Raman Kumar Bhalla...Please come Back Soon - Page 6

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..

Nikki, dil khush kardia tune. 🤗 that's why I feel. It was normal for a Father to shout because, a husband do rely on his wife to take care of his children and when the one goes missing. So, they do shout on their wife. I found it a normal scene but people were assuming too much and were continously bashing Puttar. If you people see, puttar didn't forced Ishu to sorry to Shagun. He just took out his frustration on her because he is scared that he might loose his son. He even talked with Mr. Bhalla that how can he say Ishu to sorry to Shagun when she doesn't have done anything. It was Toshi Ji who told Ishu to appologize. Finally, the track looks promising.

Originally posted by: MonalSingh

Yaar, we always agree to disagree. 😛 And I write to express my view, not to change anyone's thought. Simply because I don't have that power or patience in me. 😆

Hug nehi milne wala hai till IshRa wedding anniversary unless Puttar becomes "despo". 😉

Originally posted by: taara113

Its not a matter of national importance you don't have to go changing pov 😉 but iv read a few of ur comments im sure uv got d power...patience welll...

N yr between all this drama im hoping they will give one toffee episode...

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

i respect ur pov dear...but i hv a completely diff opinion..!!

i knw i will be in minority...but i am likin this track since past few epis as CVs r finally working on it for a closure of this track jabse TRP DROP happened 😆😆...well this is wht i feel now...but i wnt be surprised if CVs does somethin stupid n make me throw away all positive feelings i hv for this track..!!

as of now,i lik the track n heres my pov..!!

doesnt in real life a husband shout at his wife or vice versa in a heated moment?isnt tht normal?

Raman IS HUMAN...n so his shoutin evn if its wrong its a natural human reaction..!!

Also its NOT forced-Raman shoutin on Ishu in prev epi when Adi had gone missing...see before this track,Raman had kinda come into terms with not been lucky enough to hv Adi back in his life..!! but via this track,he ws actually livin some moments which he thought he lost forever...past few days he ws livin his dream...think frm Raman as a father pov..!! n then when he saw Adi is not there,its lik some1 brutally took away the dream from him which he thought it wsnt dream but reality..!! n thts he got extremely panicked n see evn his thoughts were extreme on if adi ended up in some situation not good for kids n all..!! n unfortunately ishu ws the one present there-toh he had to vent out his panick,fears lik this n its quite natural..if he ws really serious abt his allegations on Ishita then y on earth he would praise her infront of shagun..he STILL beleives Ishita only can be a good mom to adi..!! tht momentary shoutin ws just a fear of a father who thought once again he lost the opportunity to hv his son back to his life..!!


Lik i said before,this track is finally comin on line post TRP drop..i am ABLE to connect with IshRa..well Raman se mera most of the times se toh tha hi..but Ishita-i can see traces of old Ishu in her..!! she makin peace with toshi but still on khafa mode with Raman-is somethin normal i can expect frm a wife who evn though hv probs would try to adjust with inlaws family...but she can shw her true colors only on her husband n she hv haq too...so in this track POST TRP DROP i am actually likin the behaviour of both Raman n Ishita as both evn though wrong at some places r atleast behavin lik REAL ppl would do lik 11pm IshRa who were totally relatable...!!

n comin to tonites epi...Raman clearly din force her...Ishita n Adi-both r imp to him n thtsy he certainly cant choose one...If he wanted he could hv easily told on her face to say sorry n get my son back..but did he?no..Raman is behavin the way i thought him to behave in this track..nothin contradictory.. contradictory if he had forced her to say sorry...but he din in ishra scene n also said the same explicitly in his scene with mr bhalla tonite..

nw there ends my lecture based on epis till tonite..😳

Originally posted by: MonalSingh

EDITED

let's mull over two similar scenes:


Scene-1

Ishita heard the news of reopening of Ruhi's custody case and was shattered. Raman came to console her but only got scoldings from Ishita in return. She vented all her anger on him and shooed him away initially by saying "don't touch me". She accused him and others to come between her and her daughter's happiness every time. Deep down she very well knew though that Raman was not at fault at all. She even forgot that Ruhi was his daughter too and it had hurt him equally to visualize his daughter parting away from him.

Many of us us justified the rudeness and harshness of Ishita by saying that she wasn't a wife then, she was only a mother who was scared of losing her daughter.

Scene-2

Raman saw no trace of Adi and Shagun in the house, relived his worst fear of losing his son yet again and got shattered. He asked Ishita about Adi's whereabouts and in the process vented out all his anger on her. He even accused her of being reckless and wanted to solve the matter by himself from now on. He didn't realize or forgot for a moment that Ishita was always very supportive towards Adi even though her actions might be questionable.

Many of us reprimanded him vehemently for his rudeness and harshness by saying that he is blinded by the love for his first born. He failed as a husband and whatnot.

Point to be noted, we gave different reactions to the two very similar situations. If Ishita was justified for her actions because she was a mother, then shouldn't we give Raman the same breathing space as he was then just a father too. I'm not justifying any of their activities but it's very natural for them to behave like the way they did back then. Fear of losing your child overpowers every other emotions and rationality. Hence the different treatments for two similar scenes baffled me.


Now, in today's episode Raman is again caught between two loves of his life and he's fighting hard to reach to a common ground. Yes, he's wrong for his obsession for his son. But don't we see the similar kind of obsession in Ishita for Ruhi? Just because Adi is a spoiled brat; Raman, his father, would stop loving and caring for him? If Ishita can choose Ruhi and her happiness over everything, then why can't Raman do the same for Adi?

Ishita had given him the hope that he and Adi soon would come close despite knowing the fact that it wasn't true. Raman saw his shattered dream once again coming into reality and it now pricks him to realize it on the verge of being shattered once again. Whether we agree or not, Ishita's false hope was one of the main catalysts to the situation that Raman is facing right now. Is he making mistakes and will he continue doing so? YES, because he's very much human till now and as a human being, he's got no solution either. But he'll fight and he'll fight a battle knowing that he will end up in a losing side at the end of the day. It's NOT easy being in this position but as a normal human being, he will come to a point that does proper justice to everyone.

We just have to bear in mind that Raman is NOT a god, he is very much human. And just because, he's married to a Goddess, we can't expect him to behave like a God. At the end of the day, he will always remain a human.

Originally posted by: Tulipkhanna

Agree with your each and every word. 👏👏👏

Originally posted by: PoojaSushIta

Nikki n Monal u both rock !! take a bow girls !!! Bang on post !! u both nailed it totally !!