Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 7

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Well unfortunately

It looks like we won't get that

But still I would say that

I don't agree with Raman

Originally posted by: mnr123

Frankly speaking I dont think Ishita is insecure coz she cant bear a child. If that was the case then it means she thinks Ruhi is not her own daughter. She is happy in her own space as far as Child is concerned.

Her insecurity lies in the fact that she never questions the other person. - After Subbu dumped her, she never questioned him what, y, how? Never takes her frustration out, never speaks up about what she feels. She lets it pass n let time take its course of action. Like when she knew Sanjana issue - she didnt speak up what was ailing her rather walled herself up n didnt allow Raman to know what was her problem.

Here too while Raman was yelling at her for bad parenting she is not yelling back at him counting his own bad parenting mistakes.

Y she does that - coz she thinks that the other person shud know how unjust they r on their own. Hence she takes this silent route.

Originally posted by: iffanvidz

it seems rinki started to bracket mihir😆

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

yes she does deserve it 😳 I am just saying, Adi is her weak spot too

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Megha lucky

Reality is that makers didn't work on depth of ishita character like raman character. They were busy to show her mahan selfless and goddess type person and only to glorify her they've put other character down or compromise with other character and things get mess. It would have been better only of they did work on ishita character as a human who is not complete and have her own human error.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Megha lucky

Reality is that makers didn't work on depth of ishita character like raman character. They were busy to show her mahan selfless and goddess type person and only to glorify her they've put other character down or compromise with other character and things get mess. It would have been better only of they did work on ishita character as a human who is not complete and have her own human error.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

R for raman

I am not defending raman he was wrong because he didn't stood up ishita his wife and I m sure he will redeem to in future

About disappointing by raman. He is getting disappointed by ishira from many time so he also has right to disappoint ishita. Atleast ishits will have ruhi and other family member with her unlike raman getting disappointed and no one there to give warmth to him not even his kids and lovely wife for whom he is fighting

About loosing ruhi the reality of his life hos both kids preference their mom over him

About mihir sanity wo to hona hi tha because he is away from iyer girl 😆

About shagun wo tp useless nikli kaha ishita redemption jealousy track dekhna tha fir sw raman guilt trip mil gaya. It's not lame but boring and repetitive to see raman always wrong though most of the time he was not wrong it's ishita who was wrong still he was on guilt trip and ask for apology

When we will get ishita redemption and jealousy track bwcause of raman guilt trip was there to taken her for granted than ishita also need atleast one guilt trip because it's her who mostly taken this relationship for granted 😛

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

😭 I really didnt have any more will left today to write more on serious topics... sorry for the brevity in my reply, but I hope you will understand what I am trying to say 😳

What I see is not insecurity for not being able to bear children. But insecurity that she wont be accepted (or she wont get love, even deserve love) from other people because she cannot bear children. That makes her think she needs to compromise to keep everyone happy. Because if she doesnt, then why do they even need her ? and that perhaps also comes out in her relationship with her in-laws. Did I make sense ?

IF Ruhi shows even an iota of liking for Shagun, we'll see Ishita's insecurity come up. Not because she thinks she is not really Ruhi's mother. But because she will think that even Ruhi doesnt need her anymore.