@Appus
I know many people think of it as cowardice 😆 to each of their own. But I can relate to this behavior of Raman. 😳
I wud do the same if my parents made me believe that I sm always problem creator n they n others in Family suffer because of me, if my child said I always make my husband cry, if my husband said u r insensitive n uncaring n most of the problems in our life is because of u, if my husband never gave me support when I kind of heard that m losing my child, if I see that my child is close to my husband n can live without me, if my inlaws too indirectly implied m not gud enough for their son. M not including Husbands best friend here coz its still an outside relation.
Somewhere Raman was made to feel that he is the root cause of every problem even by his mother. 😕 that hits hard, imagine u having no one in this world who understands u? N in this situation he wants to just leave them coz he doesnt want to create more problems for them.
N besides he wants Ishita to remarry coz Shani n Ishita made him realize that he is not good enough for Ishita, Ishita gave that long lecture to Shani that I do mistakes so does Raman n I accept him but when it comes to showing understanding towards Husband Raman n even viewers have seen none. Only till president/ license track she understood him after that none I guess. Ishita thought getting Raman ABGuild post happy but didnt realize that her spending more time with Mani is making him unhappy n Raman was happy without Abguild too, its not necessary to give the person u love Moon, all u need to do for the person u love is show Love in return. Ishita had no time for Raman during Mani track although she was trying for his own benefit.
Then during Shagun shadi track we saw her doing Shagun jaap. Ishita gave him bracelet he threw n said horrible things but rectified his mistakes n wore it again. Raman gave her cocktail party dress, ok she didnt wanted to wear in front of people but she shudnt have given it to Shagun n then in night she wears full clothes n gives another lecture that how women look sexy in full clothes - its not always about urself it is sometimes about husband too. She dressed nicely for hen party - He asked her not to go to hen party or go a little late, there she was more concerned about Mihika/Shagun than Raman.
I think in husband wife relationship is all about Priorities - in Mani track Ishita gave more importance to Mani n in Shagun shadi track more importance was given to Mihika/Shagun. Somewhere Raman started feeling that Ishita doesnt need him in her life coz she was happy with Mani/Mihika/Shagun/Ruhi/family etc.
Somewhere Ishita has not given him much needed emotional support (which actually wives give) to handle crisis situations, he too was broken as a father during Ruhi custody drama but she never said Its ok Raman mistakes happen but lets get together n solve this problem. She gave Ruhi the emotional support that Tumhare papa tumhe kahin nahi jane denge but as a wife she shud understand his pain too.