Originally posted by: mnr123
I know Ishita has been wrong on many fronts but I think it is not justified that Raman shud blame only her for Adi's upbringing. He is Adi's dad n he himself doesnt know Adi's whereabouts?
Here Raman is not blaming her as a husband, he is blaming her as a parent. Hence in this scenario he looks wrong.
Yaar i m not defending raman at all ..infact i am not touching that topic of what happened today becoz i already said that raman ko aesa nahi kehna chaiye thaa ..he was totally wrong ..Ishita indeed is good mom.
What i am saying is ishita needs these kind of jerks from raman and bhalla family to get the reality check. Presently yes its very painful but for future its for ishu's betterment. Presently ishita has the most strongest relation with Raman ..the moment that relation breaks then what is the assurance that ruhi will remain with ishu. Ruhi was given to ishita as Mrs. Ishita raman bhalla with the condition that she be provided a safe and better environment ...jab raman se rishta totey ga then from which status she will get ruhi ..so by this which relationship needs priority its her husband. If u just keep on loving ur hubby as bf/gf then expect it like a thread jisko shagun aur adi jesay log kabhi bhee tor saktey hain.
Toshi jee shouting at ishu no problem but if she doesn't have support from her hubby than her position is weak in her susral. she is in bhalla house becoz of raman wife.
For me i m looking at the future perspective from all these recent happenings ...she needs to understand that blind trust is not enough in her relation with raman. she needs to understand why this all is happening.