CVs dont make ur hero behave like an uneducated low class man-DTNT Pg5 - Page 4

Originally posted by: paru_rox

Appu ... this has always been my pet crib with Raman Bhalla. In a nanosecond he reverts to being a screeching jerk not bothering about the time or the place. Its the same as being drunk and creating a ruckus in the very building that you live in, passing out drunk at your doorstep and behaving like an uneducated douche in case things don't work the way you want them to.

And today not only Raman but to an extent Ishita too behaved in that manner. The Ishita we know would never stand in the middle of the hall and start fighting with her husband especially knowing that Shagun was standing right there. And they were fighting, no matter what they told Shagun. Were both of them blind to not see Shagun right there? CV's & their nonsense 😡

And Adi & Ruhi ... it has always been shown that Raman has had a preference for Adi. I do not agree with RKB when he says that its because Adi was away from him. Ruhi too was away for him for the same amount of years. Its more to do with the fact that Adi is his firstborn son and that he spent many a happy years being his Dad. A time when his life was "perfect".

I really hope this is going towards an Ishra separation. Ishita has always been there for RKB and the Bhalla's -- always. They acknowledge the happiness that she has bought in their household. BUT ...they need to realize that the family, their home & lives are now incomplete without this woman. Especially Raman and the best way to do that is to be away from her. Plus I think Ishita too needs to get priorities right and understand there is a limit to being selfless especially with people like Shagun.

PS - It was incredibly mean of Raman to say that Ishita bought Shagun home and thus she's responsible for all the trouble caused by his ex-wife'e presence. I do not recall him protesting at that time ?

Originally posted by: victo

I am not trying to justify raman for yelling ishitha. But if a person who longed for any one's presence and affections for year's and if it comes to you and get glimpses of it and taken back then you will be hurt more and you will express your helplessness would become anger which can be shown only on the loved ones. This is It raman has done raman hishitha longed for adi's affections for year's. He was been eager to hear papa in adi's mouth for years which he was aggrieved for years but when he get it now he doesn't want to let it go. He thinks like ruhi ishitha also bring adi to her. When a person cannot fulfill your expectations then you may get anger on them . Raman expected ishitha can be mother of both the kids so that he need not want to see shagun's face once adi become adjustable to new atmosphere and he can make some other arrangements for shagun.

Raman always loved ruhi more than any thing he neglects her only because when he see his daughter's face he gets the images of his horrible marriage life. It outcomes when he is going to loose ruhi he can do anything to get back her which is ishra ' smarriage .hHe is ready to marry a person who he cannot tolerate even for a second and he is ready to marry ishitha

When your expectations and eagerness shatters the outburst os anger. At present raman has to understand ruhi has been craved for parents love for years when ruhi see ishitha with motherly love she suddenly accepted it which is not so in adi's case . Adi has mother who pampers him more than any one else even during the wrong doings so he cannot accept ishitha as his mother

I doesn't want to argue with you I just want to give my opinion. A CEO cannot be the same everywhere. He us also a human being. He is outburst his anger by shouting at ishitha. Though we cannot say it is right but it is not wrong too

even if Adi starts liking Ishita, why will he hate Shagun? Raman himself said Adi shud understand that his mom is most imp, then his dad and for his dad ishima is imp. Now suddenly in a mtter of days he wants her to b Ishima. He has believed Adi has changed? He is seeing Shagun making passes at him, so cant he see her intentions? For the very story u wrote abv, ishita brot Adi to Bhalla house. Now he is blaming her for that too! fact is he cant solve any emotional and relationship based issue. All he can do is shout and scream at ishita. He only loves her JM mode, but he wants to blame her for it so he can shirk all responsibility and either be blind to a problem or expect ishita to handle it. So now we can say that his love is fake and conditional for sure... Ishita loves him unconditionally with all his baggage!

Originally posted by: appuss

<font color="#ff0000">Raman blind supporters and Ishita haters if any can avoid reading this post as I have no intention to hurt ur sentiments, nor want to get into a fight of raman Vs Ishita.</font>

As much as I love raman, what we see on days like todays is unacceptable... why is he behaving like a jerk with no class?

Is Raman a CEO, a man with brains, a man who knows to behave???

The moment things go out of his way, he starts shouting, yelling and blaming.

He is being protrayed as a man who is selfish, thankless and a man with no class what so ever. Even uneducated people know how to behave with their wife...

Why should ishita be adi's ishima?, he can wish for that, but how the hell can he blame her for not being able to become that? After 12 years he is unsuccessful in taming the brat, how can he expect ishita to do it in a matter of days?

Raman praised ishita for bringing adi home, thanked god for the devi wife he got when he saw her taking care of shagun... he kept mum when both were brought home, never thought for an alternative arrangement... And now he is blaming ishita for bringing them home.

What character dvpt have raman made from accident track? In OLVs, he is again at what he does best... blaming ishita for everything and letting her say sorry by being a mute spectator.

I know, CVs will compensate everything in end by making raman choose ishita over adi... but, the damage is done...

I have never seen this blind love for ruhi till now, he used to yell at ishita in front of her... adi is not a baby anymore... How can he love that brat more than ruhi... clearly shows his double standards.

I so want ishita to walk out...shagun-adi will leave, as ashok is in the process of getting back to shagun. Then Raman will realise who will stick to him forever...

Raman proved that his love for ishita depends ... it is conditional. The moment she starts behaving like a normal woman, he will show pure hatred. All the promise to never make her cry, those vows, everything gone with the wind... and the worst part is, no valid reason given for his 360 deg. turn.

CVs plz tone down the shouting of Raman, he is looking like a street rowdy than a CEO... IT IS HIGHLY IRRITATING.

This inconsistency in raman's behaviour is a huge creativity blunder of CVs... he can express his displeasure with dignity, with respect too. And the worst part is he is not bothered that she is hurt. Is this the difference of raman's past love for shagun and his present love for ishita???

And about the social message CVs are showing, viewers are smart enough to know this is the last place to look for a positive message for the society.

the joke is viewers too believe in crazy sentiment and material things. they were annoyed with ishita for cake and ear-rings. But they forget how Raman keeps saying sweet promises to ishita when he is in a good mood and then hurts her like hell for trying to solve hos problems!

Originally posted by: commotion1

and ppl here think ishita doesnt love raman as he loves herhis actions oozes hypocrisy.Its just everyone values Ishita only if she acts according to their needs,the moment she deviates god save her
I so want Ishita to turn them down and go away,but she wont.
She wont break the promise given to Ruhi.Cvs for once show her saving her dignity.

ishita does not run away from problems, she faces them head-on. But here if Raman is going to keep questioning her and blaming her , then her patience will break and she will walk out since it will be to safeguard her self-respect!

Originally posted by: appuss

ruhi-ishita love is unconditional... Raman is strongly bonded to them too, but they are not his priority sadly.

All that is still okay. But why did he fight with Ishita in front of Shagun for Mihir topic? Why was he hyper? Does Shagun proximity still affect him? Then again he blasted her for Adi being in the house... Even Shagun said Ruhi-Adi. But he blasted just saying what if Adi was to hear? why was he shouting if he was worried for adi? what a MCP! 😡

Originally posted by: appuss

agree with you.

It is really sad that raman have no value for ishita's tears... Just imagine ur loved one crying when u blast them. Any man will atleast mellow down. But raman is so blinded by his obsession.

Both raman-shagun have one thing in common... both have no class when they shout. Worse than street rowdies

Both are the reason for all problems. Both cant solev any problems - shagun can keep creating many. Both get drunk and sleep on the road when they don't find a solution... that is why they were a perfect couple and it took raman 6 yrs to get over shagun and it seems he still loves her coz today she instigated him and he took off on ishita 😡

Originally posted by: appuss

Thanks😊

I sympathise with raman because even after getting so much in life, he is still not satisfied. He always values things which he dont have...

Ruhi-ishita will never become his priority in life... even if he chooses them, it will only be a compromise.

Yes, today raman was nothing less than a barking jerk.

Shagun is anyways throwing hints openly and flirting with Raman. So Raman has an option of going back to Shagun and Adi. he can keep visiting Ishita and Ruhi. Anywyas Ruhi is intelligent and she will be happy with Ishima and understand that Adi needs her papa. So that way he can have both children and Shagun, who he still seems to care about. Ishita has done whatever and is not required anymore!
But when he still wants to show his frustrations, he can visit Ishita and shout at her, she wont be hurt since Raman won t be her husband anyway...

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

thanks dear...have edited the post and added something in it.

She could have stopped arguing back or continue her arguments when they were in their private space! I found the entire reason for fight sort of silly. and so Ishita clinging onto her POV seemed unrealistic as well because she is shown as a person who is quite patient and non impulsive.

She generally is. But today Mihir poured his heart out to her and told her that this is what he wishes but if he even says a word to bhai bahi will kill him, so he was trying to get her help to convey his message across. Guess Raman felt annoyed with atht too, why is Mihir talking to her about his job? After all raman is the boss? He is a complete MCP

Perfect post ..u said correctly that whenever Raman can't handle situation gets angry on ishita..never think once before hurting her in front of public..I'm not watching this show from shagun marriage drama but can't stop to come on forum ..I learned lesson that never watch ekta Mata show ever ..its just trashy trash nothing else..

Raman blind supporters and Ishita haters if any can avoid reading this post as I have no intention to hurt ur sentiments, nor want to get into a fight of raman Vs Ishita.

Please avoid such disclaimers in future as this is an open forum and all posts are for all and to label anyone as a hater etc is not allowed and is rather against rules .

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