Raising questions as Viewers of YHM to Child actor's Parents. - Page 6

Originally posted by: Asclepius

Superb post mayu


First I will talk abt the show!

This show focusses on negativity!
Just to glorify female lead writer showing all nonsense stuff!

I was eager to watch adi track to see hw they deal with kid insecurities hw he comes close to ishita n raman!

But it turned out to be a big disappointment for me.
This track is not dealing with adi anymore its just dealing abt ishita!!!!!
Hw adi torturing ishita n ishita crying!!! More focus on ishita than adi..
The purpose of this track should be to show insecurities confusions adi dealing with! But here we r seeing adi planning n plotting!
I know kids get insecure watching step mother but I want cvs to focus on adi insecurities show him confused before doing such thing..atleast good monologue of adi where adi wants to come close to bhalla family.. Wanting a,good environment like ruhi n shravan!
But cvs instead of justifying his character they r justifying ishita wrong moves n focussing more on ishita crying on step mother thing!
It's not important to show ishita suffering they should focus on hw adi is confused n insecure in new environment!!! As a audience we should feel bad for adi but writer wants to create sympathy for ishita!!!
So pathetic!!

So what im trying itna kuch dikhane ke baad bhi its not serving the purpose. Adi track mei more focus on ishita sadness than adi insecurities then what's the purpose of showing this track n child actor also suffering becoz it that's one more negetive point!


Then yes coming to your post completely agree.
Child actor parents should not allow their kids to perform such roles! Specially in ekta shows where cvs go overboard with every nonsense thing!



Ruhi toh aur bhi Choti hai.. She gets dialogues like baanjh n all!!! Then as u said Ishita reading love letter n many more!

Cvs can deal with infertility thing without involving ruhi! But no they will involve her!

Adi ke baare mei I need not say anything! Bahut hi hadd kardi cvs ne! Even story doesn't demand such things!

Really feels bad for child actors who hv to do such things! On top of that audience criticising them! All this will hv only negetive affect!

Arre wen an adult mature actress cries on watching ppl bashing her which I never thought n quite surprising for me ...then think abt child actor..hw much he must be feeling bad! I hope their parents dealing properly with all this n
read this post!

Originally posted by: tushara11

MAYU.

Good post. for this essay i would like to give 10/10...

Totally good.I hope this message will be read by CVS and hope they will change their mentallity.

U have told each and everything in u r post and nothing to be added from u r side. One thing i want to say...

"CHILDREN LEARN MORE FROM WHAT YOU ARE THAN WHAT YOU TEACH"

Parents shd tell the children that, what they r doing is for the show, in that nothing reality is there

The children shd know the difference between reel and real.

I still remember, during accident track, real incident happened in INDIA, 9 year (correct age i dont know) he took the keys of his father car and made a accident and 3 to 4 people died... adi did the same thing, he is a kid and drive the car and hit amma... parents were trying to save adi... But Thank GOD, they ended this incident by punishing ADI...

THEY shd keep away children from all these kind of nonsense track...

bang on ur post 👏 very very well said 😊 n pointed out very valuble points ⭐️

sply this one --- Not by simple divorcee of
parents , kids becomes pschyo.
I know this is ficitional
character but people who are
watching this is not fictional ,
they are human with emotions.

the above said was absolutly true in every sence 👏 thr r many of kids who gone through this phase live independent frm thr parents n built thr own life distancing from tht environment nt into this plans n plots .thy only concern thr life ignoring mess asap ..

its so horrible to see kids like this either positive or negative .thy got very much influence of this roles in thr life .wish atleast now thr own parents make a glance on thr future nt on money ..

abt makers no need to say its just waste of our energy ...

once again ur post is well built n wondreful ..

Originally posted by: mayu1982

No one can deny the influence that television and the electronic media have had on specially on children..Many researchers argue that in fact television no longer reflects culture, but rather is the central cultural arm of Indian society. So far we are discussing things about Ishita Character, Raman Character , Karan, Divs and other actors related to this serial and we are rising question for their pathetic roles. Then why not ask question to parents of child-actors of YHM as viewer.

1) Adi character : In Yhm Child actor Adi character was put in violent and disturbing situations.ADI character although so called Kid was shown more an less as criminal. Then they are justifying this character because he didn't get love from the family and misguided by shagun, hence ADI becomes like this.

Fact - Adi character role is full of negativity . My Biggest question comes in my mind - Why any parents allow their kid to do such type of role? Being a mother I am not able to understand this logic at all.

Like to share article story- There was serial - forget its name- story was pathetic but read article about that serial. A kid was playing Gunda role and using gunda type language.

Slowly that child actor was so much into the character, difficult to keep balance/difference between real and reel, started the same techinque/language in school. Finally the school authority comes in action told his parents to stop him from doing all these. It was affecting him very badly. Even cv/mgmt/producer chopped that role completely.

Question- How can you allow your child to do this kind of role? It is definitely it doesn't give pleasure to see any child doing this on-screen.

2. Ruhanika - Even RUHi character these days are delivery adult dialogue. Specially Ishita reading Raman's Love letter in presence of ruhi. And then ruhi advicing raman how to confess his love and all that. It is bullshit. Absurd. Still it is not bad as adi character.

Very few ppl able to keep a balance b/w real and reel. Fact is Adi character is negative character, infact , more dangerous than Param/Ashok/Suraj character.

I am not against of shagun playing evil games or planning plotting against Ishita character. Easy to accept and doesn't affect me so much. A kid playing so much extreme negative character is painful to watch. Adi character is proof of very bad writing by writer of YHM..

Seriously drama dekho illogical drama dekho-no issue, but spare the kids.How can a writer can write such disgusting thing for a kid? I know you may say such types kids does exists in real life as well. But those kids are subjected to extreme condition.

Example- Watched Dr. Phil serial, where one kid was forcefully doing sex with other kids. When parents came to know about it they were shocked and shattered . Dr.Phil counsellor informed parents that kid itself was abused/raped by his grand-father, that is reason he is doing this thing with other kids now.

Not by simple divorcee of parents , kids becomes pschyo. I know this is ficitional character but people who are watching this is not fictional , they are human with emotions.

P.S. Not against of child actor. Nor I hate this character. I am not happy to see a kid with so much negative thoughts.It is disturbing...

@Kiran- Finally done it as per your request.Please don't debate on Kp and Divs and their role.

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Originally posted by: vinnas

bang on ur post 👏 very very well said 😊 n pointed out very valuble points ⭐️

sply this one --- Not by simple divorcee of
parents , kids becomes pschyo.
I know this is ficitional
character but people who are
watching this is not fictional ,
they are human with emotions.

the above said was absolutly true in every sence 👏 thr r many of kids who gone through this phase live independent frm thr parents n built thr own life distancing from tht environment nt into this plans n plots .thy only concern thr life ignoring mess asap ..

its so horrible to see kids like this either positive or negative .thy got very much influence of this roles in thr life .wish atleast now thr own parents make a glance on thr future nt on money ..

abt makers no need to say its just waste of our energy ...

once again ur post is well built n wondreful ..

Originally posted by: appuss

Adi character is proof of very bad writing by writer of YHM..

@bold... u said it all in this sentence

I super agree with your post... 👏

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Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

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