No need to watch the episode and then pen down my views.
Very well know of what would have Pati said and how it had its effects 😆
Below written may or may not make sense. Read at your own risk 😆
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Trust. Feminism. Remember. So lets it take with a pinch of salt whatever now the male lead does. No pun intended 😆
Jokes apart.
What he does, gets an attention from everyone.
Female lead stands with a sulking face, it gets more than its due attention. I respect this.
But for once, can we think from his pov. WHY the hell he is doing all this. Is it that difficult. No. Right.
Time and again he was forced by his very own loved ones, starting from his kid till his mother lately and his wife and Shani all the time few weeks back, that he is the hindrance in his wife's life and her happiness and he is not worth her.
Its not that he did not give it a try. Infact he gave many a try always that proved he cant stay away from her. Never ever.
But did anything assured him to stay back. No. Not even a single relation of his.
Even his wife got her sense back only when realised she will miss him in the upcoming days. Till then she was not that vocal about her feelings.
And what was that, "meri beti meri beti" rant on that day. C'mon he is the father of that child. Instead of being a support to him like how he did rather she went into her delusional mode and made him feel for sometime he was the reason for the custody case to reopen.
Agree, she got emotional. But if the so called ruthless and insensitive husband these days tries to read her mind. Then why cant she do the same. She claims that she loves him right?!
After making him feel responsible for every problem of their life and not worthy of her and still expect him to still hold on to this relation, it means he is needed only for their selfish reasons. I am happy that atleast he took a stand though not himself. Coz I was pissed off with "Ishita ke liye" rant of every family member for last few days.
It was just her throughout and he was not there anywhere.
Now when he is leaving them the same people realised he too exists in that house. Toshiji was a big let down too this time.
He didnt have a life even being with all of them then and dont have a life even after leaving them for their happiness now.
Madam woke up from her sleep only when got to know he wont be around to pamper her.
Where was she when he needed her the most during Shani track. Feminism. Haan. It sucks big time. This is what we call being mean.
Its nice to watch Raman showers her with his love and pampers her like a baby. Thats what we all wanted when he was so mean to her till first few months after they got married.
But its not just about one person. Right. She has to too take some afforts minus palak paneer/jagga jassos and all. In a husband wife relation, there is something more which was lacking in Ishita during one of the most sensitive Shani track.
My respect for Raman grew more during this same track only. And after that no looking back.
Most important she has to start reading his mind.
Even after indirect/direct talks, still madam not getting clue about his Shani talks. DUH!!! If she expects Raman to be sensible then she cant roam around like a child.
I thought it will take some time for her to understand the term wife. But I lost hope after a certain sequence.
To conclude;
He has to be there for everyone when they want. Then what about him?
This thought alone made me think like a sadist and I asked for seperation.
Not just because I will get to see her crying and that sulking face of her but also her to realise his worth and little bit come out of her "MEIN MEIN" rant like a goat.
I am with Raman in this guilt track coz sometimes after every sunset there is a sunrise too.
He is going through hell every minute.
But it was not different even when he was with his family.
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And did I read Shani bhagwan spoke high about Raman, the insensitive husband.
Sab problem khatam hone ke baad aana koi Shani se seekhe.
80-90s films ke climax mein aane wale police inspector bhi tere saamne kucch nahin.
Coward, aag mein haath daalne dar gaya kya.
Be a man Shani. Tell the truth to Ishita about all that you said to Raman in her absence.
Coz the root cause of this guilt track is you Shani, and the seed of guilt you successfully first planted in Raman's mind.
Edited by Bruce_L - 10 years ago