😳


Edited by arunabhi - 10 years ago
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Res for a detailed reply and for the happiness of seeing an entire expression on Shagun's face. #luckyme
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I usually talk about the scenes, but today I'll start my talk about the relationships shown -

Ishita - Raman : People have felt that Ishita isn't there for Raman enough. I kindly like to disagree, especially seeing how she has always been his support whenever Adi, his greatest weakness, has been considered. Today was just another day in the turbulent lives of Ishita and Raman. It was all there - his guilt at being the cause behind their father's disrespect, at being the reason behind the sudden bitterness and drama in the happy ceremony for their nephew/niece and sister; her complete denial for his baseless guilt and wiping away his tears without a second thought. An almost exact role exchange from the molestation fiasco. They've exchanged their roles, but at the end of the day, all Shagun has managed to do is cement their relationship even stronger. they've become companions to such an extent - being able to calm a person's insecurities and tame a person's guilt - that Shagun is surely going to fall flat on her face no matter what ridiculous ploy she adopts. I absolutely adored the way he asks "tumhe mujhpe bharosa hai" and she instinctively says "poora bharosa hai." No second thoughts. Not a second to think about it. These two live with that trust - bonded with that mutual feeling of absolutely needing the other person to complete his/her self - forged by first "majboori" then "dosti" and now "pyaar."

Amma - Appa - The same story played out in the house of the senior Iyers. Appa's guilt and Amma's consoling. Neena ji cries so well. The first few seconds before Appa enters - beautiful. Amma rightfully tells Appa that in a marriage you have to share and solve problems together. It applies to their kids too - Ishita and Raman always try to shield the other person and go around fixing troubles themselves. Param, then accident, then license and the list is endless. They need to understand that they are wheels of the SAME car - there's only a certain point a single wheel can drag to. At some point, both the wheels need to spin in tandem.

The rest of the episode had Romi's realization and for the first time I didn't skip it. Aly had good expressions - mellow and of someone at his lowest. He has fallen - and knows that Shagun was the hurdle that put him down. And his realization in itself showed that even he believes what we've been saying for quite sometime now - he's lost his brain cells along with his swimmers.

Tomorrow he's gonna confront Shagun and she's going to call him impotent? Right? Did she say those exact words - 'cause I changed the channel once RKB gave his last dialogue. Any way doesn't impotence mean not being able to do the deed because you-know-why. Romi is infertile/sterile but not impotent, right? Am I trying to read too much into this or is Shagun being her stupid self?

Anyway, more than IshRa, I loved that RKB IS BACK IN ACTION.

He has lost his impotence (😆) - puts forth his conditions before his boss, rightly looks at the CCTV cameras, discovers what has happened, calls Subbu, locates Romi, understands his ploy and dons those glasses like some action flick hero and says that he's going to wait for the culprit to turn back home. Pack your bags faster Shagun because #RKBfoundhisballs

So then, we have the hitting on the head with a pan thing. Reminds me of Tom and Jerry so bad. #angerissues

I really want Ishita and Romi to team up now - the scene where he eats all of the undercooked chicken for Ishita comes to mind. As irresponsible and immature of a guy he is, his relationship with Ishita has been pure - his anger on Param when he says her name in the farmhouse and the Suraj drama. #bhabhidevar


To Shagun's plan:



What is the crux of the plan? How will Romi and Raman falling out help her in any way?

Edited by SurrealFantasy - 10 years ago
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A very good episode. Loved Raman standing up for a Appa, Ishita consoling Raman and Raman in his detective avatar. One thing that puzzles me is what is Shagun's plan? She said actual fun starts now seeing Romi's call. What is she going to get by putting Romi into trouble?
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Episode was nice and fast paced... i liked how Raman told Ashok not to interfere in there family matters... Mr and Mrs iyer scen was good.. Again I liked talk between Raman and his boss it was so evident in Raman's boss words that how much he trusts Raman and his loyalty towards his company good scen... Romi I am angry on him and also felt bad for him after watching precap he knows he done a big mistake by trusting shagun... but now he can't do much as damage has been done... let's see how romi's track go further... hope he chose the right path..


Coming to my favorite ishra that consoling scen was Beautiful but wanted it to be more longer... i loved how ishu hugged him by side and he rested his head near her chest though it was short... i loved how he asked ishu Tumhe mujhpe Bharosa hai na (you trust me na) and ishu assured him poora Bharosa hai Raman(i fully trust you) it was very beautiful... Loved it and KP and DT as always done great job ❤️


I am happy today RKB got good screen space and he was full on jagga jasoos mode... 😃
Edited by s_kavya - 10 years ago
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It was very good episode with ishu consoling raman loved how ishu wiped his tears
and then RKB jaga Jasoos mode
So at end he figured it out its romi

Yeah the story is getting fast paced but shagun ki toh waha ki wahi hai na use koi Kyu dafa nahi karta koi? She is still there at BH her story track is for two months now when is that going to end? It's taking forever 😕
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Shagun Pray tell us...What is your plan? 😕



The episode was total paisa vasool...It is so great to see Raman in his element after so long...I mean it was more on-off these past few weeks but things seems to have to normal and how.

Things I liked 😳

RKB is back!!!
Raman not thinking twice about his decision about resigning rather feeling guilty that he paved way for this chaos by getting Appa this job 😭 Guilty Raman is painful to watch. The firm (He kept forward conditions regarding their working arrangement and communication) yet respectful (He said the man's guidance was a necessary aspect for him and the company to flourish) Raman when his Boss requested him to take the resignation back...even if said only verbally. Determination was oozing out of him when he saw Appa's empty cabin. His resolve to find the culprit and all his instincts pushing the right buttons 👏 And Finally Sherlock Raman Holmes solves it...which mean kal we get Saucepan wala action But what I loved most about Raman's scenes were they were downright LOGICAL...How he connects the dots, how he calls Subramaniyam, how Romi's name comes into the picture, the fact that somebody who knew where the CCTV is, the guards duty shifts etc etc in short it was RKB standard

IshRa moment - She is his pillar, just like he is hers and they keep proving it with every passing episode. I really don't know what Shagun's game is anymore. I am sure it was never to get back into Raman's life as his wife but still she wanted to get that status, power and position through the GKC's which she is hoping to achieve. How? Is a million dollar question because if at any level her teeny tiny brain (If one exists) gives her the satisfaction by doing all this she will get into Raman's life then she is mistaken as hell because kuch ho na ho Raman's love for Ishita just keeps growing by leaps and bounds, setting deeply and strengthening immensely. I am sure his words I can never sacrifice you/ let go of you for anyone will play a major game here when time comes. Shagun ko muh ke bal girna hi padega!!!

Romi Reality Bites and it hurts like a bit*h : So Romi puts two and two together and figures out Shagun played him...Good but will his selfishness get the better of him or will he decide to confide in someone if not his entire family as to what made him take such drastic steps that brought shame to the entire family. Shagun feels that because Romi is hesitating to reveal the truth she has a trump card...for once can we see Romi act mature and responsible which will not only earn him some respect but the way the Bhalla's are or the way IshRa is they will do everything in their power to help their brother.

Mr. and Mrs. Iyer Moment : What happened to them was unfortunate but their bond just strengthened yet again. Mrs. Iyer's dialogues was something that is said from sheer experience " Yeh Marriage hai
Vishwa, hum dono ko duty hai ek dusre ka dhyaan rakna" So true...There is nothing powerful than a married couple storming the weathers together come what may...and hopefully IshRa too who has the tendency of solving issues alone will realize this that together they are a force unbeatable.

Rest of the episode...Meh 🥱!!!

Let the fireworks begin!!!!

Edited by stylish_VJ - 10 years ago
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"People cry, not because they are weak because they've been strong for too long." ~Johnny Depp

I will hold you up when you can't stand, I will wipe away your tears when you cry, and I will fight for you when you give up and I will love you forever and always.~Unknown
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