I don't understand Ishita meaning ??She was cheating...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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She said she's not at fault she's not going to apologize and she's not going to clear her relationship(friendship) with Mani to Raman... Means she's Very right at her place.
Now the question Why was she avoiding Mani with this kalakand sweet in fact what was she proving to Raman??
when someone knows what she/he has done is completely right and was not cheating on her/his partner What is there to to be proved...
Her sudden change because of Raman getting upset, angry because of her friendship with Mani means she's guilty?
At least 2 POV will enable me to clear my doubt.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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first she was CHANTING Mani Mani Mani then today as if she was talking to a stranger when someone is guilty then she behaves in such a way... I think this Mani Mani Mani help in Raman receiving the Asia award...she was very well aware then...??
These Iyer sisters change colour like chameleon.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i know it was shown sudden...but whatever she did was to show raman that her first priority is her husband and her family...she should have told but again they say na actions speak louder than voice...if she would hve given any explanation then it wud be like she is justifying her act durinf the mu track but by doing this she has shown shown everyone position in her life...this is wat i feel...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I guess sudden change bcoz she understood his insecurity...
Tht why she was saying meri shaadi ke baad taste change Ho hai hai..something like tht..dont now the actual dialogue
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lata_ishra

i know it was shown sudden...but whatever she did was to show raman that her first priority is her husband and her family...she should have told but again they say na actions speak louder than voice...if she would hve given any explanation then it wud be like she is justifying her act durinf the mu track but by doing this she has shown shown everyone position in her life...this is wat i feel...

i understand your POV here but what if you are in Mani place and a friend you help so much changed suddenly?? When Mani and Ishita are Only and only friends and nothing more but the way she said after marriage etc etc as if she's now breathing to live life..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sobha

I guess sudden change bcoz she understood his insecurity...
Tht why she was saying meri shaadi ke baad taste change Ho hai hai..something like tht..dont now the actual dialogue

But Sobha it is not done, the way she said all she seems a bit rude.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

But Sobha it is not done, the way she said all she seems a bit rude.


how was it rude??

Maybe the dialogue/lesson [shaadi ke baad choice basal jaati hai] was to show Raman that his place is before Mani, but perhaps she really does not like this sweet as much anymore... Because otherwise she could've avoided it, by saying thanks but no thanks.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is how I understood the writers...
First she was in the euphoria of meeting a long lost childhood friend...we saw her childlike chirp and bubbliness ...there was nothing to hide...and probably she did not anticipate jealously in Raman...
When she realized Raman was a tad J she loved it ...gave her a feeling of belongingness...a ray of hope that Raman cares...Then she wanted to tease him even more...
All along they worked to ensure nothing comes between Raman and his grand day.
What we saw between Ishita and Mani was on a lighter note...yanking each others chain...
All along Mani knew Ishita was in love with Raman...
Even when she stopped him from leaving it was only to prove that there was no guilt...in her...she did not do any wrong...
But when she realized (which the makers missed showing) that Raman was feeling insecure about her friendship ...she made an effort to subtly convey the message that there was no intentional relationship between them...and that she was a part and parcel of Raman's life...
I don't think Ishita has anything in her mind other than doing good to the people around her. And this includes family... friends...everyone...
This is if one were to take things positively...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Alujna - I completely get your point cause one day she says that she does not owe any explanation to Raman about her relationship with Mani and the next day she seems to take Raman's feelings into account and acts more sensibly. I blame the writers for their total lack of consistency as to what they have written for these characters and how it doesn't seem to go down well with us viewers. There was no proper closure given to the bombastic misunderstanding that was created between Raman and Ishita. Hence we as viewers are left with our heads scratching since we could not differentiate between Ishita's acts which are sometimes genuine but still questionable considering the way they have her character fluctuating to extremes. If she is a feminist then she would have gone all the way and wouldn't have had any respect for Raman's feelings like how she stood her ground the other day but today she was shown in different light where she is being a wife who cares for her husband's feelings. Are we supposed to believe that her change in behaviour is simply because he said sorry multiple times? It does not justify his behavior or her actions two nights ago.

Anyways, I set aside any logic that I had prior to watching the episode and it wasn't bad since the focus was on Raman and Ishita and I enjoyed it but if I were to look at it as a whole it was totally disjointed and lacked continuity from the past few episodes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yeah that's true, why changin' coulours so fast. I too looked into it, but it might've been that she finally came to know about the torture she was giving Raman just for making him jelly. She might've noticed that she went a little overboard with the Mani jaap. She might've come to know about this in seeing his desperation to say sorry and also wanted to have to say sorry to him, but stepped back when he himself said so.

Raman is a person who doesn't believe everything he sees, but here in this case, when he was going through what he had to suffer years ago was coming back, ofcourse he trusted her at first and believed that Ishita would never cheat on him. Here the thing is not about cheating, it's a bout why are you cheating? because here they haven't confessed yet, there are myriad emotions of the other cheating on them. The first question in his mind was 'Why?' because he knew about their friendship, how close they were, childhood friends.

Ishita would've put herself in his position and thinking form his POV, it is really difficult to handle when one lies to you. And he went through the same thing two times, but luckily she cleared everything before everything was about to fall apart. She realized her mistake and now she's just trying to set things straight.

As for the sudden change, she just did so in fear that whether he would approve of her friendship with Mani, but then he did something completely out of her thoughts. Raman realized that for him stay secure of his relationship with Ishita he has to befriend Mani too. To show Ishita that he too has gone over the petty issues he was on for thinking she was cheating on him and has settled to bring peace among them. Because for him to stay secure at all times he has to also have a good equation with Mani. And my the looks of it, their friendhip is starting out pretty well. I hope to see more of them together.

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